jbenjamin 5 months

Which app do you delete and redownload the most?

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matthewcancel 5 months

are people stilll on this app?

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lax 5 months

628 Going home and looking forward to eating the slice of cake that I’ve bought just to cheer myself up 🤤

taytay 5 months

Can Anyone recommend a good personal trainer/fitness program? Bonus if it’s in NYC!

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soupwaylee 5 months

learning tennis as a beginner has taught me so much about the importance of sportsmanship, specifically how narrow-minded some of the other beginner players are when all they do is smack the ball across the court at all cost when all we're supposed to do at this stage is practicing to rally with each other. ok rant over 🙏

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shawnmendes 5 months

Saying goodbye is never easy, but man… when I tell you hugging one of my best friends in SF for the last time tonight as they get ready to move back to the east coast was so hard. I’m so sad. This sucks so bad.

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ilikecatsalot 5 months

people who are cuffed, what measures do you take to not feel completely consumed by your love for/infatuation with your relationship/partner? i feel like there’s very few moments in my day when i’m not thinking about him (even subconsciously) and idk how healthy that is 🧍🏾

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lax 5 months

622 Reminder that you are not for everyone, neither is everyone for you which in itself is a good thing

babybird101 5 months

Apparently I’m the kind of idiot who can’t tell the difference between a Siamang song and an Indri Lemur song🤦‍♂️

lone_wanderer 5 months

Who are you rooting for at the Grammys?

harmsy2 5 months

Attending The Mayhem Ball for the 4th time this month!

lav 5 months

I see myself falling in love with so many of you.

sameshane 5 months

Btw, ANYTHING political being posted on any META platforms are being immediately flagged, censored & inaccessible. It may look like a shadowban but it's more nefarious than that. Their algorithms are picking up the texts in your photos, the things you reshare and even the messages you send. Thank you @cal for letting us still have open discourse about things that affect us globally.

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lav 5 months

Do you worry that your digital footprint and data from apps like Grindr, including data that can be sold or shared, could be used to track and target LGBTQ+ people? The same way 🧊 is targeting people right now?

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southerncowrie 5 months

I can’t even go pee because two of my coworkers are taking up the bathroom. They decided to drink an iced coffee, eating 2 cream cheese bagels during our company media day THEN split a bag of Takis while having chipotle for lunch. They’re shitting up their backs right now

hmln_leo 5 months

Had an interview with an insufferable consultancy today. “Could you imagine working for a tobacco client?” Like come on 😭

kingbabyp 5 months

don’t take it personal.

strawbrry 5 months

why does my world feel like it’s falling apart after visiting the dentist?

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sierramichhh 5 months

So the city and snow plows just said fuck the bus stops huh… do they think we’ll just levitate above the 4ft piles of snow???????

lax 5 months

629 Just finish the last episode of heated rivalry and it is a really cute end of season

lax 5 months

631 Spend the whole weekend unplanned and just taking care of myself again

sierramichhh 5 months

So pumped for national bad bunny day

harris1234 5 months

Why are there more bottoms and very few tops? Where are all the tops?

milly 5 months

I haven’t even seen Heated Rivalry mind you. I just have Hudson Williams psychosis seperate from that.

hmln_leo 5 months

Had a cute date with a cute boy

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hues 5 months

Pretending it like Less interested in Your most exteriors.

sierramichhh 5 months

Westminster dog championships is sooo silly, all the happy dogs w zoomies made me happy :)

avatar.isaac 5 months

The reason Alex Earle was in Benito Bowl is because they have the same Talent Agency. You’re welcome.

milly 5 months

Can someone pay for me to get HBO max ? You will get literally nothing in return :)

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sailormars 5 months

We are all connected. Think about that

sierramichhh 5 months

They just wanna lock everything up these days like can’t I just watch benito in peace????😫

sashafierce 5 months

Been watching quite a bit of anime lately. Maybe I’ll do some short reviews…

chrisbyerzz 5 months

Tomorrow’s my Birthday! 1/31 ✨

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_r.yang_ 5 months

Not that anyone cares, but a new chapter!

hues 5 months

I am saying something nice.

shearpaint 5 months

What’s most important when filling out your dating profile? 1.) listing green/red flags 2.) playing Two Truths and a Lie 3.) describing about your ideal match 4.) (fill in the blank)

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sierramichhh 5 months

Happy Black History Month to everybody black and may we be black in every lifetime!! 100th anniversary this year IKTR

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sierramichhh 5 months

The chokehold empanadas de queso has on my life rn,

alesmini 5 months

In Berlin till Sunday ✌️

sierramichhh 5 months

Literally enjoyed the shredded chicken burrito from taco bell again for one week before they took it off the menu again😫😫 (its been gone for 10+yrs)

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sailormars 5 months

Journaling 101: What are aspects of your old self that you grieved that have opened room for the new you?

mxaddo 5 months

I love my girls but they should NAWTTT have done Gnarly 😭

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tayyeb 5 months

Is anyone else now in their TCM era? I’m obsessed with fruit teas and morning Qi exercise

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sierramichhh 5 months

I love when aboogie do that “nananananana” shit

tsty 5 months

someone just called me cute and i fully started screaming and kicking my feet🙄

milly 5 months

If I ever say “chat” it’s in a pretending to be a twitch streamer way and absolutely never talking about chat GPT

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heyvalentinpadilla 5 months

What’s your biggest red flag that you still defend?

xhcxn 5 months

People who match and never reply?

svet_999 5 months

Which dating apps do you use? Apps like Grindr are not what I’m looking for.

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lav 5 months

NY is experiencing the most gorgeous snow rn.

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tomasderico 5 months

If you got cheeks, show em off. If you got pipe, show it off. If you got a baddie, show em off. Essentially be proud of what you have, wear it and show it with confidence 🤓😤

frdxy 5 months

If I could write you a song to make you fall in love, I’d already have you up under my arm.

llamatechnerd 5 months

Oh no!!! I just found a hat shaping block on Amazon and watched exactly one how to make a hat video (it wasn’t exactly a how to). The ol’ ADHD audacity just kicked in and now I’m a professional hat maker. Watch out Stetson! I coming for you. Haha

sierramichhh 5 months

Will never understand black men’s obsession with white women (or just anyone not black) YAWWWWWNNNN

gabe-itch 5 months

I love seeing beautiful people! Hope everyone is having a great day ! 😝🫶🏽

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