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I love Kim Gordon sm
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We’re all going to die, all of us, what a circus! That alone should make us love another but it doesn’t. We are terrorized and flattened by trivialities, we are eaten up by nothing. - Charles Bukowski
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Hate to say it, but not drinking and sticking to a healthy diet does make you feel better 🥲
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not moving forward in the interview process BUT… i have a new interview next week, it’s the start of a 5-day weekend for me, and i’m on my way to the museum to look at art 🥹
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there must be nuance.
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as far as i know, BFA is a degree certifying that you have a big fat ass…but couldnt you have gone to a doctor for cheaper than going to college??
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I wish ashley darby would get a stylist
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Contrary to popular belief, I do believe in getting my lick back. In true Gemini fashion, there’s going to be one warning and if you don’t listen to it…everything after will be truly your fault.
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I want to find a man to spend the rest of my life with. 🤵🏻‍♂️💕
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“Ah, now I don't hardly know her But I think I could love her Crimson and clover Ah when she comes walking over Now l've been waitin' to show her Crimson and clover”
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not here for the Hollywoodification of Wuthering Heights, the goat of gothic lit 🥀… I like my Brontë’s feral, not Fennell 🤪
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Anybody play fighting games, rpgs, or Honkai: Star Rail? Looking for people to play with 😛🫩
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Me offering to split the bill when I only had lipgloss and perfume in my bag😌
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Me flirting: Do you think we’re compatible?
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People’s so broken and weird
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“Your perception of me is a reflection of you; my reaction to you is an awareness of me.” Unknown
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there are too many hot people trying so hard to look hot, visit my profile to see me dressed as the coolest minion in gru’s army
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Your former situationship + your most recent situationship is in Brazil for carnival rn.. and you are stuck in the cold Northern Europe 🙃
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I hate running—my knees are buckling with every single step, lmao.
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The Katseye situation is getting scarier by the minute… nevertheless, we still #TeamManon
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Switching from Iphone to Android is harder than i imagined 💀
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Has anyone dreamt about someone they never met, then eventually meeting that person? I don’t know if it’s like a dejavu thing, when I met this person it was like two pictures colliding in my mind, like how you recognize a friend from childhood, I started recounting other dreams that I had of them in the moment too.
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In public spaces I’m so oblivious to romantic intent and physical/body language flirting cues. My friends tell me after the interaction that I was being flirted with, and scold me for not picking up the cues. 😭
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Gay bars / clubs in Seattle?
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No supernaturally shallow pieces of meat - oh hell no. Bones that deserve meat marinated in knowledge. Spaghetti Hegelese. 👍
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One thing about me, imma start it and im definitely gonna finish it
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There’s something hot about watching a man talk about nerdy things. Is it just me?
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I think we’ve established that love is not blind. This new season is…
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it would be cool if you could make group chats in here
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Everyone in here looks like they’re either on Ozempic or steroids… somebody must be catfishing…
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Where is everyone?? I POSTED
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Industry S4 EP.6 My goodness 🤯. Felt like my world just came crashing down. Whitney is diabolical.
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I miss baking I used to bake all the time For friends neighbors and work colleagues. Even dates 👀 It’s just too expensive to bake these days for the sake of it. Still miss it tho.
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I thought I was ready to date…went on a couple of dates with multiple dudes…nevermind…
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Ugh fine, I post something
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Hey, 🥶 How are you?
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I wannna go skiing 😭 ⛷️
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For the longest time I’ve been struggling to have dreams when asleep and when I did have a dream it would either end of with me dead or dying in some horrible way, arrested for something I didn’t do, or dream of something so terrifying that couldn’t sleep without having that particular dream pick up where it left off. However since taking in more supplements for stress and overall health on top of my meds I’ve been able to start having good dreams to the point where I find myself wanting to stay in bed BECAUSE of the positive dreams I’ve been having lately. On the one hand my mind is screaming “HOORAY I CAN SLEEP LIKE A NORMAL HUMAN BEING”, but on the other hand my brain is going “Wait a second, this isn’t normal. Am I about to go down some kind of dark rabbit hole?” Anyone else have something like this happen?
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Hey hotties 🔥 Alright… impress me. What’s your favorite movie and your favorite book?
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Benito Bowl made me cry 😭🤎
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I love me some Tyla… “PUT ME IN CHANNEL”
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I fear this longing is just a part of my soul and I have hurt and blamed the love that helped me bare it
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Going on a second date. First date we clicked mentally. We like a lot of the same things. But physically he’s not really my type (not bad looking though) but I want to give it a chance. Yes looking for a bf. Can it grow? Thoughts?
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The Ethics of Love: Seeing and Being Seen
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Ever since I was a kid I knew I wanted to be a Redwood tree
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Need to delete these dating apps, v over getting on well with someone and then being randomly unmatched mid convo 🙂‍↕️
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Tonight my chamber choir performed this piece by Karen Marrolli. My conductor dedicated it to Minneapolis. All it took was that simple dedication to change this seemingly sentimental piece into a protest. I couldn’t cry during the performance, but I sure as hell cried when I got home. "Grant us gentleness in power. Grant us strength to face this hour, to forgive, to offer grace, and nurture peace in every place. Grant us hope when all seems dire. Grant us faith to spark a fire, to fiercely burn, to drown the night, and set the world ablaze with light. … Grant us courage to be kind. Grant us singleness of mind to free the world from hate and fear, so only love is spoken here.”
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Enviando mucho amor a México 🇲🇽🤍
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