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Haven’t been here for such a long time, damn
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If there are bagels i’m in🙋🏻‍♂️
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twinks will be the backbone of culture
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I worked out 4x more than in the past 4 months. and then i had a14 hour shift. i’m in bed and my 🍑 and 🦵 are hurting and kinda shaky #muscle build
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Loved the latest book I read with my collective bookclub - ‘Permafrost’ by Eva Baltasar 🫶🏻
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I'm nobody special, I'm just a man. And all I can do is the best that I can. I am a sinner and I am full of flaws, And I live my life, by the luck of the draw. I make mistakes, like we all do, I make as many, if not more than you. But don't insult me, and don't call me names, Don't pass the buck, or let me take the blame. Remember to remove the plank from your eye, Cause the speck in mine, is making you cry? If first you look inside you'll see, That you can be you, and I can be me. There is no reason to call me out, Cause the human race is what I'm about. You live in your great land, and I'll live in mine, Cause name calling to me is asinine. 11/21/10 Alton Texas
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If you could start this year over, what is one thing you would pay more attention to?
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Did you know that there is a tunnel under ocean blvd?! :O
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I’ve just made a non alcoholic drink: ice, honey, ginger, lime juice, clove and water, it’s just perfect, try it.
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Collectively, as a society, how do we feel about skin tight jeans? A relic of 2016 or still socially acceptable? I’ve long since retired my Topman Spray On jeans, but I’ve seen an alarming amount of tight jeans lately.
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natural intelligence >>> artificial intelligence
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Any DJs around?🕺😎 let’s connect?
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Happy Puerto Rican day to all my Boricua Papis on here ❤️‍🔥🇵🇷
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finally got my mom to agree to give me her pearl jewelry!
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Four tet dropped an hour ago and 😮‍💨
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Hola buenas noches soy venezolano viviendo en New York como están chicos ?Hello, good evening, I'm Venezuelan living in New York, how are you guys?
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Can we bring back opossums I don’t want lymes disease
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Just beginning another week
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Anyone want to just chat about life or anything they love could be anything??
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Rewatching The Nanny. Fran Fine has always been THAT girl. The body! The fashion! The humour! icon.
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Coordinating my first food pop up at my friend’s wine bar. Super excited. Already have a supper club moment lined up for after too.
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Geographies of Distance: Remembering Home not as a stable structure but as an idea continually remade in response to change.
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Once someone said “who’s your favourite Buffy character and why is Riley ?” and I dead set have never been so offended in my LIFE ! Obviously it’s Willow. Do I look fucking stupid and boring and also straight ? Rude as hell.
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This freeze slide on gel saved my life right now in this heat🧊
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Just finished Star Trek: The Next Generation after Voyager & DS9. Which series do you recommend to watch next?
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Sometimes I think I’m living in a world full of ego. Are there more people who seek to detach themselves more from the ego and live more from the being? I hope ✨
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Pinch meee I just met Troye Sivan at the gym
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Who’s excited for House of the Dragon season 3 tonight? 🙋🏻‍♂️
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The other week I asked a customer how much they needed to buy of something and they genuinely whipped out their phone and went “hi chat, how much do I need?” Like fucking ChatGPT doesn’t know fuck. You’re genuinely cooked cunt.
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Y’all have been sleeping on Haute & Freddy. SERIOUSLY.
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Random thought: I would 100% just be friends with someone because of their dog.
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My gym bud always pushes me to go on Fridays. Do people go to the gym on Fridays? 💪🏋️🧐
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Somebody’s making money off my problems
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Hows this for weird info? Humans have been useing Kerosene since the 9th century. So they were useing liquid kerosene fuel during the dark ages, the 18th century. Aircraft grade fuel, is liturally just Super refined kerosene.
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there must be a reason why warrior and worrier sound so similarly
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Did you guys notice that I’m a really smiley person?
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So all the Greek/Roman gods were just cruising and petty. Like they would just become humans “to be amongst us” but end up sleeping with someone almost everytime or getting their lick back on someone
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It’s door dash…not “let me walk out my apartment, and meet you at the parking lot….” Don’t pmo…and yes I have directions on how to properly get to my apartment and have the “drop off at door” option…😒😒
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Sometimes I wonder if I should just move back home to Brazil. I miss home
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Why is it so hard to make new friends in your 30s?
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Growth is realizing that someone who seemingly checked all the boxes for you, is sometimes not meant for you. Hard lesson, but one I’m realizing more everyday 😣
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this reminds me of reddit and therefore everything said and done is a joke 😱 or is it 😏
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How many more lessons must I accept from the universe? Met another fascinating stranger and talked for an hour. Another straight man, again. Which in all fairness is totally fine! I’d be a hypocrite if I said it wasn’t okay. You love who you love. Heck, there’s nothing wrong with new friends. I love meeting new people. But just ONCE can the universe toss me a bone and let me meet that amazing, interesting person, and have them be gay (and single!)? Am I expecting too much?
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surgery again tmrw i’m scaredddd
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Genuinely not sure if I look younger than I am or it’s just most people younger than me have zero concept of age. Because so many fkn people have told me they assumed I was ~23
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What qualities do you most value in chosen family?
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Te juro que me voy a escapar y que si me atrapan que sea a tu lado.
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Baby, where the hell is my husband?
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