badwolf_ 2 months

me 🤝🏽 easily befriending middle aged men at work

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rwri 2 months

I have a spare ticket to Olivia Dean at the O2 this Thursday is anyone wants to join 🤪

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dlara95 2 months

Anyone else watch Half Man on HBO? I need happy recommendations after that 🫠

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eliolio 2 months

The pro of living in taiwan is that u can eat as many mangoes as u want 🤤🤤

marco 2 months

I really thought “Backrooms” was meant to be queer cinema. Like, if you pointed a gun to my head and asked me the plot is.. I’d have said “idk something gay” 😖😖 lolllll

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guel 2 months

be honest, you are on collective for: a) friends b) the views c) dates d) validation e) Tumblr meets Grindr vibes f) no idea

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p.ierre 2 months

OH MY GAY GOD! HAPPY PRIDE BABES 🏳️‍🌈

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chrissjacqq 2 months

Been playing Tomodachi life everyday, and I’ve made at least 20 Mii’s designed, named and personalized to be like characters from my favorite shows! Even a few of my favorite drag queens! I’m having so much fun!!! 😍🥰🫶🏻

havi 2 months

Not my emotions getting triple punched these last few days. Y’all please, I can’t fight all these demons

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dlara95 2 months

I hate dating sites these men don’t put any effort into their replies just one word while I’m asking them questions like damn why match with me 😞🫠

aranha 2 months

Could someone explain to me the purpose of an elevator selfie? Am I missing out on something?

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donaldgmz 2 months

After seeing Ariana on Sunday, I can’t help but hope she’s doing good. I know we’re not supposed to judge, and I’m not, she’s just really thin. So i just hope she’s doing good.

victor_mre_ 2 months

“Capitalism requires constant political intervention through austerity measures, corporate subsidies, and repression to uphold the pillars of private property and wage labor. The state acts as a protector of capital, not of the public interest.” Clara Mattei

fabianmk 2 months

Ich würde einfach nur gerne aus meinem Leben springen, in einem Schleier der freien Existenz Eine kleine Pause vom Sein Sehen wie andere weitermachen, ohne selber dabei zu sein, schwebend in der parallelen Welt Am Strand die Sonne auf der Haut genießen, ohne hin zu müssen In den Tiefen des Sees das kalte Wasser fühlen, ohne schwimmen zu müssen In den Bergen die Luft und die Weite spüren, ohne hinauf zu müssen Ich würde gerne für einen Tag aus meinem Leben springen Alles fühlen ohne Gefühle zu haben, alles spüren ohne Berührung zu suchen, alles sehen ohne die Augen zu öffnen Nicht als Ganzes ich, aber als ein Teil von mir, würde ich gerne Erfahrungen sammeln, parallel und zugleich mitten drin dabei sein, dennoch nie wirklich dort sein. Frei bewegen ohne Drang, ohne Zwang, ankommen und abreisen wenn es einem gefällt, zu sehen was es auf der Welt gibt ohne Teil dieser Welt im Jetzt zu sein. Mitten drin, doch weit entfernt, Teil des Geschehens aber nicht Teil meines Lebens in diesem parallelen Moment. Ich würde gerne für einen Tag aus meinem Leben springen Keine Arbeit, keine Verpflichtung, kein Druck Sondern einfach mein Leben zu genießen, frei von Verantwortung, frei von Erwartung mit nur einer Aufgabe, zu sein. Ich schließe meine Augen, verschließe meine Sinne und lasse den Traum in meiner Fantasie kurz erblühen, um ein Leben zu haben, das frei ist, das nur meins ist, das einlädt zu sein.

milly 2 months

I grew up with Massive Attack, from the moment I was born. Probably before that too tbh. They’re my parent’s favourite band, as well as one of mine, and we’re going to see them together in a couple of months. I will probably cry. Which, while I’m here, there’s only a single song from them that I can not listen to. We had a family friend when I was young who was like an aunt to me, she also loved Massive Attack. When I was around 6 years old she was diagnosed with cancer and now heat miser always makes me think of seeing how sick she looked when I visited her in the hospital shortly before she died. I have to remove the song from every playlist and entirely refuse to ever play it. I’m not even really sure why the trauma is related to that track, from memory teardrop played at her funeral. I think it’s something to do with the heavy breathing on it.

ethanraysor 2 months

So i’m patient, you’re learning, pretend it’s not hurting, Oh whoa… They say it’s a virtue to not let good love slip away, So i’m cool and forgiving, i’ll take what you’re giving Oh whoa… But nothing’s quite enough when i know that to get it I begged

chrisgardener 3 months

It’s been seven months since I joined the gym, today I found out I’ve gained 2kg in muscle and lost 2kg in body fat I honestly feel so happy that consistency showing up is working even with a few setbacks with my health along the way I’m still making progress I feel proud of

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adsonaquino 2 months

Genuine question.: Do you guys think that fit/“hot” guys feels superior than other people? I was thinking about that on Primavera S. Is this me being unconsciously jealous? 🤔

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sierramichhh 2 months

Unfortunately being an It girl means people will create fake beef with you but fortunately being an It girl means you never cared 🤣

southerncowrie 2 months

Chaka Khan released a new song! I repeat, Chaka Khan has released a new song!

jor_1206 2 months

Any Love Island fans???? Let’s talk🧐

lordmmo 2 months

“Discrimination is harmful no matter where it comes from even within our own community. Everyone deserves the freedom to be themselves without being judged for how they look, act, speak, or express who they are. We should celebrate individuality, not shame it. It’s time to end this prejudice and build a community based on respect, acceptance, and genuine inclusion for everyone.”

krissy-mcbee 2 months

Work done for the week! Tell me your weekend plans!

eglanger18 2 months

Forcing anyone to try to like/love you is one of the hardest things to learn and also one of the hardest things to unlearn.

satella 2 months

dating is so simple, why does society make it so hard? just notice if someone is good for you and if they’re able to adapt to what you envision for yourself, your future and your day to day life, and if not, that’s ok! 8 billion people out there, literally thank u, next by ariana but make it your mindset and you’re GOOD TO GO

victor_mre_ 2 months

“The role of imperialism: Capitalism’s internal contradiction has historically required the subordination of a global periphery in order to manage its own crises.” Clara Mattei

soupwaylee 2 months

stop saying “girl math” call it “spectacularly misguided financial reasoning”

victor_mre_ 2 months

“We must move beyond “network politics” and “economicism” toward the construction of a structured political organization (party) capable of competing with the level of organization of capital, yet rooted in popular assemblies and self-management“ Clara Mattei

lax 2 months

499 A random group of guys just offered me beer on the corner of Liverpool streets 😂

kyemack 2 months

Shrek 2 is one of the funniest movies ever made. Quote me.

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pb_n_jae 2 months

Obsession is amazing but I can never watch it again😫😫

akenaton 2 months

Every exercise is a lower back exercise... if you do it wrong enough.

nmazz 2 months

Question for the hospitality veterans. When you’re taken care of (expected or unexpected) what’s your return? I’m talking penny tab, massive comps, freebies etc. Curious the approach from others.

sierramichhh 2 months

Just saw the trailer for the live-action moana…why me and the Rock got on the same wig rn

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decleo 2 months

KNICKS WON LETS GOOOOO

chrissjacqq 2 months

I’m not like a HUGE gamer, but I have put some hours into certain games. Over 3000 hours into Animal Crossing, built like 6/7 islands all together. Maybe 1000 hours into Disney Dreamlight Valley. I’ve finished Pokémon Pearl, It Takes Two and Split Fiction. I’ve played some Pokémon Arceus, Little Misfortune, Sims 4, Palword, and attempted Grounded recently. I also played a little bit of Wild Flowers. I wanna try Pokémon Pokopia, and Tomodachi Life next!

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lav 2 months

Mountain Dew, baby, New York City. 🗽

lax 2 months

502 Just bought a half baguette and munch on it like a pigeon eating a plain bread

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huey_david 2 months

Who is going to Fly 3.0 tonight? 🤩 Also are you going for the nostalgia or is it just me ?

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matt.vst 2 months

Guys ! What’s best for this evening ? Going on date or staying home and watching a murder/mystery on TV ?

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ethanraysor 2 months

So I’m over all of social media at this point. I’m tired of defending my thoughts and actions just so people can make a smart ass comment and make me do it all over again. ✌🏻

udonomii 3 months

Any advice for expanding the social life as a deeply reserved person? Not introverted, just not jumping out the window to be extroverted. Starting a new life chapter and I wanna do stuff that doesn’t involve getting shitfaced without the pretentiousness that comes with sober activities (sometimes)

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brad 2 months

I don’t know whether I taking poppers after a stressful day is healthy.

akai 2 months

Remember Call Me by Your Name? Elio’s father tells him in the end „You had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship… but our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once.”- its such a beautiful dialogue 🥹 We live as if both had more time than they do. As if we could keep postponing presence, feeling, honesty, and still arrive untouched. But the heart does tire. The body changes. And a life spent trying to feel less, just to stay safe, can quietly become a life only half-lived. Maybe the point is not to protect ourselves from every wound. Maybe it is to not waste what is still here: the body that carries us, the heart that still responds, the time that is still ours to use. Not to harden too early. Not to disappear from our own lives before they are even over. Let’s be here while we’re here ❤️

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paulblaid 2 months

Looking for musical or audiovisual artists to have a cool network of friends. Also to collab, create, vibe, and explore life in the art field :)) Let’s connect 🤍🙌🏻

p.ierre 2 months

What is in the drinking water in Australia? 🔥🥵🤤

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shiro 2 months

anyone else navigating dating in their 30s? what’s your experience been like?

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lucienzera 2 months

there are days. days that I don’t wanna get out of bed. days that I don’t want to talk. days that I just want to… drift by. it’s a weird feeling to constantly look at everyone’s lives, seeing them do things and feel a particular type of envy. like, you’re happy for them and all but also wish you were able to do them as well, or be chosen first or be just… there. it’s an ever-consuming feeling, fleeting yet also so crushing. I’ve been reminiscing about some of the stuff I’ve been through these past few months.. a legal issue. sure I won in the end, but it also destroyed me mentally. I became this.. unrelying, isolated version of myself, like I threw myself down a deep well and just stare at a hateful mirror that desires to be looked at.. it’s something let me tell you. it’s gonna be okay, I know that. but I don’t want to deal with this feeling of isolation and adoring jealousy. I don’t want to be someone’s backburner choice, or last resort. selfish, I know; but I’m just tired of it. anyways, thanks for reading it this far. and apologies for the eyesore.

murilooooo 2 months

…People are so egocentric in their certainties that they believe they are deceiving others, while they are merely being controlled all the time…

studiokervo 3 months

Nonchalant men used to come off as mysterious to me but now i just kind of find them dimwitted..like you actually just don’t have enough emotional intelligence or social skills to express yourself…

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philipbuoy 2 months

Accidentally misinterpreted the surprise phone calls, endearing compliments, dinners, days lying in the sun at the park, and late night chats in bed as interest. My b.

chrissjacqq 2 months

Tried the Demo for Tomodachi Life this morning, and immediately bought it after playing for all of 10 minutes….. And I’ve been playing it damn near all day. Lol it’s so cute!

leo.nardo.r 2 months

Oomf would Tell me to bark and i would

eglanger18 2 months

I feel cut off from myself emotionally

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