enbyollie 1 week

Geez….YouTube REALLY tests my patience and don’t just give up on all the hard work you did motto. Spent countless hours trying to not lose my first set of uploads…they really don’t make it easy for anyone do they? 🙄🙄🙄

critical.spike 1 week

talking about the weather is one of my favorite things

anseo 2 weeks

Weather report from London: If I was any closer to the blades of my fan we’d be looking at top surgery 2.0 💀

xdjesse 3 weeks

Why is everyone rich here? 😭

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nicros244 1 week

i think anyone who has ever cheated on their partner should not be allowed to have a take on polyamory like baby that might’ve worked for u actually

damarion193 2 weeks

I am very new on this app look for gay friends? I’m 22

jackellisd 3 weeks

I go to the gym now so look out! About to be strong AND funny

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lax 1 week

488 Went around to a few stores to look for ice cream for my dog Ori… all wasted trip 😭

lax 1 week

489 Melting away in this heat like an ice cream… this is honestly too much

deepdrew 2 weeks

If you could start this year over, what is one thing you would pay more attention to?

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mattmagnus 2 weeks

What did you think of Henry Cavill’s show at Ascot yesterday?

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sela 2 weeks

The systems meant to serve people are not at all human centered and our nervous systems aren’t meant for this

efrainj 2 weeks

Lately I feel like doing better in the health area, any suggestions?

eglanger18 2 weeks

I give up relating to people who are blind to kindness.

nickjgoodsell 2 weeks

Sorry for the long absence for anyone on here who cares 😅

enbyollie 2 weeks

Hi! Im Ollie and I’m a non-binary silly cryptid who is also is on the Poly + Demi-ace spectrum. I have a long distance Ace relationship with my amazing non binary partner on the east coast, who is also poly. Just wanna say I’m not looking for hook ups. Literally just looking for friends, and no opposed to things becoming more….but honestly just trying to find other fun people who enjoys music, board games, being silly, deep conversations, worldly food, art, adventures and doesn’t mind watching queer or Asian shows with me all with subtitles lol.

donovan.dona 2 weeks

twinks will be the backbone of culture

joshuavilorio 2 weeks

I be drinking coffee at the beginning of my shift to charge up farts to crop dust tables who don’t tip

coryyeee 3 weeks

The love from another man will never cure you, you have to cure yourself first. Lesson learned from my first and only LTR

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me-piotr 2 weeks

F*cking hate leg day 😣

martinmagner 3 weeks

No one really talks about queer burnout. This season, I leaned in and sat with that feeling for a while, unpacking how the constant performance many of us have been doing our entire lives can become incredibly heavy. When I was younger, I thought Pride was supposed to feel loud and vibrant. I imagined adulthood as this glamorous arrival point where authenticity would eventually become effortless, especially once I moved somewhere like New York, where freedom feels like the default mode when you CRANK IT in these streets. In many ways, it has been. But the older I get, particularly as a queer creative working in industries obsessed with image, culture, and identity, the more Pride has started to feel quieter, heavier, and infinitely more honest than I ever expected.

zayn 2 weeks

Haven’t been here for such a long time, damn

azzula 2 weeks

Any DJs around?🕺😎 let’s connect?

locke-e 3 weeks

At Times We Fight The hardest truth Is telling you how it feels To make you notice When will you realize the we fight To learn from each other To grow And one day to understand. When will it be enough For you to realize In the heat of the moment Its isn’t the anger that’s felt But the shear resilience to give up. Its the main focus To want to sort it out And for you to see I choose to grow in these pains To match vigour with fortitude.

collective 1 month

So we’re just never having good straight horror again? Good. Cannes reviews for 'Teenage Sex and Death at Camp Miasma' are in, and it’s the trans sapphic slasher decadence we’ve been waiting for. Jane Schoenbrun strikes again with eerie surrealism, starring Hannah Einbinder and Gillian Anderson (yes, complete with a southern drawl). It’s trippy, sexy, and has those necessary comedy tinges. You can take the girl out of Hacks, but you clearly can’t take the Hacks out of the girl. The film follows a director trying to reignite a slasher franchise by seeking out the original star, all while unreservedly dissecting desire. The in-universe slasher, a genderfluid HVAC-wearing, Little Death played by Jack Haven is also praised for a moving performance despite their very meta existence. With the release coming up on August 7, it is time to start organizing a cinema trip. Search for Women and Non-Binaray people on Collective, trust, they’ll be rabid to go to this movie. Plan the trip to the cinema, this surreal, sexy, scary film will be best auited for the big screen ;)

ethanraysor 3 weeks

I am so so so tired of seeing people talk about Ari’s body, concern or not, on IG right now. It’s disgusting how people are justifying their parasocial relationship and behavior (aka no longer supporting her work) because of an ED she manages on her own. WOMEN’S BODIES ARE NOT UP FOR DEBATE OR CONVERSATION— thank u, next

trees 3 weeks

Girls I need some ideas for either a 90s or 00s icon for a fancy dress party - help !

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starry 2 weeks

I need more Aussie queer friends

stef0 2 weeks

I'm nobody special, I'm just a man. And all I can do is the best that I can. I am a sinner and I am full of flaws, And I live my life, by the luck of the draw. I make mistakes, like we all do, I make as many, if not more than you. But don't insult me, and don't call me names, Don't pass the buck, or let me take the blame. Remember to remove the plank from your eye, Cause the speck in mine, is making you cry? If first you look inside you'll see, That you can be you, and I can be me. There is no reason to call me out, Cause the human race is what I'm about. You live in your great land, and I'll live in mine, Cause name calling to me is asinine. 11/21/10 Alton Texas

udonomii 2 weeks

Four tet dropped an hour ago and 😮‍💨

catdad 2 weeks

“Never let them weaponize community.” -Kevin Drew, last night at the BSS concert

izzzz 2 weeks

This freeze slide on gel saved my life right now in this heat🧊

austinsdalley 3 weeks

This app reminding me that I haven’t posted in a while yes I know my life is still boring yet complicated at the moment so sorry to disappoint

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chrisgardener 4 weeks

Have you ever felt like you’ve got imposter syndrome in your career? Everything I know as a gardener has been self taught or passed down through generations in my family I’ve been growing since I can remember for more than 30 years now, my work speaks for itself but recently someone online asked what qualifications I had and suddenly it threw me because I don’t have a piece of paper that backs up my 30 years experience.

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fav0r1t3_ 3 weeks

In obsessed with myself in a way that means I’m obsessed with maintaining my happiness, pushing towards my goals, and living in kindness to the best of my ability even if it doesn’t make sense to anyone else. 😪💕✨

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efrainj 2 weeks

Just beginning another week

mrtheodorstrom 3 weeks

Currently sick. Hit me up if you want to play some games on PlayStation or Switch 😇

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collective 1 month

Have we seen the new Kylie doc? The notoriously private Kylie Minogue is finally letting everyone in with her new Netflix documentary. It’s a lot to take in, seeing her look back on such a massive career and get so emotional about the journey. It isn’t just about the hits; it’s about her unbelievable strength. She finally opens up about the second cancer diagnosis she faced in 2021, showing a side of her life she kept completely hidden from the public until now. From her Australian roots to becoming a global icon, the film is a masterclass in staying power. Every era is represented in its full glory. You’ve got the bubblegum 80s, that gritty 90s indie phase we’re all obsessed with, and the Fever years that changed pop music forever. Seeing her talk through these moments is a full on ritual for her leagues of fans. She serves as an inspiration not just to the superstars who followed her, but to anyone who’s had to rebuild themselves. On top of watching the doc, dare we organise a classic gay guy Kylie video night? Try adding your favourite music artists or genre on your Collective profile. It’ll help when you're matching with your new queer friends.

caiopfaffenbachm 3 weeks

Wanna get back to crocheting, but idk what to do

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henriyjs 2 weeks

I worked out 4x more than in the past 4 months. and then i had a14 hour shift. i’m in bed and my 🍑 and 🦵 are hurting and kinda shaky #muscle build

dan96 2 weeks

Y’all have been sleeping on Haute & Freddy. SERIOUSLY.

anseo 4 weeks

My dog threw up this morning. I was kneeling down making a fuss of him and listening to my partner’s thoughts on the matter. He decided to take advantage of the proximity and cheerfully liCKED MY MOUTH WITH HIS GROSS TONGUE 💀 I am posting this from the afterlife ⚰️

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juancolco 2 weeks

Hola buenas noches soy venezolano viviendo en New York como están chicos ?Hello, good evening, I'm Venezuelan living in New York, how are you guys?

egosumeric 2 weeks

Another week down of consistently working out daily. Building habits is hard. 🥺

kyemack 4 weeks

Collectively, as a society, how do we feel about skin tight jeans? A relic of 2016 or still socially acceptable? I’ve long since retired my Topman Spray On jeans, but I’ve seen an alarming amount of tight jeans lately.

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jbenjamin 1 month

Every swimsuit brand sticks a hot guy in speedos and charges $70 for the promise of becoming that guy. Anyone found a cute, more affordable option?

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mattheweduard 3 weeks

Anyone else on here truly open to whatever may come their way, but also lowkey intimidated because they still feel “other than” even within the community? 🙂‍↕️

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eglanger18 3 weeks

If there are bagels i’m in🙋🏻‍♂️

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mikevi 2 weeks

Hows this for weird info? Humans have been useing Kerosene since the 9th century. So they were useing liquid kerosene fuel during the dark ages, the 18th century. Aircraft grade fuel, is liturally just Super refined kerosene.

critical.spike 2 weeks

Did you guys notice that I’m a really smiley person?

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tgcowles 2 weeks

finally got my mom to agree to give me her pearl jewelry!

die 2 weeks

Who’s excited for House of the Dragon season 3 tonight? 🙋🏻‍♂️

onlyfans.scotty 2 weeks

Did you know that there is a tunnel under ocean blvd?! :O

eglanger18 3 weeks

Any autistic gays on here?

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