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so... does anyone know how to make gay/queer friends without them wanting to fuck cause yalllll i need a gay bestie so bad🥲🫠
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And let me preface this by saying I am like this (to an extent)/am no better than the next homo: A man they’ve known for 2 months: ‘I think I love him? I can see myself marrying him, it’s been such a short time but like he gets me’ A month later: ‘If he wants to be single be single, imma do me.’ Why are we (the general collective) like this?
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You all look the same.
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need emerald fennell’s pinterest boards STAT
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It’s about to be me and my potion of rejuvenation (Celsius), vs this whole ER today.
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Mentally preparing for the sept-oct-nov period because that’s when all the craziest plot twists happens. 🙂🌶️
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All and more wrapped in a bow. Some say it’s effortless To break the ties and appreciate it all. Gratitude Even a broken toy has its beauty Try as it may - it still wants to spread joy. Take it all in Let these moments pass And rest knowing you’re more than enough.
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What are we listening to right now? Send some songs!
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How can you heal from the dreams you never got the chance to live eith a beloved one? I cannot stop my anger and disappointment.
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‘He Wasn’t Man Enough’ by Toni Braxton should go down as one ot he best dis-records created. This is not up for discussion, unless you agree.😂
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everyone is so extremely creative on here, I LOVE TO SEE IT!!!! if no one appreciates your posts.. just know I Do.
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Just your average twink twunk otter jock masc himbo queen ✌🏿😚
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my queer uncles’ have a walk-in climate controlled wine cellar and an in-home theater upstairs
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I love TikTok, like why did it put a video of someone shipping two chess players on my fyp ? idk what’s happening but truly blessed to have a glimpse into the fandom fr hahahaha
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One month till The Life of a Showgirl! ❤️‍🔥 Who’s excited?! ☺️
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Guys I need to feel better about myself. What’s your worst hookup/date stories??
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I cannot fuck with people who say extremely hurtful things when their mad, but when they calm down, they didn't mean it. Yes you did. Stand on it.
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It’s a sweet feeling seeing my art get such good feedback here on collective 🤍 thank you!
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Re-downloading dating apps feels like relapsing
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Does anyone have book recommendation for autumn?🍂
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pls censor the word j*b
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Someone I don’t like keeps popping up on Hinge, I might commit a war crime.
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la friends check in 👀
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Nothing’s worst that when you like someone but then the memes they send you aren’t funny 😶‍🌫️💨🫥
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the sunday scaries // fall on monday this week // with labour delayed
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Thank you, Collective, for giving me the army of fellow curly haired queer men I didn’t know I needed.
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The amount of times that customers apologise to me for using she/her on me or correct themselves to they/them when talking about me is actually so funny. I’m a cis woman but have been assigned non binary by retail customers I guess
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Tant pis pour lui
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The Apple cult is really eating crumbs with that ugly ass new drop.
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Alone or on your own. Big difference.
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Im gay, I want bf
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Street photography is whatever, but why do I keep catching people taking close ups of me ? I don’t mind being in a photo from a distance but don’t put your camera in my face and think I’m somehow not going to see you ?
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Did y’all sweat today? 🏃🏾‍♂️
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The feed I have curated for myself on this app would make my teenage, Tumblr-scrolling version of me so jealous and but also so proud.
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where should my first tattoo go
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Genius and madness are strange bedfellows
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Views that can’t be beat
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Spending time with nature…and family
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I just feel like a PA would work for me in this current climate. I need breakfast in bed, he be ironing my clothes and cleaning before I go to my 9 to 5 that he takes me to. He has a car of course, because I do not drive. Applications open ❤️😉
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I hate when a police car drives behind me cause even tho I’m doing nothing wrong… I get worry of doing something wrong in a criminal way 🫥🫥🫥🫥😬😬😬
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I NEED TIPS ON HOW TO FLIRT WITH A BOY NOW
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Is someone else enjoying Sombr’s music as much as me? I have his latest album on repeat 🔂
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Craving some sushi, maybe 73 sushi rolls will make me feel better 🥀
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A person is more authentic the more they resemble the idea they have dreamed of themselves
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Safe space: Does anyone else feel extremely weird when they’re scrolling I whatever and you see a post that say: ‘*insert celebrity that died* would have been *this age* today’ or is that just me?’
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In high school someone stole my copy of the book thief.
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Looking to make some new friends! Fun fact - I like to participate in some cannabis fun 😮‍💨🍃
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First time THAT has happened ! Wordle 1,535 2/6* 🟨🟨🟨🟨🟨 🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩
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I still miss the 2005-around 2012 era of doctor who so much.
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haven’t been producing anything much lately but dabbling in drawing/music/writing for like 45 mins every couple days so I don’t feel totally lost
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Gaeilgeoirí ar bith sa Londain?
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just a quick reminder that you don't have to collect matches to feel attractive or desirable have a wonderful day 💞
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Spamming all of y’all with likes because that’s what you deserve for being hot and handsome
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Looking for your people? Finding a real community can be tough for LGBTQ+ folks. Discussions on Collective makes it easy.

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