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🍇 Grapes hang heavy. Ripe. Bursting with juices. It’s September. The month of symposia and Dionysian orgies. Drinking, revelry, and grape harvests become rituals of transgression, transformation, and desire. Sip, taste, revel – grapes are the fruit of queer ecstasy.
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Where does one find other gay couples to become friends in LA? Specifically SFV?
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A complete stranger just told me they love my outfit and I don’t think I’ll come down from that cloud all day
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US Navy Bound for 2026, I'm so fucking excited!! BMT is in Great Lakes Illinois, it's gonna be cold as shit haha!! Then I go to my A - School and learn how to do the job I picked! I am half looking forward to the new experience, and half looking forward to leaving everything and everyone who hurt me in Texas. If all goes to plan I will no longer be in Texas by November. 🫡✨
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Soooo, i went to a rave last week and i realized that i love techno more than I thought and right now i have this need for raving omggg someone take me to a rave please i need to dance all night long 😭😭
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Was “threads” a thing for all of three months, or what? Asking for a friend. 👀
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Queers: What’s a no go in your friendship?
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The wisest thing I’ve heard in a while: “Unhealed attracts unhealed.” Let that sink in. 🧲 ⚡️🩹
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Today is International Coffee Day… you know what to do 😏☕️🏺🗞️
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As dating apps are terrible, in your experience what’s the best way to approach a guy in a bar?
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Yeah, I woke up this morning with chills and it hit me: the cold season in London is really about to start. And of course, it’s cuffing season too, but instead of finding someone to cuddle with, I’m just cuffing my sleeves tighter and hoping my coat does the job. 😂
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just saw my bf who isn’t my bf repost someone else on here and I’m sick to my stomach. you know who you are. 😔
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Just got my tickets for La Casa Azul @ Sala BUT in November 🔵 🤩
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done my usual and gone all scared quiet n shy 🥺 ill be back soon 🥺
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Any other RunDisney runners here? Anyone heading to Wine and Dine?
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Lowkey just got headhunted at an event I delivered - simultaneously validating and traitorous in aspect
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The meth heads on Grindr need to be stopped also why is everyone on there so odd
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Jumping ship from one relationship straight aboard another? ⛵️ Call it “healing,” “a distraction,” or just “your process,” if you must… But there’s a reason they call them Relationship Pirates. 🏴‍☠️❤️‍🩹⚔️ #arghhh
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How is everyone using this app? Also, say hi!
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Are you shy? What do you do on a daily basis to overcome it?
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Do you guys feel lovely sometimes? How do you deal with it?
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What’s your favourite part about being part of the LGBTQ* Community?
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Also got diagnosed as autistic by the special needs professor sitting opposite me 🤪
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I just love being around people with beautiful spirits and energy.
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Chilean for my collectivistas Que chucha = que wea = what happened Apaño = I am in Wena = can be hi, can be good Weona = amiga or stupid Wn = weón = huevón Wea = something/ Baina (colombiano) Bacan = cool / bacano (colombiano) Aweonao = stupid in a bad way, so fuckin stupid Fome, penca = boring Chisme = gossip / cahuin
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i have absolutely no idea how this app works, hello
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mas q un hermano eres mi brother
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90% of the things I worry about don't come true. worrying works
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Everything happens so much
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There are days I unfold myself like old paper and cannot find the place marked welcome. Voices pass — glass on glass — laughing with names that do not fit my mouth. I practice conversation in the mirror: how to ask, how to stay, how to keep my shoulders light. When him arrives in memory — a quiet gravity — my tongue becomes a locked garden gate. I carry a pocketful of almost-words, each one a map I’m too shy to read aloud. So I learn to speak in other ways: a note folded into my coat, a sigh that becomes song, planting kindness in the small corners I own. If loneliness is a country, I will draw roads from it — slowly, badly, bravely — until one leads to another hand.
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Ppl hmuuu im bored lol
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struggling to create space for the new me. how do I let go of things that no longer fit the vision I have for future me? (especially when they are still serving me)
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If you like a cute Latin guy who loves to read,you will love my page!!! 😊📚
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About a gay boy standing up for his transgender girlfriend.
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I would like to volunteer and support refugees and displaced persons in Europe. I can offer free legal consultations (France/Germany/Benelux). Feel free to contact me if you need help — or especially if you know of an association in need of a lawyer.
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one of the most rewarding things for me is seeing my mentees go further than me. i’m so proud of them
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I don't know what’s in the air but lately everyone has been getting on my damn nerves.
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Any Letterboxd users around here? 🟠🟢🔵
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I’m having trouble sleeping. I repeated “it’s hard, but I’m doing it for me.”
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So what anime series is everyone watching rn?
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istg, every gay on this app (in the EU) has the same elevator mirror.
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Why is so hard to meet people in Paris! I mean have a coffee or a drink and see if there is a feeling (friendship and maybe something more) or is just me the one that has the problem?
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How do you guys get such a close shave on your beautiful faces? I recently switched to an old-fashioned safety razor and I *still* get stubble…
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maybe 25 is the year i need to make a big move, push myself to a different area and really change
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Will and Grace or The Golden Girls ??
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Ok if your fav pop star made it from 0..can I be one too?
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Dear Queers, Do we like the iOS 26 or not?
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Does anyone else sometimes wonder why many of us think there is this perfect match for us out there who will fulfill our needs and swoop us off our feet? Isn’t that super self-absorbed and lazy?
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Went in today for my 3 month check up and was complimented by my PCP and the lab technician. Lab technician said “I want to get like you and get my fitness right.” Ma’am — don’t even. I so wish I could be stuffing my face with donuts and burgers but no. Here I am, following the calorie deficit and eating air for all meals. Physique and compliments feel and look good but deep down, I just wanna destroy some pizza and some burgers.
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for all the flat stomache-rs out here.... how in seven hells do you achieve that cause my love handles do NOT wanna leave
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NY boys where ya at?
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