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Why do guys love dapping me up? Like, can’t we just kiss? 😙
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Flirting or Not? … A guy came up to me at a club, asked me “have I seen you here before?”, then said “wow you know all the words to this song, me too”. Then kinda floated away. He disappeared, what do you think?
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Who makes for a better friend, a gay man or a lesbian? I’m making a fun/silly little presentation for my friends and wanted to get some thoughts from queer people. It’s not meant to be anything too deep but also looking for any interesting perspectives, funny replies or cold hard facts 👯‍♀️👯‍♂️
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How do you guys make leg day at the gym more bearable? Because I hate it🥲
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How to succeed on Grindr? (I failed badly)
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Body hair: Yes? No? Turn on/off? Where? Natural, trimmed, shaved, laser removed? How do you have it? How do you like it in others?
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Hi gays Can I wear a bow tie if I’m wearing a linen shirt to a wedding in Barcelona with presumably good weather? ChatGPT says yes but wanted to hear your thoughts, would you cancel me? Thanks bbs
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Uh oh fall creepin in & I’m missing the southern states rip. What’s some gay country to listen to while wandering around? Pls send help 🐄💁‍♀️
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I’m going to start using this app for curation .
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If you could have any super power in the world, what would it be?
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What is it about love that makes me sharpen my teeth? Like a fox at the henhouse door I pace the threshold half-hungry, half-afraid, listening for the flutter that might mean ruin that might mean feast I leave the door open as if love were a guest already gathering its coat I keep the exit light on neon blinking inviting, practicing goodbyes before the room is even empty Why do I think I can grasp the wind, when to still it would be to kill it? I turn to the tide with this question and it replies only by pulling away then returning as if to say: love is not kept thing. The answer is small and ordinary I must place my palm Open in the river knowing it will not stop but pass through me
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love is a gentle thing, yours is thicker than a velvet ring
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reading smut and listening to the rain 😌
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a lot of y’all are in humiliationships
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Queers: What luxury item will you be buying in 2025?
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Normalize leaving loving emojis or encouraging comments for eachother instead of just ‘likes’. 🫂💞💫
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Its such a beautiful day outside. I went to run a few errands today and decided to just take it all in and sit in the park and it felt refreshing to be still and calm and feeling the warmth of the sun. It’s amazing how much we miss or don’t take advantage of when we don’t stop to enjoy the moment.
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the dating situations i have been in guarantee me a peaceful existence in the next life, literally has to cause wtf
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So I’m seeing the rah rah bitch next month from today omfg 😭😭😭😭
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Hay silencios que aturden
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Its crazy never thought i would fall in love so hard again. But he made it happen again! I even dream about marriage and having a kid. Life is full of surprises!
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LGBT+ racism—does it concern you?
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Do you memorize every little thing I’ve ever said? #tsitp
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Just remembered that paparazzi photo of Gillian Anderson in a white shirt. Chat.
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Check-in✨ how’s everyone doing today? 1 (I’m barely hanging on)- 10 (I’m feeling on top of the world). I’d say I’m about a 7 right now
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Could you give me some famous gay artists I should know about ?
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What’s the gayest costume idea for Halloween ?
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Watching Derry Girls hungover >>
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Sooo. I moved to London with work a year ago, originally a Brummie and was there all my life. I did not anticipate how hard it would be to start socially fresh in a big city. Any tips on how to start building my new friendship circle would be greatly appreciated.
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song of the summer for the southern hemisphere has officially dropped
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Super tired, but at least I got my academic resume, cover letter, and statement of purpose finished for grad school applications. Now I need to get my hands on the college transcripts, have faith that the current state of my play is enough and hope for the best…. I’m terrified even at the thought of being in graduate school considering that the vast majority of my young adult life was led on the belief that I could never be anything better than a dishwasher in a hotel restaurant. What would stuck and severely depressed me think if he saw me now… Oh well, sleep deprived ramble over and out.
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I got so rejected some much by cishet women and assumed trans women would too in a search of masculinaty I do not wish to be boxed in cause that s only one side of me I lowkey assumed most of them were panphobic but why am I even looking at men with all these fionnnnne nonbinary,trans or queer women in these streets when I also actually just need ONE 🤭🤭🤭
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just learning that when ppl say beema they mean BMW
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How many of y’all uses Spotify for music?
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Happy Friday! Say it back or pay it forward! 😊
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We need a return to fun tech innovation before I go fucking insane, I can’t handle every fucking phone being a glass rectangle for much longer. We used to have weird shit going on and none of the homies would have the same phone as you. Also nothing now has any longevity. My camera is only 6 years old and I went to buy a new lens for it today and they were going on about how old it is. You used to buy a camera pre digital and it would be a lifetime investment. I’m fucking over it man. We’ve innovated ourselves into the damn ground
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Any good conversation starters for socially anxious people? 😇
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Being independent is great until it’s a Saturday and you’ve got no one to make plans with 🙃
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the mens fashion on here is inspiring.
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JMSN Fans??? Please let us come together here. Holla at your girl!
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When you call a drag queen by their government name, do you gain control over them like over demons in films when you know their real name???
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I want to take a moment to share myself with you here. I’m a gay Latino artist, Colombian & Venezuelan, based in Berlin 🇩🇪. My music is my expression, my story, and my heart. Some songs are in English, some in Spanish, all of them are pieces of my life: my love, my journey, and the empowerment that comes through healing. If you haven’t listened yet, I would love and appreciate your support. I hope my music reaches the people who need it most , those who want to feel, to connect, to heal, and to experience love through sound. Thank you for being here with me. 🌈
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It’s been 2 years since someone tried to get my pregnant 😭😩
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He’s pinned on my messages but I know I’m not on his 😔
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One more thing to mention on the subject of being a weird gay, I have close to 0 on fashion sense. A friend to go shopping with or generally help me with my wardrobe would be a dream come true 😅
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Does anybody use the Beli app? 🥗🌮🍟
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Me and my boyfriend have started vlogging! If anyone is interested in nice wholesome gay vlogs: https://youtu.be/KT-ADX9oajA?si=PcGiZQpHSGwZTtl9
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Okay, do y’all have a favourite god/goddess from Greek mythology ? I went to a Steiner school and every fellow Steiner kid I’ve met is able to give an immediate answer but I never considered if it was a thing outside of that school
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Is anyone getting the new iPhone 17 ?
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