karcsiwright 9 months

anyone got any tips for this app or even dating in general? Thanks in advance, divas xx

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chrysanthos 9 months

Je voudrais partir maintenant Te retrouver Tu me manques tellement

nekshad23 9 months

Still figuring this app out, drop a hi if you’re from the bay area! 🫶

theconfusedegg 9 months

What’s everyone’s opinion on iOS 26?

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strawbrry 9 months

do any of my collective babes need copywriting / editing / proofreading / resume or grant writing services? currently looking for new freelance projects & would love to support my community 🤝💖

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donovan.dona 10 months

Mi papá escuchó a Cepillín en Natalia Lafourcade, y ahora no puedo dejar de escucharle en ella 😭

zayn 10 months

meow yes that’s the best i could get out of myself after deleting everything i wrote for the fourth time

axl 10 months

Obsessed with how some flowers look like fireworks frozen in time.

thotanist 9 months

Happy rapture y’all! Here’s hoping the end is nigh 💃🏻

gavinakagriffin. 9 months

Describe your preference in men? Me: Open hearted, aware, pale skin/smooth, muscle, dark short hair, piercing eyes, love pectorals, scars or tattoos, height can be close or different, has similarities with little differences, can be friends as well as loves, and this easy. I love, LOVE! A romantic who stands on business with who their heart beats for, with no doubts. Why? Because I’m gonna be that kind of husband to who ever, ends up aligning. With my heart beats🫀🫀

csg101 9 months

Anyone recommend a budget tablet for reading manga? My phone is too distracting lol

marlong 9 months

Does anyone have a connect at Camper ? 🙏

allmyfriendsaresuperheroes 9 months

If y’all gymbunnies can’t f*cking re-rack you weights right, don’t come to the gym 😒 love you, bye 🫶🏻

lav 9 months

With summer gone, sad boy autumn is unavoidable.

jonasbv 9 months

Not again🥲. Honestly, I didn’t think I was being explicit this time 🤷🏽‍♂️

jeff-sundheim 10 months

Men have made me laugh and cry. They’ve made me anxious in sleepless nights. Others have held me in restful slumbers. I have woken up to them with a smile on my face, content. I have woken up to them wondering how to relieve them from their hope for any sort of future with me. Some of these men have become my friends. Some of these men have become strangers. Others have become a knowing smile as we cross paths in the streets.

southerncowrie 10 months

“Sometimes you don't survive whole, you just survive in part. But the grandeur of life is that attempt” - Toni Morrison

jonathanlm 10 months

The way I’m going to have to hold it in and act nonchalant in the cinema…. Cause I’m watching Demon slayer: Infinity Castle. Like how!!! If crunchy roll could just put it on I’d even pay I just want to get so giddy and have my moments watching 😭😭🤪

iamrobbiie 9 months

Looking for new connections, I’m turning 30 in November. Anyone up for making new friends? 😄🌍 happy, cheeky chappy here 👋🏻

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samuelgiorno 9 months

Do I ever cross your mind?

lucienzera 9 months

Can someone recommend me a song and the vibe it gives? I wanna expand my music taste 🥹

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luca_bergonzoli 9 months

Ever get that feeling like everyone’s busy except you?

melisha_barboza 9 months

Where can I find good boots? Help

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shawnmendes 10 months

Gotta get this off my chest. Who thought putting raisins in cinnamon rolls was a good idea? Matter of fact, who thought putting raisins in anything is good. Raisins has never made anything better. Never enjoyed a raisin in my life. Yes, I’m a hater.

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milly 10 months

I always told myself I’d grow my hair out when it was grey enough and it IS grey now but I don’t think I’ll ever grow it because it is TERRIBLE with my psoriasis. Every time I go too long without cutting it, it is itchy(ier than the constant itch basepoint) and painful and makes me feel (irrarionally) dirty. I can’t handle it. My own body out to get me as always lol

theconfusedegg 9 months

I think I need someone to teach ne how to use this…

anthonyjamescorren 9 months

Say hi! Did you do anything fun this weekend? (Being a vegetable is an acceptable answer)

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piu-piu 10 months

I litterally have ZERO idea the type of person I see myself dating…

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fleaskinny 9 months

I need a big hug and a 9,000 check

milly 10 months

Just saw a photo of Laika the dog, now I gotta cry for at least 20 minutes, I don’t make the damn rules.

jnathxn 10 months

It's a surreal feeling when you suddenly realise you're a dad. I'm in the bathroom shouting out to eat breakfast before I go. ... It's a dog I was shouting at as he looked at me from the top of the stairs. 😂

shivam 10 months

I don’t understand when did Gym-ming became someone’s entire personality? 👀

southerncowrie 9 months

I need to be * ***** * ******** ASAP🥲

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danielmislati 9 months

Why can’t gays just be friends with eachother

flavien 9 months

Be real : flavien_mthn for more fun😉

deejay 10 months

Hello guys! Im single im looking for a relationship este boyfriend! I dont look for hookups (sorry)😅 I live in London and i just want someone who is genuinely wants me and not the idea of me. Thanks xx

iamdarioblack 10 months

Not everyone will hear you the first time you express what you want or need. And when people keep overstepping, it’s usually because your boundaries weren’t firm enough. The reality is that , the moment you set those boundaries with strength, some people might get upset. They might justify their behavior. They might even try to make you feel guilty. But that’s not your burden to carry. That’s on them. Your responsibility is to listen to yourself. To trust your intuition. To know who you can safely open up to, and who you can’t. Not everyone is ready for your truth, and that’s okay. What matters is that you: *Keep setting your boundaries. *Keep choosing yourself. *Keep standing in your authenticity. *Keep loving yourself, no matter what. Because when you do, you set yourself free. And nothing is more powerful than that.

mralastairjames 10 months

Sometimes I wish I could be snapped walking around town in these cute looks I keep pulling together

anselm 9 months

Choose One: Henry Cavil OR David Corenswet ?

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golden-behinde3815 10 months

I’ve always considered myself a weird type of gay. I don’t keep up with current media, I don’t have a tik tok, I listen to the same music day in day out, I don’t work out, and I like to keep to myself sometimes.

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callthemzaddy 10 months

anyone else watching throwback movies (i.e. pokémon 2000) to feel the nostalgia?

alchemyg 10 months

Help me practice! Comment if you’d like me to sketch you, I will draw the first 5 people.

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siendo-franco 9 months

“Caelum Denique” (Heaven, finally)

technoth0t 10 months

ever had your heart broken by a summer fling?

vichaotica 9 months

Pride 2026 is cancelled, and upset isn’t even the word for what I am

xndrxs 9 months

todos los días sueño con dale una puñiza a un hijo de su madre a este punto ya es un deseo reprimido.

chrisgardener 9 months

If someone talks badly of others to you, just imagine what they say to others behind your back. Remember choose kindness <3

lax 10 months

Dedicating a day of the week to self care: salt bath, face mask & the likes

svaaaaabv 9 months

Humiliation doesn’t leave a mark You gotta have pretty legs or can’t see One or the other

studiokervo 10 months

If your partner cheats and you stay, you’re essentially consenting to being in a polygynous relationship because you’re the only one that’s agreeably monogamous while your partner can do whatever they want ! Own it !

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donovan.dona 9 months

what's good for the hole isn't always good for the soul

chrisgardener 10 months

What is something you have always wanted to do but someone held you back from doing it?

piu-piu 9 months

I got myself a lover and he’s so sublime

luigidelucaaa 10 months

any perfume recommendations? 👀 tell me what you are wearinggg

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shawnnnnn 9 months

How do you spend your time alone?

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