bernatt 10 months

I’ve recently delated Grindr, wish me luck!!

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boredrodrigo 10 months

Tim Cook was literally cooking when he blasted New York by Addison Rae to announce the new iPhone.

hmln_leo 9 months

Amiga !!! Show me what you got

themajewsky 10 months

what do all the gay people in London do? surely we can’t all have 9 to 5s? 😭😂

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kings_world 10 months

EU residency in process hitting me like a double marg rn

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anselm 9 months

When anyone inconveniences me I pull out the “so you hate gays” card.

luisteran 10 months

lost the ticketmaster battle for the eternal sunshine tour :((

theguysacha 9 months

More Tacos Less Teams

aadje 10 months

what genuinely helped you to get better when you had your first relationship breakup? going thru it rn and i would love some tips

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anselm 9 months

Hot people make me mad

cam-the-merch-man 10 months

If you were on death row, what would your last meal be?

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milly 10 months

Diva, I keep getting so fucking confused seeing people talking about twin peaks on TikTok because apparently, a lot of the time, it is not in reference to the cult classic David Lynch series featuring beloved actor, muse and internet sweatheart, Kyle MacLachlan.

jnathxn 10 months

Deleted Grindr again. Honestly it's like a toxic relationship I just keep going back

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maxixix 9 months

what’s your favorite thing about yourself?

golden-behinde3815 10 months

My mothers one of those people who doesn’t like tattoos, she’s always said to me: “I don’t care if your gay, but if you ever get a tattoo I’m disowning you” ummm okay? You don’t draw the line at gay but you do at tattoos? 😂😂

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riley.max.official 9 months

Hi! Is anyone else masc4masc or butch4butch????

giupi 9 months

I’m not afraid of love!

soupwaylee 10 months

i can't quite put a finger on it but something about post-2022 Olivia Dean releases sound smh less mature than her early EPs and singles

shawnnnnn 10 months

How do you make friends after moving to a new city?

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jcp 10 months

Anyone is amateur chef/foodie ? What’s your ultimate Sunday supper ?

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brandonsevilla 10 months

Stuck in a rut. What do you do when you feel aimless and unmotivated?

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arber 10 months

Would love to visit new places! Where are you from and what’s the funnest thing for you to do in your city/town? 🫶

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tomasderico 10 months

Universe be funny — you tell yourself “I amma be single and live life!” Next thing you know, a genuine connection comes along and now we out here fighting for our lives to not fall for someone…🫠🫠

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gaymini 10 months

is everything still romantic?

abe 9 months

How are you MAGA and a gay… babe, you’re a maggot…

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cjf 10 months

Let’s chat. Tell me your favourite movie.

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dave21 10 months

When was your first kiss?❤️

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lochgarman 10 months

i'm mourning summer, its hands slipping from my neck. a grasp I yearned for endlessly, ending as quickly as I forget, the person I was before and the person I want to become. i'm in a new season of my life, roads yet unpaved make their way out in front of me. I'm mourning all the summers I've ever had. I'm falling asleep, with your hands slipping through mine. I mourn summer and your kiss, both beautifully brief and divine.

rhyian 9 months

I have no idea how this works 😂

anselm 9 months

People who throw their cigarettes on the ground are 🤡

apollo_noir 9 months

If you’re romantically into me, then call me “girlie pop”, it’s straight to the chopping block.

tgcowles 10 months

tattoo session booked for next week! help me decide which flower i should add to my arm next: orange blossom, daffodil or violets?

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carlosphth 9 months

A lot of people want to be friend of mine, but how I know who they are? Also how the DMs work here? Just DM me guys

cjf 10 months

Let’s build a playlist. Give me a song that you think everyone should listen to!

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samuelgiorno 9 months

Hello from the other side!

masc_y_medio 10 months

It was so refreshing to meet queer men and feeling like genuine connections were being made vs. a shady encounter filled with back handed complements and weird energy.

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piu-piu 10 months

Dating is like WiFi… everybody wants a strong connection but nobody wants to pay the bill

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jarron 9 months

fujoshi girls to the front🗣️

juansimm 9 months

Does anyone want to talk lol🥲

piu-piu 10 months

Y’all can keep the nonchalant men, i'm gonna live happily ever after w my yearner, yapper, overchalant man

allmyfriendsaresuperheroes 9 months

Don’t be mad that YOU fumbled ME 😪

ghostly 10 months

Does anyone have any app ideas that we could build together?

_mattepio_ 10 months

What you do to cheer up in a bad day? Pls give me ideas ‘cause I’m out

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milly 10 months

remember when the entire Optus network went down so like 10 million Australians just had zero phone or interner access ? My phone and wifi are both under Optus so I dead set woke up and thought some apocalypse shit happened lmao

kourt 9 months

i gyatt to stop opening up colllective in public 😗

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jw.carte 10 months

why does it always feel like I’m the only one sweating on my campus 😭

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alextep 9 months

Men with Samsungs are actually kinda hot … please don’t hate me 💔

0beron_0restes 9 months

To think that I used to want to live in the US 😭🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

jarron 9 months

I need a man who got the Robin Williams drip

avatar.isaac 9 months

Jimmy Kimmel fired?! Recession indicator

badcreations 9 months

Okay so like whatever happened to freedom of speech? 👀 So sad to see our rights being violated just cause someone doesn’t like our opinion.

soupwaylee 10 months

i think the worst UX crime ever might be when your text-searched emojis don't automatically go into your recently used - like im so sick of having to repeatedly type eye eye lips if i wanna react with 👁️👄👁️

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