mrpenguin 8 months

The monday hits different today

psaltair 8 months

there’s a change gonna come//I feel it coming in me

6nny1 8 months

Emptiness is what the nervous system constantly makes you feel when it’s learned that it’s not safe to feel your feelings. It’s also why you’re smoking an ungodly amount of weed every day because something is always better than nothing.

renanalive 9 months

Meet somebody that wants to love you - not someone that needs to be loved! ❤️ I heard this today and it stuck. Wanted to pass it on. ❤️

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fleaskinny 8 months

You know what? Hell no

breadhubby 8 months

Phoebe bridgers wrecking havoc on my mental state once again by my own doing

joelleclover 8 months

Alright so since the owner of OF is a Zionist, where are content creators going instead? I’ve been thinking of starting an OF type thing for a while now. Where’s the best platform for sw creators?

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sub 9 months

Is this loneliness, or is it just adulthood? Or is adulthood really this lonely?

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jkuptwo2 8 months

I don’t flirt, I just exist and people react 💁🏼‍♀️

jota 9 months

Un my current job I need to be online all the time to stay updated on trends and aesthetics, and I love that part. But personally, at this moment, I don’t want to be online at all. Don’t know if that makes sense.

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jonasbv 8 months

In México we don’t celebrate Thanksgiving but wishing you all a lovely night with your loved ones 🫶🏼

eyeofpsi 8 months

Are there any Biomedical Engineers on here?

loloinyourarea 8 months

where is my top dom crazy funny sunny cat lover to play video games 🐈

hamal 8 months

My husband is somewhere out there in his 30’s -40’s working on himself. I’m here baby building our empire. The universe will align us in due time

sailormars 9 months

For all the gay men out there who feel unattractive, unwanted and unloved. This is something you’ve learned, and you can unlearn it. It’s a phase, not forever. You can grow into someone you can love, and outgrow the version of you that feels unworthy of love.

jama 8 months

I had to delete my social media to focus on studying and work. How do you balance being addicted to social media with real life?

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1dig0 8 months

WHAT IS REMEMBERED LIVES

roast.rescue.repeat 9 months

I was clearing out the house last month and I found a roll of 35mm film from years and years ago. I sent it off to be developed and the images just arrived in my inbox this evening. Time hasn’t been kind. They’re faded and the colours have blurred into a kind of shimmer. Some of them are beyond understanding but, in a couple of them, a face smiles out of the dreamy haze. It was the year 2000. I’d been seeing a guy for a while and we decided to spend the entire day in bed. We talked and drank and fucked and smoked and, for that day, my bed became our world. Nothing else existed. It was only us. I think that was the day we told each other I love you. We weren’t together for very long after that but we stayed in touch and spoke occasionally and, though we both went on to have committed, long-term relationships, I still think about him often. He died three years ago. I can’t describe how happy it makes me to see him again, from a perfect day, half remembered. Make your memories now, folks, and cherish them later.

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jvh 8 months

I don’t think so honey, collaborations with Zara.

something_sharpe 8 months

I fear this year is the least interested in Christmas I’ve ever been.

muffyn 8 months

No one said being an Architecture student would me easy, and that shows, but hard work pays off 💅

hurdad 9 months

My cat died 4 days ago Every day has been hell. I never thought I would lose her so soon and I can't stop thinking about her, how much I her, I think about how I'm never gonna be able to hug her again. I keep thinking did I help her live a happy life? Did she miss me? Did I cause her pain because I had to flee from Iran and I couldnt take her with me? If only I could've found a job and get a flat so I could bring her here she still would be alive. I try not to blame myself and not blame my friend who let her go out in their yard and play, who knew she would run into the street right? But I just think I would've never let her play in the yard because I was always afraid of losing her, I tried to give her the best food, I took her to the vet with the slightest discomfort, I wanted her to live very long 6 years is so little,she was the best cat,she was my daughter. I can't belive she's now buried under a pomegranate tree and I couldnt even hug her one last time...

georgeoooo 8 months

Why do good things happen to bad people. I’ve been talking to this guys I really like and we were going to meet up and he cancelled and now he’s ghosting me. I’m feeling so much stuff rn someone help me understand 🙏

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blessedjess 9 months

You know inside that they don’t deserve your energy But you ask yourself, “who does?” You dear. You deserve all of your energy at the moment.

mikevi 8 months

I know not everyone likes or enjoys this time of the year because of the festivities, but i hope everyone has a pleasant month! pepermint icecream is in season!!

leo.nardo.r 8 months

I need new Pokémon friends

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j.w 8 months

I need a drink and card game in a pub. 🍺🍷🃏

oandreoliveiracosta 8 months

Loved to see all your original crop pics 😏 DM open

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hamal 8 months

Wrap me in your arms again The adrenaline makes me shiver Show me that you're genuine, that I'm safe again That you came here different No time to define, but before we get closer I ask if you love me, and you just, won't you just -Obsessed with this song 😩

jax.jack_ 9 months

never let me download a dating app ever again, why do straight men think i want to match with them? -_-

halfpersianboy 9 months

story time, rare toxic edition i experience here on collective: i received an unsolicited 🍆 pic here (weeks ago) via a dm, i reported him and no update has ever been shared with me - he still has his account active (and others may’ve potetially experienced the same) how does the moderation work? and how is enforcing the community guidelines ensured on here, @cal?

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benvstheuniverse 8 months

second time going to destin conrad’s concert and seeing handsome men, second time not doing anything about it 😭😭

._.dude. 8 months

Hey chat, asking for a friend what does it mean if a guy stops responding after the hookup? Is he waiting for me for a txt first ? Lmao asking for a friend ;-;

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shawnmendes 9 months

Decided on a whim that I wanted to host a holiday party at my tiny apartment in a few weeks and now I’m stressed lol. Why am I like this??

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pushkarovych 8 months

universe give me a sign that i’m on my path

eyeofpsi 8 months

So many hot people, yet they’re all so far away

mattbenjammin 9 months

Does anyone want to practice French with me? Quelqu’un veut pratiquer le français avec moi? 🇫🇷

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ismael-now 8 months

Sí mijo, calm down, breathe, hydrate, then win. 💅🏽📊💖

dylpics 8 months

Back to the gym today after a few months (like 36 months). Send thoughts and prayers (and maybe some tips).

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fabianmk 8 months

Heated Rivalry. Casting was obviously chosen for their great acting skills and outstanding 🍑 Thanks 🫡

saochiang 9 months

Second grad school app, submitted. Freaking out, but whatever happens, happens. Gonna research for other grad schools, but these were the two that were closest to what my goals are. Fingers crossed.

bartosz 8 months

I love discovering spicy X accounts from guys I know in real life 🫣

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oleks1i 8 months

I have depression and body dysmorphic disorder. I'm tired.

judson 8 months

Ok but where are my bears at

lax 8 months

683 Feel tired the whole day… taking another day off tomorrow, finger cross I feel better tomorrow

moor 9 months

I Never thought I’d have a proper ✨coming out✨ as I’ve just always been openly fruity. Couple days ago in therapy I had one of the most existential moments when I accidentally ended up having what can’t be described as anything other than a coming out to myself and it’s changed everything for me.

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baldestbaddie 9 months

how are yall making gay friends? like am i missing a monthly meeting or something?

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._.dude. 9 months

And maybe if I sit out long enough in this crisp golden hour, perhaps the stinging kiss of frostbite will remind me of that blistering bliss that is your lips

lax 8 months

682 Back alive today…not looking forward to going back to boring old work though

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