samuelgiorno 7 months

I’m f*cking freezing

tayyeb 8 months

Is anyone finding dating just boring atp?? Like why do people say hi and then go into witness protection?

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critical.spike 8 months

Today is the day, I came out to my parents

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fawn 7 months

to those with unsupportive or homophobic families, what do you do?

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psychedelicprince 7 months

googled someone’s username to background check and a collective profile popped up as one of the results… okay, i trust him.

avatar.isaac 7 months

people without spacial awareness really do be bumping through life

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ilyessensei 7 months

Minneapolis has seen too much shit from the cops that city should already be pig-free by now. ppl are not upset enough.

bratzboygee 7 months

I can’t wait to find the LOML 💙

sailormars 7 months

The only thing standing between you, your goals and your dreams is energy. Embody that energy and let it move you.

zach 7 months

WHAT DOES ONE DO IN LA ON NYE HELP

chandan 7 months

Oh my gooooodddddddd Heated rivalry was sooo good, teary and happy. There are beautiful and emotionally mature tops out there.

niccoloserratt 7 months

Has anyone seen “we were the lucky ones” on Disney Plus? I need to unpack my tears

avatar.isaac 7 months

Mother is quickly becoming a socialist after 5 seconds in European transportation

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itsrobynrobin 7 months

I am 31 and I do not know what to dream of or plan for my life anymore or where I am headed in 2026. Anyone wanna take this decision for me or give me inspiration? 🤭

saochiang 7 months

Still -40 F, now with ice fog thrown into the mix for flavor. For one solid month. It hasn’t been this consistently cold in at least a decade… it’s kind of surreal that a normalcy that I haven’t seen/felt in years is still going strong, and the first time since I was a teenager that I’ve wanted warmer weather to come back this badly… 🥶

avatar.isaac 7 months

Every time a kid screams in public I’m like, “same”

landonlucev 7 months

he done just called me tall glass of milk. 😂😂

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jbenjamin 7 months

It drives me crazy when I mix up question marks and exclamation points? You feel the same!

timosworld 7 months

REAL TALK #13 "I will never understand why guys are not able to cancel a date instead of standing somebody up. Is it cowardness? Is it shame? Is it just ignorance and disrespect? It happened to me three times in a row now, with three different guys. Two of these guys did not even have the courage to respond to me when I asked for what happened. The third guy: "Why so much drama?" Even though I don't want to get bitter from these experiences, I do feel that it changes something within me."

camrn 7 months

Just finished Heated Rivalry last night 🥵 It’s obviously hot but what a sweet story as well

luisteran 7 months

happy new year! i am certain this year will bring us all peace, love and closet to our goals, to anyone who is having/ had a hard time this past year, i wish you the absolute best and know that I’m here if anyone ever needs someone to listen, or talk to (even tho im not the best at texting back fast)

psaltair 7 months

the thrill is gone away

vtang 7 months

Thinking of swapping LA for SF! 🌉 I’m looking for a community where values feel a bit more aligned. Do you think it’s a smart move, or should I stay put? • A. Total upgrade. Go for it! • B. Grass is always greener. Stay in LA. • C. Depends on what values you're chasing. Hit me with your advice/experiences! 🏳️‍🌈

milly 7 months

Me every time I rewatch supernatural be like: 🧍🏻Wait actually, that reminds me ! This one time on supernatural…wait did you see the panel at comic con that one time ? Anyway…one time on supernatural they did this thing and it reminds me of that actually omg and also…

chandan 8 months

Went on a first date after 5 months and now im planning our wedding 🤣 Relatable?

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csg101 8 months

How I worked a double then gym then go out to the bars just to come back to a 7 am work out before work at 9 am is beyond me LMAO

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bratzboygee 7 months

may or not move to ATL

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locke-e 8 months

You let me breathe, Even when I can’t see myself. For the nights I felt too full, Too heavy, A burden in my own mind. Knowing what was better for me, Was telling me to stop. To take it in, And come back when I was ready. I couldn’t see that from the start, Thought it was another careless thing to say. But I took your advice to heart, Ended a call, Made it short but sweet. Slept on it, Woke up, Feeling like me again. You were right, And maybe I was too blind, Too in my head, Stubborn to think I needed to take a pause. Thank you for trying to do what’s best, For telling me this wasn’t right. That me feeling this way, Could, And should, Be worked out in other ways.

rickeythompson 7 months

Being back home for the holidays is cute but ughhh I miss my bed

petros97 7 months

Your fragrance shapes your world. Choose it like an investment. 🌟

sierramichhh 7 months

My god, stupid people with stupid opinions hurt my brain so much im actually enraged rn. Shutting the fuck up is always an option! Hope this helps💜

alvaroreinoso 8 months

I need a new Solange album so bad 😩

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littledrew 8 months

Merry Christmas, boys🎄💕 You are loved, worthy and enough–remember that. Make your Yuletides gay today.

hehiminbloom 8 months

I might finally be able to get independent housing 🥳 From homeless to nearly housed by blessings after blessings

goluboi 7 months

where the chubby boys...

zayn 7 months

what am i looking for? someone to have 4 daughters and 1 son with, you down or why you asking

sub 8 months

Consistency reveals what words try to conceal. Intentions exist everywhere; behavior is rare. We mistake intensity for depth, and charm for commitment. Relationships are not built on how things sound, but on what quietly repeats itself. What we practice matters more than what we promise. What stays matters more than what excites. Connection only exists where effort moves both ways. Without reciprocity, there is presence, but no meeting. Consistency, in the end, is the most honest form of care. Remember this the next time you fall in love, or when someone offers you connection. What isn’t shown is often the loudest truth.

nate 7 months

if I advocate for nuance does that make me non-binary

temporaryboyfriend 7 months

petition for video content…i have a lot to say.

mxaddo 7 months

Rewatching Looking and it’s still such a good showw

chandan 7 months

Why galarian birds are soo hard to catch!? They are literally the worst legendary ever

goldntimelover 7 months

i checked a place that was empty just to be sure

lax 7 months

652 Spent the evening with my close friend, catching up after the new years… time well spent 🤍

sierramichhh 7 months

Positively jealous of all the cute girls w hime cuts😍😍💋

itsjacobedmonds 7 months

Happy New Year, gays!! 🎉 🏳️‍🌈

me-piotr 8 months

So, apparently every bird it’s technically a dinosaur, but not everything that people consider dinosaurs are actually dinosaurs, like mosasaur (sea lizard) and pterosaurs (flying lizards).

shawnmendes 7 months

Can’t believe Season 1 already over. I need another 6 episodes pronto. And I need an invite to the cottage. My bags already packed lol.

fleaskinny 7 months

Posting a text because collective yelled at me for not having anything up for the last 3 weeks 😭 I’m sorry sir 😩😩🤪🤪…. Punish me. Please

nico-laos 7 months

nuovo in desperato bisogno di nuove amicizie/ conoscenze a milano ⭐️

sailormars 7 months

Be you, you’ll be fine

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