avatar.isaac 7 months

I stg Mona Lisa is a doll

boszaloha 7 months

Soon, this year will come to an end. One thing we can give ourselves for everything we’ve been through is gratitude, because it is ourselves who carried us through so much, and it is ourselves who will continue into the year ahead. Thank you for being strong, and for growing another year. ✌🏻💪🏻

saochiang 8 months

One of two grad school applications replied back. Rejected on the basis of competition… Fair, really struggled with the cover letters, so I’m not surprised…. Still sucks though. One more school left to hear back from, meanwhile I’ll continue to look at other degrees in theatre and art…

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phoebe 7 months

Go read the Substack (if you fancy)😏

marcelek 8 months

What are your own countries’ Christmas traditions or just your own personal ones? Im curious 🎄 I’ll start > in Poland we often buy a carp (a big pond fish) and put in our bathtubs to live for a little (one day usually) before preparing it for deep fry to serve as one of the dishes for Christmas 🫣

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canele 7 months

Fuck the US and its imperialism in Venezuela. Venezuela Libre de Imperialismo! ✊🏽

milly 8 months

People finding out I’ve never been in any kind of relationship is genuinely so fucking humiliating. It’s something that is just such a non issue to me but they’ll IMMEDIATELY start treating me like a child.

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psaltair 7 months

what do you listen to when you lift? lately I’ve been listening to Brazilian house and funk

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michenoble 7 months

Idk whether to go out for New Year’s Eve or not, someone plz give me a definitive answer ;/

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lax 8 months

670 Going to another Christmas dinner, it is nice to know that I have people around that don’t want me to feel lonely this time of the year and I truly appreciate it… Still I am exhausted, I wanna lie down and play some games

matt.vst 8 months

Trying to find a museum with an interesting architecture for a new linocut, any recommandations ?

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sailormars 7 months

Hey you, yeah you! The one reading this. You are such a babe 💋

austinsdalley 7 months

Ins: Colors House parties Cats Stability Classic silhouettes Tasteful risks Coffee Art on the wall Candles Big cities Gallery openings Boxer briefs Books Outs: Labubus Bad Clubs Polyester Consumerism High screen time Fitness food Fascism Fake plants Cool tone lights Small towns Bug spray Cerave (maybe) Monotheism

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milly 7 months

Bought a pair of knee high converse in the Boxing Day sales I’m about to be unstoppable

aphrodite.aphroditus 7 months

"A rose by any other name would smell as sweet" -Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet

cooleeule 7 months

Guys, what is this? I don't understand what to do 😂😅 Who can explain this to me?

mikevi 8 months

One Verry suprising side benefit Ive been gettin from this app is, slightly more confidence with my body image! I see other guys posting pictures with similar body types to me, BUT with Much much more confidence. And its like, damn, why or what am I worried about?

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omarisims 8 months

I’m running toward the life I asked for, but my feet feel heavy with doubt. Every dream I chase turns around and asks me why I don’t believe in myself yet. I sit alone with all this wanting— wanting to be seen, wanting to feel enough without proving it first. Some days I swear I’m close, other days I feel like the distance itself. Still, I wake up reaching, because even frustrated, even tired, this hope in me refuses to leave. And how I’d love it so— to arrive without apologizing for the time it took me to believe I was worthy of the dream the whole time.

gwaread 7 months

I forgot how to work? Like…. What do I even do?

romerolli 7 months

hasta que entiendas que no voy a dejarte ir tan fácil, yo soy ese lugar, donde podrás volverte frágil, frágil, no hay explicación, no te tengo una razón, simplemente sucedió, que esto entre tú y yo como un río se desbordó, fuimos lo que se llevó

paolosal97 8 months

Nicki minaj becoming MAGA is my last disappointment of 2025.

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chrisgardener 8 months

Does anyone else hate receiving Christmas cards? I get such joy putting them through a shredder on Christmas Day to finally be rid of them…

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morelikemarin 7 months

Taking applications for a bf btw

lax 7 months

654 Starting to get back to routine.

heljo 7 months

Just started watching Fairy Tail. Plue is me.

datboi_ash 7 months

In order to get a hot man BECOME THE HOT MAN

bryan-tino 8 months

I ended a 4 year relationship this year and ironically when I first met that person, I knew we wouldn’t last forever. In the back of my head i knew this day would come. Do i feel like i wasted 4 years? No. We had some incredible fun along the way but growing incompatibilities further made the break up easier in a way. No hurt, no remorse just letting go.

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tofubrat 8 months

Teenage drama shows that have queer representation rlly warm my heart in a healing kind of way. I wish they existed when I watched TV as a kid

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marco 8 months

When does confidence become delusion?

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lax 7 months

667 Got a new game on my Nintendo and spent the whole day just playing Hades ||

jjsjusthere 8 months

BingeWatched heated rivalry Worst idea ever CRIED

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justjanth 8 months

merry christmas ya filthy animals

marcelek 8 months

Hello! What is your favorite present you ever received? Christmas topic again 🎄🥰 Mine was a hot wheels set with an accelerator- even though I’m was never a car boy 🤠

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godson 8 months

Any Apex Legends or Minecraft players here?

alvaroreinoso 8 months

I got obsessed with The Real Housewives of Potomac. I think it’s so underrated, but the drama is givinggggg!

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thotanist 7 months

Out in 2026 - meal subscription boxes. Just go to the shop 💀

psaltair 8 months

i love when gym crush walks in when i’m getting tired bc it’s like i’m doing this for you now honey

sierramichhh 7 months

The quinn app is holding me hostage 😩😩

zayn 7 months

i need to stop putting so much energy into stupid arguments, why am i still angry, GOD

boszaloha 8 months

📆This year is coming to an end, and somehow, we made it through. There were hard days, quiet loneliness, moments of sadness and self-doubt. But we’re still here. And for that alone, we deserve to be proud. Life wasn’t easy—but we survived it. And that makes us incredibly strong.✌🏻💪🏻

sunshinee 7 months

I am the luckiest.

ilanzo333 7 months

i wanna kiss a boy. 🫥

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zayuh 7 months

happy new years to all my hottie mutuals on here ily 🫶

avatar.isaac 8 months

the odd thing is that the Protestant church is a child of divorce

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jbenjamin 8 months

Okay I need at least two episodes explaining why Kip the barista is just as jacked as the professional hockey players AND why everyone in Heated Rivalry exclusively wears black boxer briefs!! Am I thinking too hard about this?!

korster 7 months

Happy New Year, everyone! I genuinely wish you all the best and most prosperous New Year. May you be blessed with peace, love, and happiness.

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beck-oncall 8 months

officially signed with a fitness team that is specifically for Queer trans masc folks - I’m so locked in and ready to look how I always wanted to 🥳 My coach is my twin fr I enjoyed every second I talked to him

enigmattic 7 months

It looks like my NYE activities ended up being phone free! I’m sorry I don’t have pics, Collective.

yeuris 7 months

Is there a cancer full moon or something? Why I’m sad because im single and haven’t found my partner in life.😭 I need to get up!!

zander 7 months

we must remain whimsical to survive the horrors of this world

temporaryboyfriend 7 months

is it bad that I still want to capture your attention even as the world burns

tarbarsam 8 months

I bought sneakers. Burgundy ones. I told myself I should buy grey — sensible, neutral, “everyday.” But deep down, I wanted the burgundy. So I got them. For two days I wore them, and they hurt like hell. I thought, aha, that’s what I get for wanting something bold. Should’ve gone with grey. And then it hit me — the problem wasn’t the colour. The problem was the size. Life is like that, isn’t it? We think it’s about choosing grey or burgundy, when all along it’s about finding what truly fits

leoiswho 7 months

There’s not enough bears on this app 😤

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