southerncowrie 6 months

Euthanasia is a pretty name for a girl

Like 2 comments

tomasderico 6 months

Happy Monday…what’s the plan this week…?

Like 2 comments

lax 7 months

639 Did some pattern making with my good friend… so a step towards progress

datboi_ash 7 months

RED WHITE AND ROYAL BLUE IS COMING BACK BABY ITS TIME TO GO FROM THE COTTAGE TO THE BALLROOM

boiled 7 months

Fun fact: I had an appointment to get a septum piercing but they told me my nose isn’t a good candidate for septum piercing. So I went to plan b and got a nostril piercing. Woe.

allaboutal3x 7 months

Let’s make music fun and not a yawn sesh.. give me distortion give me noise in the background, give me chaos Because everyone needs a little bit of chaos in their life if not then you’re just sitting still and being boring 🫠 a good example of this ‼️ i’m not saying that slow easy-going music is terrible but for me this year I’m craving excitement and adrenaline Who can agree?

tsty 7 months

iguanas freeze and fall out of the trees when it’s cold im sick

psaltair 6 months

I hope you know you’re not alone

thatonelankyboy 6 months

3 weeks without being able to play volleyball is rough 💀

melisha_barboza 6 months

Ate a chocolate chip cookie, life is good again 🩷

psaltair 6 months

You don’t know the world like I do // you don’t know how good ppl can be

bratzboygee 6 months

People in an open relationship who still date are greedy. I also think that if you’re in an open relationship, you should only date people with the same mindset as you.

sub 7 months

This app is so damn boring 🥱

Like 9 comments

sierramichhh 7 months

Victoria paris stan to hater pipeline is getting real

dmtr 7 months

Can anyone recommend tattoo artists in Barcelona?

sierramichhh 6 months

So many in these streets want me to be their first baddie 🤭 likeeeee can you handle it??

milly 7 months

My dad has given me his collection of ~70s era sci fi and horror paperbacks. He’s so endearingly excited for me to have them and for them to be out of storage. Anyway, I was thinking of over a few days or weeks photographing and posting each cover on here, thoughts ¿

Like 6 comments

southerncowrie 6 months

Justin Bieber has always been a sangin’ ass man omg. So happy our girl is back on the stage😭

lax 7 months

643 Went out with a group to a club yesterday, actually had fun and some rest without feeling exhausted Didn’t know that was achievable

sub 7 months

So many people want intimacy, but not responsibility. Connection, but no effort. Depth, without vulnerability. And they wonder why everything feels empty. Fearing to be seen, to be honest, and staying when it’s no longer convenient. In this galaxy of never ending people constantly chasing connection, the real rarity is sincerity, consistency, and the courage to stay. All crave closeness, yet disappear the moment vulnerability is required.

shawn92 6 months

New to the app. Expanding my circle, and always open to experience new places. South Florida business owner, gym-goer and Creative Director.

dylpics 7 months

Hair transplants. Tell me your stories (or someone else’s).

Like 3 comments

strawbrry 6 months

lord give me the strength to write another cover letter 🙂‍↕️

lav 6 months

I can see your Willy Wonka 😏

Like 2 comments

autumnexpected 6 months

Hot take: Girls ruined Adam Driver for me (sorry Robyn)

ethana 7 months

I need someone that can rubbdtle me. A challenger as much as they are a team mate. Someone to go to war with and against.

lav 6 months

I like you, you like him, he likes someone else.

stingraysnap 7 months

I’m not upgraded on here so the best way to give me heads up is honestly just to comment on one of my posts

zay 6 months

deleted my TikTok so I can be on collective full time❤️

polo 6 months

Il fair un froid du canard !

luisteran 7 months

allowing yourself to feel is one of the scariest and most beautiful things one can do

sierramichhh 7 months

Just watched the first 10mins of welcome to derry……..what the helly

sierramichhh 6 months

Tennis season come back to meeeeee😫

firstraver 7 months

Should I get back into flirting hard with y’all on here like it’s my job, or is everyone still not “checking” their messages? 🤨

mandarrrr 7 months

I got the feeling my insides were all wrong and my heart always ached for springtime when I was new and winter had not yet frozen these few soft things like my wings and the strings in my step

bex 7 months

Why didn’t anyone tell me how much metamorphosis hurt? 😭🐛🦋

Like 4 comments

lax 6 months

630 End of January 2026. What have we done?

george 7 months

Ok so I have to announce that my soulful cover of “Paparazzi” is closing in as close contender for my favorite song to perform at karaoke…after Drunk in Love of course 🫣

shg 7 months

Any opinions on Nuffield Health? I just got tgeir membership.

byjoshjames 6 months

It's a great day to stream BECOMING by Michelle Obama. Make it number 1 on all streaming services.

chrisgardener 7 months

Sometimes it’s the small things we take for granted that others value the most about us

milly 7 months

Jeff Koons & Damien Hirst 🍅🍅👎👎👎👎🍅👎🍅🍅🍅🍅

avatar.isaac 7 months

why does music in certain public spaces immediately makes me feel uneasy. it’s like the quality of speakers or the acoustics. not sure tbh.

sampson 7 months

have yet to find the creativity promised by doing The Artists Way but MY GOD it’s bringing out my insecurities

Like 5 comments

sierramichhh 7 months

Writers, what are yall writing about these days? I wanna restart my blog but im like wtf do I have to say (a lot actually but also nothing at the same time do u get me??)

aquaalaa 6 months

Having a mental breakdown 3 days in a row OMG

strawbrry 7 months

job hunting with OCD is trash because the compulsion to check emails becomes so hard to manage so I’m refreshing like a mf while receiving nothing but shopping newsletters I subscribed to when I once had some semblance of disposable income 🙂‍↕️ sisters, I want off this ride! ❎🎢

a120 7 months

I’m making strip backgammon a thing

Like 2 comments

milly 7 months

Since I can remember all I’ve ever wanted is to be one of those people who’s friends with a celebrity but like isn’t properly famous and just kinda hangs out with famous people and no one knows where they came from or what their job actually is.

mralastairjames 7 months

I just want to sing. And I can sing quite well. So, how do I go about doing this? Ideas are welcome x

Like 3 comments

zayn 7 months

I’m just a body to you, aren’t I? A whore, a convenient shape, a piece of flesh you think the world already owns. You don’t count the fingerprints because you assume they’re countless, because you assume I’m meant to be touched, meant to be taken, meant to be passed around like a cheap cigarette in the back alley of your ego. You treat me like a public service, a body with no history, no price, no right to say mine. And when you speak, i feel it. Every time you laugh, every time your eyes go feral, every time you reach for me like I was already paid for, you turn me into an ashtray. And the ashes inside? They’re mine. My dreams. My softness. My stupid belief that someone might see more than the heat of my skin or the curve of my mouth. And yes, I take responsibility for my so‑called whoreness. I do. Because how could this be my destiny if I wasn’t built for the spectacle? For the role? For the theater of cheap desire you all crave? Isn’t that what you want? my body as your stage, my ruin as your entertainment, my humiliation as your applause? You want me to perform the ache, the hunger, the surrender. You want me to be the fantasy you can touch without ever having to understand.

sadplantboi 7 months

Despite it all, I have a feeling everything’s gonna be alright. 🐢

lav 7 months

Charisma, Uniqueness, Nerve and Trauma.

champilano 6 months

Proof that zero effort can still exist on this app… 2026 edition.

Next Page

Discussions on Collective

Looking for your people? Finding a real community can be tough for LGBTQ+ folks. Discussions on Collective makes it easy.

Browse conversations and discussions from our global community of over 140,000 gay, lesbian, bi, trans, and queer folks. It's an open LGBTQ+ forum and chat space where we welcome straight allies and anyone who is just starting out, unsure of their labels, or early on their journey, too.

Used to scrolling askgaybros for advice? You'll feel right at home here. Whether you're looking for a casual gay chat to make friends in your city, a lesbian forum to ask for support, swapping travel tips, or just need a place to be a bit vulnerable with people who actually get it, this is where it happens. Come join the conversation.

Far more than just a gay friends app, Collective is an LGBTQ+ social network where you can connect with like-minded people, discover local queer events, find travel buddies, and get involved in all kinds of interest groups.

Ready to find your chosen family? Download the Collective app and come say hi. It's free!