eyeofpsi 9 months

Just spent 10 hours braiding my hair for it to look like shit. This must be hell.

curated_by_marc 9 months

This is me flirting 😂🤓: “Some gays are so obsessed with huge muscles, trying to look like the next Hulk pumped like balloons that are about to explode. I find body types like yours far more appealing, as they look more athletic. Not to mention that clothes fit better; it is basically the model's body type. I know this because I worked as a fashion photographer. Have a good day ☀️”

andreyy.r 9 months

Again, best alternatives to the Spotify music streaming app?

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jbenjamin 9 months

Does Gavin Newsom text anyone else as much as he texts me or…?

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milly 9 months

American brand UGG trying to pretend they invented shit always gets me fucking riled up lmao. That shits OURS bro, like dead ass like trying to trademark the word sandal and not letting anyone else use it, fuck right off cunt I swear to god hahahaha

toimoiaussi_ 9 months

I don’t post too much. My 90,000 photos just demand equal rights to be seen. 😅

cgsmithson 9 months

Sydney Videographer needed for interior design promotional videos. Hit me up if you know of someone, prefer to support local LGBTQ+ businesses

itsleo 9 months

Also any nice gyms in town??

masc_y_medio 9 months

Learning that if you want community you might need to start creating your own space or asking others to join in!

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jaig 9 months

Any tips on getting back into gym/workout routine when lacking motivation to do so?

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jaye.zen 9 months

A little text I wrote in the bus last night: I’m fine. Of course I’m fine, I’m always fine. I’m happy you got the girl I wrote two fucking songs about. I would’ve never gotten her anyways. It doesn’t hurt, I knew it wouldn’t work. I’m just a child. It doesn’t hurt, it doesn’t hurt, it doesn’t hurt. I don’t hurt. I’m not crying. I’m not frustrated. I know how I’m feeling: fine. Why would I wanna throw my phone on the ground? Why would I wanna rip my skin off? I’m happy for you. I love this for you. I don’t need anyone to hug me. I don’t need anyone to listen to me. Of course I have someone who would. If I was a little heartbroken, you know, hypothetically speaking. But of course I am not. I saw this coming. So I don’t need anyone to listen to me.

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rainbowwarrior 9 months

Shout out to the owner of this platform. Our community desperately needed something like this!

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sailormars 9 months

Everybody wants connection and everybody needs separateness.

dylannn 9 months

Job Search in London 💼🤯 I’m currently exploring new opportunities in Customer Support / Customer Operations leadership, ideally within SaaS, tech, or customer-centric organisations that value innovation, empathy, and continuous improvement. Please share your thoughts and how you navigated this. Having been made redundant and unemployed since May. I'm finding it difficult!

bradenmac 9 months

I’m in Paris from 8–13 Nov 🇫🇷 If anyone has recommendations on clubs, bars, cafes, etc. I’m all ears. Would also love to know the best arrondissements to hang out/explore (I’m staying in Montmartre) and any places that are off the beaten track/less touristy. Cheers ✌🏻❤️

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mikevi 9 months

One of the great thing about late night dog walks is, there are never any other dogs out to worry about! They be sleepy hahaha

serenawilliams 9 months

but but but hey silver lining is today i am sober enough to finally go to my STI testing. as of like last year i wouldn’t miss it, 10-12 weeks i’d go faithfully. then i started missing appointments because i was still up or having a huge comedown. baby steps!

lax 9 months

699 Looking forward to weekends when there are plans with friends🤍 Also been skiving off and not pushing myself with exercising more often Mental note* to do it more if I want to achieve my goal

giannni 9 months

the new lily allen on repeat

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utto 9 months

Hi everyone! If you know of any openings for a graduate architect skilled in Revit, I’d really appreciate a heads-up. I’m flexible with location!

bryan2agh 9 months

Lo siento ¿de qué se trata esto?

medge26 9 months

Happy first snow nyc ❄️

mauro. 9 months

Dressing up as a monogamous men for Halloween bcs apparently that shit is scary af 👻

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mazepagustavo 9 months

“There’s a wonderful old Italian joke about a poor man who goes to church every day and prays before the statue of a great saint, begging, “Dear saint—please, please, please… give me the grace to win the lottery.” This lament goes on for months. Finally the exasperated statue comes to life, looks down at the begging man and says in weary disgust, “My son—please, please, please… buy a ticket.”” Elizabeth Gilbert — Eat, Pray, Love

psychedelicprince 9 months

if you’ve never been hit with gay allegations, you’re not fly enough.

shinigabry 9 months

hey, I’m looking for a CDI in communication based in Paris. Don’t hesitate to reach me out if you have any leads :) And I’m pretty fun !

pach 9 months

some people want it all but I don’t want nothing at all if I ain’t you, baby if I ain’t got you, baby

lax 9 months

Been a stressful day 708

kalelder 9 months

Any fellow photographers/videographers out there? Would love to connect.

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jarrodt83 9 months

I’ve met some great people on here. And some people just stop talking. *Looks directly at you*

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juanda 9 months

When you live with the heart, you stop negotiating with the sky. You learn courage by drowning, not by floating. I rewind each night midnight becomes a rehearsal of forgetting, the lights go out but my mind keeps sketching worlds that haven’t signed a lease in reality yet. Maybe this is a letter, or a trick to exhaust the ache. Maybe it’s the caffeine in the word maybe that keeps me awake. You said it’s a game of no expectations and I believed you, the way a wave believes the shore will still be there even after breaking a thousand times. I don’t expect you, I just expand into love that doesn’t ask for anything, into the fever of what isn’t convenient. If I could choose, I’d still choose the hard thing, the beautiful mistake that keeps teaching me how to breathe underwater. Because when I live with the heart, I live with courage and courage is the art of staying open while falling apart in style. — Juanda

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dylpics 9 months

Maybe I am super sheltered in my North American life but how does everyone on Collective know English so well when they are not from English speaking countries? Spelling, grammar, idioms. ✅

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havi 9 months

Curious to hear thoughts on All’s Fair

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xanie 9 months

Need some gaymer buddies especially ones who wann play the new REPO update with

beachbum 9 months

i’m in a deep dive into mia goth’s movies anyone wana recommend other good psychological horror/thriller movies 🍿

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christianrutherford 9 months

Who wants to take me to build-a-bear 🤞🤣

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tannhauserz 9 months

Fellow LGBT guys and girls (and NB) in Russia, how are things there for you RN? Left a year ago, and would be glad to hear how things are going now.

tmj 9 months

La luz que guerrea

muffyn 9 months

Love a good workout sesh 🫶🏼💅

marcelo.l 9 months

Why are moustaches the epitome of manliness and why are they so much better than beards?! I just automatically melt 🫠

chrisgardener 9 months

Today I went to a gym for the first time in a very long time

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malo 9 months

Anyone hiring in marketing in Sydney? I’m your man 💪

serenawilliams 9 months

flu shot symptoms are kicking in ahhhh. this is a night i wish i had a boyfriend lol

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hamal 9 months

What’s a good book I should read over the weekend ?

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f999 9 months

Anyone or yk anyone who’s selling Lady Gaga tickets for the Mayhem show in Berlin? 😭 #Berlin #LadyGaga

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wilfy 9 months

I have three out of ten mugs complete. Need lunch. Hate that I feel like throwing up when I’ve only had coffee these past few hours 🫢

avery-ren 9 months

I’m trynna befriend a feral cat rn 🥺

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milly 9 months

My hatred for Elon Musk knows no bounds.

saochiang 9 months

One of the grad schools I want to apply to opened up their application submissions two months earlier than planned. I have everything ready, but im absolutely terrified of turning it in… Fingers crossed. 🤞😣

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