milly 9 months

For some reason my mother put on the seven little Australians audio book for me and my sister when we were kids. Do not recommend. Very traumatic book hahahaha

milly 9 months

I’m on season 5 of suits and I realised I truly do not give a fuck about any of the characters. “We’ll get caught!” Okay…and ? It’s good background noise when I’m doing things around the house etc but it is like REALLY repetitive and boring. Kind of shocked at how highly it’s rated ngl

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foxmeadon 9 months

Can anyone recommend a great tasting vegan protein powder? 🌱🥤💪🏼

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masc_y_medio 9 months

Rosalia’s album separates the true artists from the tik tok viral artist.

b.g.stalling 9 months

Is there anyone (queer) who privately teaches pottery/wheel throwing in NYC? 🥹 I think I’m developing an obsession. 🏺🪴

serenawilliams 9 months

about to hit 7 days drug and alcohol free .

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jonathanfraga 9 months

Moving to a different country in January. The problem is I don’t know where. Send recs!

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anxo 9 months

Guys I just watched “The History of Sound” and I’m crying af broke my heart in pieces

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leumsq 8 months

Where the hell is my husband?

burford 9 months

happy new Robyn single release day to all gays over 30

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tkshk 8 months

sometimes you just remember g.l.a.m.o.r ous yeah

donovan.dona 8 months

they're deporting me back to idgafistan

havi 9 months

Ready to scream into the void

aquaalaa 9 months

Starting my own magazine and I’m the only employee girl I’m tired

tmartsoph 9 months

What’s a good book that you’ve been reading? (Not about the modern era)

sammyjordan 8 months

Not even halfway through the day... dunno if I'm gonna make it.

thotanist 9 months

Bonding over a shared belief that Tony Blair is a war criminal

hamal 8 months

If you’re reading this happy Thanksgiving you deserved to get stuffed like a turkey And you deserve to stuff someone like a turkey 🦃 Gobble! Gobble! Gobble!

hehiminbloom 8 months

I can feel my mind slowing yet speeding up. It wasn’t as bad last year, but I guess every year without them makes it worse.

fabianmk 9 months

Asked my AI - using Claude if you were curious - a question. It then ended its response with a casual follow-up question. I did not intend to have a chat with my AI. I played a long to see where it leads. Strange how those tools evolve.

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winemilf69 9 months

Need a salon book club type thing where we just go through social media

apollo_noir 9 months

Bro, im so gay. Like, feral gay.

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akai 9 months

This year instead of giving presents, I'm giving everyone my opinion 👹

fig 9 months

No longer using Spotify, so just came here to say ROSALÍA 🕊️

saykwahn 9 months

Random thought 457: What if we replaced the red light in traffic lights with blue lights to keep people awake while driving long distances 🚦

cadmian12 9 months

I need people who’ve already read A Little Life. I need to talk about it.

autumnexpected 9 months

What's your favorite Indian dish at the moment? Karala style lamb is mine. Fiery hot and bright chili flavor with a sweet-sour note.

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jwdelao 9 months

What’s the next concert you’ll be attending?

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ryry12 9 months

What’s happening in Shanghai? 😏

locke-e 9 months

Say one thing, do another. that's who you are, it's never true but very real. If I had a dollar for every line, Maybe I’d be rich this time. Not a fool waiting till it’s tomorrow, Watching the sun rise.

mikevi 8 months

If you can make me flustered just by existing near me, hell yes.

patrickguzzy 9 months

Is the game rigged?

very_damier 9 months

Choosing the dating option based off of looks alone is the quickest way to disappointment. It’s rumored that physical attraction only lasts about 4 to 8 weeks, anything after that is genuine connection. Now im not saying physical attraction isn’t important, but it should not be the end all be all. Trust your instincts. The way they make you feel is way more important than the way they look.

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hearteyes 9 months

Eat zucchini.. eat. zucchini.

cgsmithson 9 months

Q. Couple q. who cooks & who cleans? a) both do, take turns. b) one does everything other does nothing. c) together everything is shared.

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milly 9 months

Taylor Swift ‘friendship bracelets’ did irreparable damage to the rave, scene and emo community hahahaha

vale 9 months

The thing about having too many choices on dating apps is that, in the end, we don’t end up choosing anyone, we’re always looking for someone better. But is there even a better one? ☠️👀

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serenawilliams 9 months

still feeling so mentally exhausted and i haven’t had an drugs or alcohol in almost 4 full days. it’s incredible how long the comedown lasts. if only i could bottle up how horrible this feels, the guilt and shame that comes with it - so i can dip into this feeling before i walk to my dealer’s house every time.

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lax 8 months

692 Eye candy turns out to be straight….pfftt.. haha That said, in disbelief that I’m gonna go to the club again this weekend, exhausted just with the thought of it…at least I have company…

unboxitabe 9 months

What’s your favorite hobbie ???

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milly 9 months

Guys, remember when trump was obsessively tweeting about Robert Pattinson ?

jam0422 9 months

What is your favourite song of the moment?

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jarrodt83 9 months

When I’m feeling stressed or not in control, I clean & organize. I find it so therapeutic.

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milly 9 months

Real pain is being priced out of iPhones.

mattbenjammin 9 months

My 5pm Alani was a bad choice 🤪😮‍💨

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aphrodite.aphroditus 9 months

“In political moments how we build the world with each other actually draws us into our collective struggle” -Kristie Dotson

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unboxitabe 9 months

What are you most excited about this holiday season!

blessedjess 9 months

I wish I could go back To when you first set your eyes on mine Dark and piercing like a ravens. Boy, I caved in..

sailormars 9 months

If you feel unloveable, here’s what I’d recommend: -listen to your heart for 10 minutes a day. Why? Your heart is the only reason you continue to exist, if you want some answers go there 😉

southerncowrie 9 months

I need to be put through a mattress, eating some soup, sipping a glass of Cabernet, and cuddled up right now

halfpersianboy 9 months

hit me up on 👻

aphrodite.aphroditus 9 months

corporeal adjective cor·po·re·al kȯr-ˈpȯr-ē-əl 1 : having, consisting of, or relating to a physical material body: such as a : not immaterial or intangible

milly 9 months

Robert Pattinson really just lies for fun and I love him for that

very_damier 9 months

I also need to start posting more in here! I saw all the abbed up men’s and was like oh another reminder of how our standards of attraction hasn’t changed one bit! Yay progress!!! But the right attitude is life is what you make it. If you want to see change, don’t bitch about it, be the change you want to see. So the era of hot, gay, perfection is over! It’s time for messy, authentically flawed, no where near perfect era to come through!!

superdupersimon 9 months

girl, he literally is masc 4 masc let him go

lilian_vltgr 9 months

I felt so inspired by so many different people recently!!

moh_01 9 months

Hey there! 🌈 I’m so glad to have found this space, especially now that Grindr’s gone from the UK — feels like a fresh start! I’m a 24-year-old Asian guy — gay, chubby, and totally fashion-oriented. I love exploring new foods and experiences (my brain’s always cooking something new — sometimes even my traumas 😂). I’m looking for someone genuine, kind, and respectful — someone who values feelings and connection over perfection. If that sounds like you, say hi — I’d love to get to know you. 💬

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