moor 2 months

It is SA awareness month. My heart is tender and my strength is coming to me through every single survivor who’s walking planet earth with me. I believe you. Im here for you.

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gore-galore 2 months

Yo, little gay boys. What’s good? How are you? And I want to see all the art the ladies and theydies have to show please ♥️

marinab 2 months

where are all the Hackney girls

milly 2 months

Rarely get my period so it’s super fun when I go to work and be visibly angry and crash out for 10 hrs a day every few months.

harmsy2 2 months

Aprendí la palabra "chacal" y mi vida tiene sentido ahora

pascalmachtpause 2 months

»Power without morality is the most dangerous thing in the world« - Oromis (Christopher Paolini)

phrancism 2 months

: I heard a song when I was four-years-old. A guitar thrusting powerful chords, Donna Summer belting, yearning for a lover; a four-on-the-floor rhythm that drove energy into everyone’s feet. I knew little then, but still at that age I learned how naturally my body responded to a heavy bass, an electrifying melody, and the pleasure that could bring me; how easily the sight of others moving too could well me up with contagious joy. It would be nearly thirty years til I’d hear that song again in a crowded room filled with strangers, hundreds of us singing along, dancing to the very same track that taught me the power of music. I’m sure all those people had experienced what I had before, and a whole generation before me too. All of us discovering joy at a young age and finding it again in a place where we could all be free. We felt it rushing through our veins. It’s been coursing there since we were four-years-old. The chorus began: Donna Summer looking for a lover and a guitar cutting somewhere deep within us. We let our souls bleed out on the dance floor, and everywhere it was disco, disco, disco.

zayuh 2 months

forbidden fruits is just not good.. omg

studiokervo 2 months

I’m sorry but I’m not taking fashion critique from anybody with zero personal style who doesn’t take risks…literally everything you know about fashion has been told to you by someone like me…you’re BASIC!!!

mikevi 2 months

Is anyone going to Michaels for fabric? Been buying online but recently the colors are not matching and theres no joanns anymore… Heard Michaels bought up a bunch of stuff from joanns, but ive also heard that walmart now carries more fabric. Any input?

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curtis_vincent 2 months

I don’t care what anyone says. Chicken salt can literally do whatever the hell it wants to me.

jeandoe 2 months

When depressed or disheartened, do Somthing kind for Someone. The world works in strange ways.

sailormars 2 months

I think the healthiest thing you can do when you don’t feel attractive, nor chosen, nor seen. To stop looking for validation externally in the forms of complains towards dating, society, life. I see it in the community when people make comments about how people behave in dating apps, or how people are in general. And I find it kind of funny. We have such easy to hurt egos that when someone says no we hide in a corner and shrink ourselves, blaming the world. Hahaha… I think once you accept no one owes you presence, love, security, nor being chosen you truly become free.

shawnmendes 2 months

Job had me crashing out so much this week I really almost called it.

autumnexpected 2 months

I'm officially graduated from PRK (laser eye surgery)! AMA if you're curious 👀

milly 2 months

Genuinely pisses me the fuck off how most men react to the mention of twilight. If that shit was never marketed to teen girls I recon they’d eat it up too.

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views.by.jan 2 months

I love Kylie’s music. But whenever I hear „All the Lovers“, I keep thinking that „One Lover“ would already be a breakthrough.

thotanist 2 months

Really missing be able to walk round the corner to a friend’s house 🫠

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boiled 2 months

So do ya’ll actually use the “friends” or “date” option when following someone? I know it’s not a contract, but of course I have to chat before I consider one of those.

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harleymovingforward 2 months

Running season is upon us 🏃‍♂️

aphrodite.aphroditus 2 months

our curiosity to know, cannot trump someone’s privacy.

pascalmachtpause 2 months

»Oppression is the mask of fear« - Karis Nemik

jax.jack_ 2 months

one thing that frustrates me about going to uni for art (and specifically fashion) is that i have to cycle through ideas and concepts way too quickly for my taste idk, i think that expecting “established fashion house” levels of work from students (most working alone) and giving them a tiny fraction of the time it took *a big brand* to work on it is just setting us up failure and burnout

studiokervo 2 months

Watching interstellar for the first time…excited since I loveeee / post apocalyptic sci-fi….i’ll keep you guys updated..I can’t believe I never seen this ?? When I tell you everything about it is right up my alley

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collective 2 months

Now is the time for a social spring cleaning Spring cleaning usually involves clearing out closets, but your social life might be due for a reset as well. Many of us are experiencing a specific kind of exhaustion from Big Tech feeds that prioritize influencers over actual connection. It is time to move away from mindless scrolling, swipe fatigue and toward a social life that actually fulfills you. This spring, clear the social clutter and find the queer people that will yum your yum. Try leaning into your hobbies as a way to find your tribe. Finding people through shared interests is the most reliable way to build a community. Collective was built as a healthy, friendlier alternative to toxic social media precisely for this reason. It is a space designed for meeting new people and building real networks. Being intentional with who you hang out with is a form of self-care. Use the app to find more queer friends who match your current energy. Set your intentions and find that new, exciting circle to explore the city with. By clearing out the digital noise, you make space for the genuine connections that matter.

avatar.isaac 2 months

the leaves are so green I want to cry 🥲🩵

jjgmclean 2 months

all I ever want is for my gym crush to ask me for a drink. We lock eyes multiple times when we’re at gym at the same time. I am certain we’d have nothing in common but it would be very nice to be asked out for once :)

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chasechaisson 2 months

where are the la gays at on this app 👀

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havi 2 months

I’ve never felt so seen until now. When the engineer on my team says he feels bad for me, given that I have the 2 “projects from hell” and the worst ones in the office. He just validated that all this shit isn’t me, but the projects 🤧

milly 2 months

I referred to my coworker as my friend and I have never seen a man blush so hard in my LIFE hahahahaha

studiokervo 2 months

I love seeing who’s doing the style reviews of different celebrities because mofo let me see what YOU dressing like while you got all that mouth…

p.ierre 2 months

The silence in my brain after finally deleting all toxic social media off my phone

kailyns_on_fire_again 2 months

Don’t deprive future moments of their endless lovely possibilities just because someone wronged you today, in this moment.

leo.nardo.r 2 months

Preciso de conhecer pessoas novas que me ajudem a sair da caixa

pepe 2 months

Today, more than ever, I wish I were in Rio! 🏳️‍🌈💃

rihawf 2 months

nothing better than a long weekend ahead!

nicros244 2 months

deleted grindr a week or two ago i’m tempted everyday to put it back on my phone but ik it would be bad for me😔

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jaspa-munro 2 months

I’m just waiting for my man 😘

shaunlbvs 2 months

I’m tired of professionalism. If you can’t like me when I’m weird why like me when I’m professional?😭

n0_st4r 2 months

Online dating is exhausting… likeeeee 😭

pdothall 2 months

Dating someone who lacks emotional intelligence will have you traumatized for years.

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guel 2 months

Primavera Sound Porto, anyone? Quem vai ao Primavera Sound Porto?

zayn 2 months

bruh this is why i don’t like dating apps, cuz how am i supposed to show you all of my layers in one profile????? like i’m haifa wehbe sometimes, then again che guevara, but also a complete nerdy and geeky guy? yet also a jealous possessive melanie martinez? then again a peaceful plant dad, but also a completely traumatized the pretty reckless?? it’s like a mystery box, try to open it and see what you get

p.ierre 2 months

“We spend our life until we’re 20 deciding what parts of ourselves to put into the bag. And we spend the rest of our lives trying to get them out again.” - Robert Bly

lax 2 months

542 Just wave goodbye to the two closest people in my office because they were just sitting across each other (they don’t know each other)

joelleclover 2 months

Haven’t posted here in a minute Been depressed and going through some big life changes but I’m getting through and I’ll be back on my bullshit soon enough 🖤

whinyswan 2 months

people are so pretty. i just... exist

kailyns_on_fire_again 2 months

Noah Kahan’s new album is full of soul-soothing, heartbreaking, honest new music. 🩵 🐞🐜🪲🕷️ Things I didn’t know I needed 🩵

jeremyncox 2 months

Today I chose to put my two weeks notice in at my Starbucks job that has been sucking my joy and making me miserable. I don’t have anything set to take its place, financially, but I know I’ll get there. Maybe now the other jobs I do that I love will now really take off.

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jason. 2 months

Let me hold your hand as I say this… Avoidant. Anxious. Scorpio. Cancer. ENFJ. Love languages. Mel Robbins. Whatever else is trending in the psych/therapy buzzword universe… These are all just archetypes and stereotypes. Tools to help you *understand*. Language to help you *communicate*. Like you do know, not dating an avoidant will mean just dealing with different issues in an anxious attachment person. Not dating a Cancer bc of your ex, will still result in dealing with whatever ‘flaws’ a Scorpio has. Hunni, EVERYONE has issues. So please don’t be so reductive that you cast someone out just because they come with a label you’ve had issues with in the past. Arguably then, the issue lies with you my friend. With peace and love 💞 (Also, not a hit piece)

abiiuugh 2 months

Quisiera pintarme el pelo pero no se, si me quede el color azul

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