mostlyval 5 months

i was like today years old when i found out that the final scene of Kill Bill vol. 1 features the song Lana samples in her album Honeymoon (Don’t Let Me Be Misunderstood)… which is in BOTH forms a fucking banger?!?! like wtf?!

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curtis_vincent 5 months

It’s so cool to be gay and know that sports don’t mean anything

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riece- 5 months

who’s around Brisbane

juanchirrii 5 months

Season 3 of Euphoria is just really bad 🥲

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jt02 5 months

thinking about men again unfortunately

lav 5 months

eastern european sad eyes

timstern 6 months

seeing people out of their usual context might become my favourite brand of encounter- just saw my go-to pharmacist in his casual outfit smoking a ciggy (he was kinda serving)

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kulbs 5 months

How are you marking International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia, and Transphobia (IDAHOBIT) on May 17? 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

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paulblaid 5 months

Looking for musicians and artists!!! Let’s connect fr! :))

emsems 5 months

Send me your fave dj sets / boiler rooms pleaseeeeee

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southerncowrie 5 months

I forget how thick my hair is until I go to put on one of my cute scarves, but girl we persevere and make it happen

southerncowrie 6 months

Just saw The Fifth Element for the first time. Two things: Chris Tucker has never not made me laugh AND learned that Jean Paul Gaultier did the costume designer

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tempson 5 months

If hantavirus came for me at least I wouldn’t have to pay on my student loans anymore.

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pol.mlll 6 months

“Ever wonder why the 'L' comes first in LGBTQIA+? It’s a tribute to the lesbians who were on the frontlines during the AIDS crisis, fighting for the lives of gay men when so many others turned their backs. While governments ignored the epidemic and the world looked away, lesbian activists organized care, raised funds, and fiercely advocated for those suffering. They became nurses, friends, and chosen family when hospitals refused treatment and biological families walked away. The 'L' coming first is more than an acronym—it's a reminder of the love, strength, and solidarity that saved countless lives.” insta@ mattcullen

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marygladyshevaa 6 months

may everyone experience what im feeling right now with the most wholesome and adorable person on this planet. Like is she even real? it feels like an angel has fallen on earth for me. thank you, universe

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milly 6 months

Just remembered how after I graduated I added my art teacher on Facebook and she was just mad fkn racist. Like why in fuck did she accept my friend request? Dead ass just being racist on main and adding her ex students I guess.

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neelz 5 months

What DJ sets have you been listening to on SoundCloud lately?

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moor 6 months

It is SA awareness month. My heart is tender and my strength is coming to me through every single survivor who’s walking planet earth with me. I believe you. Im here for you.

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views.by.jan 5 months

the deepest love is the one you give to yourself.

collective 6 months

It’s Lesbian Visibility Week, U-Haulers! Now is the perfect time to make more sapphic friends. This week celebrates our diversity, and as the community shows up for one another, it is a great chance to catch one or two to add to your roster of friends. If you are partnered or not looking to date, finding a new circle can feel like a challenge. With 60% of lesbian bars having closed recently, traditional ways of meeting are shifting. The community remains resourceful. DIY events are popping up worldwide. From Justin Bieber look-alike contests to masc nights and sports leagues like soccer or softball, these niche spaces offer high energy for building community. They are the perfect way to meet people who share your frequency without dating pressure. Collective acts as the digital mess hall for this global campground of queers. It is a queer-run social platform for meeting new people based on shared interests rather than swipes. The app helps members take conversations offline and find their tribe. To find queer women this week, use the Women filter in the Browse People section. Remember to set your intentions to friends when following new people to keep the vibes clear.

statmanthom 6 months

A reminder that it’s totally possible to feel completely alone, even if you have a great social net, friends and supportive family. Addressing those feelings is vital to maintaining good mental health.

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sierramichhh 5 months

I feel like Ive been in my luteal phase for 3 yearsss LETS WRAP THIS UP

samueegomeez 5 months

i need to find other artists and talk about our art!!! I need to make friends with artists in general ❤️‍🔥📕🫧🎨💐🖼️🪜

zayuh 6 months

went on a date last night and he told me he recently discovered he was avoidant LMAO plsss should i run ? 😭

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kieltutin 5 months

the sun came back out in LA, everything is good again

mrtheodorstrom 5 months

”Like boats against the current, we struggle forward and are constantly driven back to the past” - The great Gatsby

donovan.dona 5 months

I just remembered I have free will and the limit is set by none other than myself

milly 5 months

My mum really wants me to start playing violin again (I quit after 12 years when I was 18 but idk might give it ago ig)

lukapuka 5 months

Why do older gays like the younger gays?👀

kacperb 5 months

Any ambient song reccoms?

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shinblue 6 months

'War' hits harder when your reflection in the mirror resembles it, and when the battle in your homeland, miles away, intertwines with you inner turmoil, no escape remains. You find comfort in watching your soul bleed. You are now used to the smell of blood, because no matter how far you run, war never leaves you.

views.by.jan 5 months

listening to live concerts during workout is such a gamechanger, love it

southerncowrie 5 months

Should I watch Princess Mononoke or Homecoming?

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lukapuka 5 months

WHY IS MONOGAMOUS DATING SO RARE?!!!

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marygladyshevaa 5 months

find yourself someone who lights up your day by only hearing a note from their voice

sailormars 6 months

I think the healthiest thing you can do when you don’t feel attractive, nor chosen, nor seen. To stop looking for validation externally in the forms of complains towards dating, society, life. I see it in the community when people make comments about how people behave in dating apps, or how people are in general. And I find it kind of funny. We have such easy to hurt egos that when someone says no we hide in a corner and shrink ourselves, blaming the world. Hahaha… I think once you accept no one owes you presence, love, security, nor being chosen you truly become free.

views.by.jan 5 months

The energy we spend running after people could be soo much better be invested in ourselves. But still we run, again and again.

milly 6 months

Rarely get my period so it’s super fun when I go to work and be visibly angry and crash out for 10 hrs a day every few months.

phrancism 6 months

: I heard a song when I was four-years-old. A guitar thrusting powerful chords, Donna Summer belting, yearning for a lover; a four-on-the-floor rhythm that drove energy into everyone’s feet. I knew little then, but still at that age I learned how naturally my body responded to a heavy bass, an electrifying melody, and the pleasure that could bring me; how easily the sight of others moving too could well me up with contagious joy. It would be nearly thirty years til I’d hear that song again in a crowded room filled with strangers, hundreds of us singing along, dancing to the very same track that taught me the power of music. I’m sure all those people had experienced what I had before, and a whole generation before me too. All of us discovering joy at a young age and finding it again in a place where we could all be free. We felt it rushing through our veins. It’s been coursing there since we were four-years-old. The chorus began: Donna Summer looking for a lover and a guitar cutting somewhere deep within us. We let our souls bleed out on the dance floor, and everywhere it was disco, disco, disco.

p.ierre 5 months

Attractive men with cheap mirrors 😔

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