jcasx 3 months

In desperate need of a fluffy haired masc, with a golden retriever personality in my life 🗝️

avatar.keith 3 months

👀 Simon says, “Raise your hand if you’re also a plant-based papi”…🙋🏾‍♂️🌱

avatar.isaac 3 months

Loved a tree so much I let it go, so it can grow at its own pace. I wish that wasn’t the case

coveppo 3 months

vou parar de usar esse app pq tá chegando o verão na europa e eu não quero ter depressão

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jeremyncox 3 months

My last “dating” app is now Hinge. We’ll see if I cut that one here soon. I want a relationship and not accepting what doesn’t align with that. Just done wasting my time and energy. Too tired in the romance department. And if it isn’t meant to be, that’s why I have the drive I have for my career and the beautiful friendships I have in my life. Thanks for coming to my online rant.

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milly 3 months

(Non gay) Men in my life always end up telling me how they found me extremely intimidating when they first met me but then soon realised I’m actually super kind and easy to get along with and I have a theory about how gay I look and men struggling to humanise women they’d never have a chance with lol

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phrancism 3 months

If Charli XCX and Slayyyter did a tour, it would be called “bratwor$t.”

chrisgardener 3 months

When you become yourself people gravitate towards you

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roddy 3 months

For the ones that have missed me in New York www.neo-studios.de/icff2026

court 3 months

Any of the gays seeing Marlon Hoffstadt in London this month😍

milly 3 months

Multiple coworkers have hit me with the “have you lost weight 😍😍”. Just started bluntly saying “yeah I’ve been sick”

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catdad 3 months

Called for jury duty for my first time. Truly stunned at the diversity of human experience revealed during the selection process (see: everyone lives with or has faced their own share of demons). My empath heart was overflowing. 😥❤️

southerncowrie 3 months

Cool down is one of my favorite songs from Ari Lennox’s album

gbrl.solis 3 months

Came here to yell into the void that I got absolutely cracked last night by a PR Scorpio man from nj/nyc, my god!

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wilfy 3 months

I know hair falling off is normal but I still hate when it happens

tscarfox 3 months

I have been in a funk lately. Not sure what’s causing it, but I think I just feel stuck in life.

tgcowles 3 months

lmfao sometimes i gotta remember i can’t open this app in public 😂🤭

p.ierre 3 months

I just slept for 16 hours to fix my sleep schedule 🫢

izzzz 3 months

if the sun is out then I’m legit like 20 times happier✨

zay 3 months

another year another missed WIRE fest 😞

jemuzu 3 months

I’d just like to meet more men or fellow LGBTQIA+ to appreciate me for my flaws and not expect me to be “100% perfection” in every moment of our interaction. 🙂‍↔️🙈

alchemyg 4 months

At almost 30, I finally came out to my family 🥹 I didn’t realize how much weight I was carrying. Here’s to living more authentically in my 30s 🤗

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jbenjamin 3 months

Me: posts art of some monstrosity The first person to see it: is that you?

iswvl 3 months

tem tanta gente interessante aqui, e ainda assim, ao mesmo tempo, existe tanta dissonância na mesma escala…

lax 3 months

523 I just realise what does rain check actually means, it’s a polite way to decline an invitation… I always thought it meant let’s check how it goes, and I will get back to you.

milly 3 months

Changed my profile pic for I think the first time since I joined like 5 years ago or whatever. Kinda scared for my life r/n

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lax 3 months

532 Watched Swapped and honestly, such a great movie. I don’t think why it’s on Netflix and not in the cinema

lax 3 months

524 Going to a concert tonight 🙌🏻

southerncowrie 3 months

It bothers me so much both on a personal & professional level that some people have weaponized therapy speak to excuse their behavior or the behavior of others. Not everything is a boundary. Not everyone is a narcissist. Attachment styles aren’t fixed, they’re meant to change. Neurodivergence exists on a spectrum, having special interests isn’t the sole basis of neurodivergence. Relationships work because people want them to. They don’t work when they don’t (assuming consent and agency of course). Holding someone accountable is different than punishing someone.

axl 3 months

I think I’m gonna fuck around and join a boxing club.

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udonomii 3 months

Any graphic designers in the spot ?!?!? I got some questions

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_mattepio_ 3 months

Been at the The Neighbourhood concert in Milan GUYS that was AMAZING 🤩 Miss them so much rn (And it was my first concert ever ✨)

twinkerbell 3 months

there is a disturbing lack of biceps in my life…need that changed please 👅

dave21 3 months

What does your ideal date look like? Especially the first

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brad 3 months

I just know that I’m gonna peak in my 30s

jmmarques 3 months

I’M bored… need some new friends 😭

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jbenjamin 3 months

Comment here if you post cool art to your page and you wanna break through the thirst traps. While I wait, I’ll go look at all the thirst traps.

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jota 3 months

Will this flop era ever end? 🤡

autumnexpected 3 months

What kind of Collective content do you like?

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sierramichhh 3 months

Ive just discovered a kougin amann and my life has changed

littledrew 3 months

Reminder you are loved! I’m sending hugs, kisses and good vibes your way 🌻

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p.ierre 3 months

Living alone vs living with roommates? There are perks to both, but what are your thoughts?

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basile 4 months

ADHD themed : I need some advice. I’ve just been diagnosed yesterday- not a huge surprise, but I’m a bit confused. It explains a lot, and in the mean time I’m scared to hope too much on a treatment or on a general category that encapsulates many realities, and to discover I’m still hopeless lol I wonder to what extend you fellow diagnosed people that maybe are reading me were helped by the therapy. Did you have any treatment? Do you think the treatment was decisive or was the cognitive therapy more helpful ? When did you start to see a change in your life? So many questions 🤯 If some of you a willing to share, here or in private it would help ! Love !

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spirou 3 months

My light shines bright, but will it reach you? Please take a minute to send an echo.

milly 3 months

Just remembered when I was like 18 I went to apply for American Apparel and they required like full on digitals as part of the application process. Which is…I didn’t end up applying because that’s insane.

iswvl 3 months

se existe um álbum ao qual eu gostei (amei) muito, sem dúvidas (e tenho até um certo “ciúmes” de compartilhar e falar sobre ele haha) esse álbum é o * ** *** da ***** Sun**** 💞

nicros244 3 months

i am not the body i am not even the mind lowkey

alextep 3 months

Oscillating between “Rock Music” and “I’m Your Girl Right?” 😵‍💫

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crisbrasil 3 months

Any fiction writers or avid readers here? 🤓

nosferatusthong 3 months

I am so over this broken ankle. I have so many artistic endeavors I want to do, and having to keep my leg elevated is really fucking up my style.

milly 3 months

My favourite flowers have always been Boronia’s, since I was very small. We used to see them on bushwalks and then my parents started growing them in our garden. I remember being so taken by all the variations in shapes and colours and the way most of them only have 4 petals. I’ll always love you Boronia.

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