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Happy Black History Month to everybody black and may we be black in every lifetime!! 100th anniversary this year IKTR
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We are all connected. Think about that
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631 Spend the whole weekend unplanned and just taking care of myself again
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629 Just finish the last episode of heated rivalry and it is a really cute end of season
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In Berlin till Sunday ✌️
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Literally enjoyed the shredded chicken burrito from taco bell again for one week before they took it off the menu again😫😫 (its been gone for 10+yrs)
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Been watching quite a bit of anime lately. Maybe I’ll do some short reviews…
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If you got cheeks, show em off. If you got pipe, show it off. If you got a baddie, show em off. Essentially be proud of what you have, wear it and show it with confidence 🤓😤
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Pretending it like Less interested in Your most exteriors.
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People who match and never reply?
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Is anyone else now in their TCM era? I’m obsessed with fruit teas and morning Qi exercise
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Can someone pay for me to get HBO max ? You will get literally nothing in return :)
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don’t take it personal.
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Why are there more bottoms and very few tops? Where are all the tops?
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I love my girls but they should NAWTTT have done Gnarly 😭
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i kinda don’t believe in anything anymore but lowkey wanna start believing in manifesting again … i feel i’m manifesting too much negativity into existence with humor as dark as mine…idk if that makes sense
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What’s most important when filling out your dating profile? 1.) listing green/red flags 2.) playing Two Truths and a Lie 3.) describing about your ideal match 4.) (fill in the blank)
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622 Reminder that you are not for everyone, neither is everyone for you which in itself is a good thing
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I love seeing beautiful people! Hope everyone is having a great day ! 😝🫶🏽
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Sure, « Róisín Machine » is a good album, but there is like a thousand better albums made by people who aren’t transphobes
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Which dating apps do you use? Apps like Grindr are not what I’m looking for.
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Not that anyone cares, but a new chapter!
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Journaling 101: What are aspects of your old self that you grieved that have opened room for the new you?
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They just wanna lock everything up these days like can’t I just watch benito in peace????😫
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The reason Alex Earle was in Benito Bowl is because they have the same Talent Agency. You’re welcome.
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I am saying something nice.
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What’s your biggest red flag that you still defend?
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Is it okay for a smooth petite twink to fantasise a tall handsome man to be his Prince?
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Heated Rivalry episode 5 😭🏆 my heart is soaring 🪽
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Manifesting an internship rn ✨✨
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maybe the only person holding you back is yourself
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Will never understand black men’s obsession with white women (or just anyone not black) YAWWWWWNNNN
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what do you think of long distance relationships, would you have one and what is there to look for?
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636 Having a dog is like having a poop machine, I am constantly amazed at how he’s pooping all the time despite how much he eats.
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Fun fact! I have been single all of my life! The only people interested in me are in open marriages or relationships.
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i love gifs actually
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"One can best appreciate, from a study of living things, how primitive physics still is." — Albert Einstein
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love God, hate religion
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Something runway and red carpet photographers are not trained in is how to properly photograph trans women and the results are infuriating to see.
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What’s something positive nobody warns you about when you start going to a gym?
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Had a glass of wine during lunch. Americans could neverrrrr 💁🏼‍♀️🍷💃🇬🇱✨
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I’ll only go to the Hilary Duff concert if it has a live reenactment of her “Think Before You Speak” campaign.
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As long as we’re alive, we’re in the big drama !
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name one film that you think you will have to watch it just alone in cinema 💭
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what’s your vice du jour?
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I love when aboogie do that “nananananana” shit
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Sometimes i feel like im Not good enough to fit in this community, the people. I feel like they make the standard is too high 🥲
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Do you believe first-date nerves are cute or annoying?
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Unironically doing the cynthia erivo head tap thing to cure my migraine
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Live laugh love schiaparelli
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On the stony cenotaph that today is my heart, the following words are engraved in the white marble. My epitaph to love: “He learned to live by committing small Pathoscides"
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Some dumb bitch scrapping the ice off their car with a toothpick apparently this morning from 6am-10am
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Oh no!!! I just found a hat shaping block on Amazon and watched exactly one how to make a hat video (it wasn’t exactly a how to). The ol’ ADHD audacity just kicked in and now I’m a professional hat maker. Watch out Stetson! I coming for you. Haha
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chicago put your lighters up (bc it’s so cold we need any source of warmth)
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I’d honestly trust most of you guys to be my trainer
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Why did I learn the definition of ‘incel’ from watching “The Beauty”?
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If I could write you a song to make you fall in love, I’d already have you up under my arm.
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I was confident we could be human together. The messy, sometimes sad, tangled in our thoughts humans that we both are. She wondered if together we are too much. If one day, when we both happen to be to be down, perhaps we will stay down. The strength to lift the other up might vanish and we might fall apart together. I felt the need to defend myself. Remind her I am strong, resilient and have seen dark spells on my own and was able to pull myself out of those moods and be there for others at the same time. But I felt weak in that moment. Not because I truly believed I was. I was trying to convince someone I love of something I thought she already knew. I felt not enough in her eyes. Not cut out for her. Not man enough, as a sensitive woman. Not able to hold and protect her the way she craves. Would she prefer more of a stoic brute who doesn’t feel so deeply? Who could hold her pain quietly while stuffing his own down, until it emerged in uglier ways? Her doubts ignited my fire to prove myself, my worth, my strength, but her hesitation clung to me anyway in a dull, aching way.
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