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So pumped for national bad bunny day
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Westminster dog championships is sooo silly, all the happy dogs w zoomies made me happy :)
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someone just called me cute and i fully started screaming and kicking my feet🙄
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The chokehold empanadas de queso has on my life rn,
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628 Going home and looking forward to eating the slice of cake that I’ve bought just to cheer myself up 🤤
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Tomorrow’s my Birthday! 1/31 ✨
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If I ever say “chat” it’s in a pretending to be a twitch streamer way and absolutely never talking about chat GPT
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We are all connected. Think about that
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I can’t believe it’s taken me nearly 33 years to realise just how good George Michael’s music is. I knew the songs everyone knows but having spent more time lately digging into his discography I’m totally obsessed!
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Happy Black History Month to everybody black and may we be black in every lifetime!! 100th anniversary this year IKTR
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631 Spend the whole weekend unplanned and just taking care of myself again
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Literally enjoyed the shredded chicken burrito from taco bell again for one week before they took it off the menu again😫😫 (its been gone for 10+yrs)
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629 Just finish the last episode of heated rivalry and it is a really cute end of season
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In Berlin till Sunday ✌️
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Been watching quite a bit of anime lately. Maybe I’ll do some short reviews…
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People who match and never reply?
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Pretending it like Less interested in Your most exteriors.
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Is anyone else now in their TCM era? I’m obsessed with fruit teas and morning Qi exercise
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Can someone pay for me to get HBO max ? You will get literally nothing in return :)
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If you got cheeks, show em off. If you got pipe, show it off. If you got a baddie, show em off. Essentially be proud of what you have, wear it and show it with confidence 🤓😤
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Why are there more bottoms and very few tops? Where are all the tops?
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don’t take it personal.
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I love seeing beautiful people! Hope everyone is having a great day ! 😝🫶🏽
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I love my girls but they should NAWTTT have done Gnarly 😭
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i kinda don’t believe in anything anymore but lowkey wanna start believing in manifesting again … i feel i’m manifesting too much negativity into existence with humor as dark as mine…idk if that makes sense
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What’s most important when filling out your dating profile? 1.) listing green/red flags 2.) playing Two Truths and a Lie 3.) describing about your ideal match 4.) (fill in the blank)
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Sure, « Róisín Machine » is a good album, but there is like a thousand better albums made by people who aren’t transphobes
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622 Reminder that you are not for everyone, neither is everyone for you which in itself is a good thing
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Which dating apps do you use? Apps like Grindr are not what I’m looking for.
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Not that anyone cares, but a new chapter!
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Journaling 101: What are aspects of your old self that you grieved that have opened room for the new you?
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I am saying something nice.
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They just wanna lock everything up these days like can’t I just watch benito in peace????😫
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What’s your biggest red flag that you still defend?
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The reason Alex Earle was in Benito Bowl is because they have the same Talent Agency. You’re welcome.
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Is it okay for a smooth petite twink to fantasise a tall handsome man to be his Prince?
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maybe the only person holding you back is yourself
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Manifesting an internship rn ✨✨
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Heated Rivalry episode 5 😭🏆 my heart is soaring 🪽
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Will never understand black men’s obsession with white women (or just anyone not black) YAWWWWWNNNN
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i love gifs actually
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what do you think of long distance relationships, would you have one and what is there to look for?
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636 Having a dog is like having a poop machine, I am constantly amazed at how he’s pooping all the time despite how much he eats.
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"One can best appreciate, from a study of living things, how primitive physics still is." — Albert Einstein
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Fun fact! I have been single all of my life! The only people interested in me are in open marriages or relationships.
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What’s something positive nobody warns you about when you start going to a gym?
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love God, hate religion
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Something runway and red carpet photographers are not trained in is how to properly photograph trans women and the results are infuriating to see.
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Had a glass of wine during lunch. Americans could neverrrrr 💁🏼‍♀️🍷💃🇬🇱✨
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As long as we’re alive, we’re in the big drama !
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I’ll only go to the Hilary Duff concert if it has a live reenactment of her “Think Before You Speak” campaign.
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name one film that you think you will have to watch it just alone in cinema 💭
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what’s your vice du jour?
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Do you believe first-date nerves are cute or annoying?
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I love when aboogie do that “nananananana” shit
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Unironically doing the cynthia erivo head tap thing to cure my migraine
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Sometimes i feel like im Not good enough to fit in this community, the people. I feel like they make the standard is too high 🥲
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Live laugh love schiaparelli
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