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Is it just me or do “straight” guys always seem to adjust themselves when talking to each other?
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not here for the Hollywoodification of Wuthering Heights, the goat of gothic lit 🥀… I like my Brontë’s feral, not Fennell 🤪
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There’s something about giving into your desires
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I miss baking I used to bake all the time For friends neighbors and work colleagues. Even dates 👀 It’s just too expensive to bake these days for the sake of it. Still miss it tho.
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In public spaces I’m so oblivious to romantic intent and physical/body language flirting cues. My friends tell me after the interaction that I was being flirted with, and scold me for not picking up the cues. 😭
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Hurt people hurt people, healed people don’t hurt people.
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Incredibly sad about going to the office tomorrow on a FRIDAY (I need to use our free printer😌)
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just had an interview to work at a smut bookstore… pray for me 🤞📿
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I thought I was ready to date…went on a couple of dates with multiple dudes…nevermind…
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We’re all going to die, all of us, what a circus! That alone should make us love another but it doesn’t. We are terrorized and flattened by trivialities, we are eaten up by nothing. - Charles Bukowski
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No supernaturally shallow pieces of meat - oh hell no. Bones that deserve meat marinated in knowledge. Spaghetti Hegelese. 👍
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The Ethics of Love: Seeing and Being Seen
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Industry S4 EP.6 My goodness 🤯. Felt like my world just came crashing down. Whitney is diabolical.
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Benito Bowl made me cry 😭🤎
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Anybody play fighting games, rpgs, or Honkai: Star Rail? Looking for people to play with 😛🫩
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Me flirting: Do you think we’re compatible?
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Has anyone dreamt about someone they never met, then eventually meeting that person? I don’t know if it’s like a dejavu thing, when I met this person it was like two pictures colliding in my mind, like how you recognize a friend from childhood, I started recounting other dreams that I had of them in the moment too.
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Contrary to popular belief, I do believe in getting my lick back. In true Gemini fashion, there’s going to be one warning and if you don’t listen to it…everything after will be truly your fault.
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Estoy buscando un bestie hombre pls!! Finding a gay men to be bestiesss!! Idk dm or something
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I think we’ve established that love is not blind. This new season is…
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I fear this longing is just a part of my soul and I have hurt and blamed the love that helped me bare it
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Does someone here is having fun on the app or is it dead or something? I find it super uselesss tbh.
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as far as i know, BFA is a degree certifying that you have a big fat ass…but couldnt you have gone to a doctor for cheaper than going to college??
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606 Went to do a sauna to relax my body and now I’m ready for sleeeeepppp
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“Your perception of me is a reflection of you; my reaction to you is an awareness of me.” Unknown
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Blessed are those who feel the majesty of Mother Earth beneath thier feet, pitied are the many adrift in an uncaring world
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Hey, 🥶 How are you?
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Im sad, send ass.
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Hey hotties 🔥 Alright… impress me. What’s your favorite movie and your favorite book?
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Ever since I was a kid I knew I wanted to be a Redwood tree
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Going on a second date. First date we clicked mentally. We like a lot of the same things. But physically he’s not really my type (not bad looking though) but I want to give it a chance. Yes looking for a bf. Can it grow? Thoughts?
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“Ah, now I don't hardly know her But I think I could love her Crimson and clover Ah when she comes walking over Now l've been waitin' to show her Crimson and clover”
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Need to delete these dating apps, v over getting on well with someone and then being randomly unmatched mid convo 🙂‍↕️
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It’s a weird feeling to be back in your childhood home. Everything is stuck in time. A depressed state from lack of life.
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there are too many hot people trying so hard to look hot, visit my profile to see me dressed as the coolest minion in gru’s army
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One thing about me, imma start it and im definitely gonna finish it
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anyone else feeling too masc in fem spaces and too fem in masc spaces? 🥴🫠
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For the longest time I’ve been struggling to have dreams when asleep and when I did have a dream it would either end of with me dead or dying in some horrible way, arrested for something I didn’t do, or dream of something so terrifying that couldn’t sleep without having that particular dream pick up where it left off. However since taking in more supplements for stress and overall health on top of my meds I’ve been able to start having good dreams to the point where I find myself wanting to stay in bed BECAUSE of the positive dreams I’ve been having lately. On the one hand my mind is screaming “HOORAY I CAN SLEEP LIKE A NORMAL HUMAN BEING”, but on the other hand my brain is going “Wait a second, this isn’t normal. Am I about to go down some kind of dark rabbit hole?” Anyone else have something like this happen?
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I love Kim Gordon sm
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People’s so broken and weird
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I wish ashley darby would get a stylist
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My friends and I have this thing where we take shots over FaceTime with each other and I think it’s so cute. Makes me feel like they’re not as far
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Gay bars / clubs in Seattle?
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Where is everyone?? I POSTED
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Anyone wanna build a house together on Minecraft…👉🤓👈
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I met a guy, he's loving, caring, always texts me even when busy at work he finds 2 minutes to text me, showed up with flowers as surprise, he cooks heavenly and I love his food, we're from diffrent counties but this doesn't divide us, I lime to know more about his country and a big plus is that we share some same goals.
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I wannna go skiing 😭 ⛷️
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Does gym aesthetic matter?
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