hmln_leo 6 months

AOC speaking in Berlin feels like fresh air in a stale old house

goodbadboy 6 months

I loved only once. It was that wild kind of love when you’re only content when he’s around. Or when he’s replying. Or when you’re anticipating time you will spend together. Healthy? Absolutely not. He had a girlfriend. But we still loved. Smelling his clothes would turn me on immediately. Would bring me joy better than any food or drugs. It was a drug on its own. Having him near me and feeling the touch of his buddy made me think that’s all I need in life. We could simply be caught in that moment forever and I would never ask for anything more. That moment, that touch, that warmth of our bodies was enough

jbroadwood 6 months

Anyone able to help me get on Raya??

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dhairya 6 months

Love the new season of the boyfriend. I haven’t been addicted to a reality tv show like this in forever.

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thatsimyoukilled 6 months

Current reading list, let me know what I should add: 1. Tuesdays with Morrie 2. Animal Farm 3. What Belongs to You 4. Chaos: Charles Manson, the CIA, and the Secret History of the Sixties

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thnhdlng 6 months

What’s your favorite quote? ✨ I’ll start: “What you’re not changing, you’re choosing.”

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southerncowrie 6 months

Raise your hand if you’ve seen They Cloned Tyrone

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deetoo 6 months

Working on some gay little songs 🏳️‍🌈

marlowe-f 5 months

I’m just a girl with no desire to make myself more pleasant for the general public.

simonmc 6 months

I’m getting more into tea now that coffee-level caffeine seems to hate me. Any good recs?

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momsluvjoe 5 months

whatcha listening too? gimme ur wurst

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anseo 6 months

Not me and @lilyella attending the same camp function, pointing at each other in the SEA of queers and being like “Wait, I *know* you from somewhere.” 10/10 great human and great fun to dance with 🪩

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ojoaoneves 6 months

second season of the boyfriend is giving me life. I’m conflicted between wanting to quickly watch it all and never wanting it to end. send help 🤧

mattbenjammin 6 months

Qui aimeraient pratiquer le français avec moi?

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mostlyval 6 months

i really do wish people would *stop* generating images with ai. draw a bad sketch pls. we need more of those.

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carlos222 6 months

what they did to the character of isabella linton is hooooorrible!!!!!!!!

superdupersimon 6 months

what do ppl usually do in book clubs ?

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alex 6 months

not moving forward in the interview process BUT… i have a new interview next week, it’s the start of a 5-day weekend for me, and i’m on my way to the museum to look at art 🥹

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_johnsfs_ 6 months

Quick quessy: has this app already lost its hype?

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havi 6 months

looking at leaving Texas 👀

sailormars 6 months

Welcome to my graveyard Where all my ideas have died To be reborn again In the form of a Frankenstein Hopefully you’ll love him more Than what you loved me when I lived Don’t worry about hurting him His heart is cold His heart is shut And no one is allowed in it. I’ll come back like an angel when I’m ready to love again With a warm open heart, ready to give again. Right now, I’m dead. Enjoy my death It’s beautiful.

johnnyb_92 6 months

What are your thoughts on dating internationally? Anybody done it and what has your experience been? :)

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castle 5 months

roads: i’m switching lanes too much on my plate turning my shoulder in the mirror i’m much older healing feels insane like i’m trapped in a crate my palms are colder i’m getting much older on the road with some stains a new world, new fate these flames turned to smolder and now i’m so much older.

dylpics 5 months

There are a lot of hot PhD candidates here.

thotanist 6 months

Passed my driving theory 🙂‍↔️

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lax 6 months

612 Didn’t think that looking back at that situation still hurts… I thought I manage to be strong enough now

arvin-d. 6 months

Wondering if I can find a job here. Does anyone know any waiter jobs in Paris that do not require much French?

lax 6 months

614 Just heard that my friend recently broke up with 3 partners/potential suitors.. meanwhile, I can’t even find a date to go and check out the natural museum (pokemon theme) with me .. Hahaha

misfit 6 months

This separation with all the back and forth from my ex wanting me one second to not the next is exhaustinggg. I need a distraction

lone_wanderer 6 months

Hate to say it, but not drinking and sticking to a healthy diet does make you feel better 🥲

jarbin 5 months

Need a boyfriend and need it now

gabi.inparis 6 months

Have you ever felt like you were suffocating? Like trying, trying and trying, but going nowhere, never managing to get where you want to be in life? Feeling stuck despite all the efforts you make? Have you ever had this deep feeling that you’re meant for great things, financially and in love too, but that something keeps blocking your success? I’m trying… but I’m tired of being strong all the time, all by myself.

luisteran 6 months

are y’all like keeping an organized feed or just posting whatever comes to mind here? help

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sukh 5 months

Lets goo on a date. How does that sound

strawbrry 5 months

Connor Storrie in my dreams all night hehehe jackpot

lav 6 months

So the way I just almost died by inhaling a sour lemon candy ball down my throat was wild, legit passing out. 🌕 my life almost became a scene from jaw breaker, Kinda iconic way to die tho no?

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art0r 6 months

Switching from Iphone to Android is harder than i imagined 💀

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fidalpw 6 months

looking for book recommendations 📖 - preferably queer and/or obscure - any genre tell me your faves!

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sierramichhh 6 months

Me offering to split the bill when I only had lipgloss and perfume in my bag😌

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lax 6 months

619 Went for a single mingle event for Valentine’s and never have I felt as invisible, as thou i am part of the house deco

strawbrry 6 months

boredom is a lost art!

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allmyfriendsaresuperheroes 6 months

Your former situationship + your most recent situationship is in Brazil for carnival rn.. and you are stuck in the cold Northern Europe 🙃

egosumeric 6 months

Drifting in a silent sea Of blue and green medleys Atop driftwood rocking In a never ending sway A lantern in the distance Standing proud within the mist Specks of a distant dream Flickering haze, lost to clouds As night rises to meet the stars Gazing empty along the waves The lighthouse soon gone As we wash ashore on glassy sand And in shreds of aged fashion Step after step, dripping wet Glassy feet on starlit beach Toward a shattered light Flickering above the rocky cliffs Above the silent sea

leoiswho 5 months

Jolly Ranchers: Blue> Purple> Red> Green

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aphrodite.aphroditus 6 months

there must be nuance.

luisteran 6 months

it would be cool if you could make group chats in here

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itsmaxwel 6 months

There’s something hot about watching a man talk about nerdy things. Is it just me?

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stingraysnap 5 months

Brb, manifesting a rich boyfriend x

lucax 6 months

HBO will NOT have the audacity of releasing the second season of Heated Rivalry two whole months after in Brazil. THEY’LL NOT DARE!

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