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Loved to see all your original crop pics 😏 DM open
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I need a drink and card game in a pub. 🍺🍷🃏
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Being single is fun until you realize you’re still single 😫
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universe give me a sign that i’m on my path
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683 Feel tired the whole day… taking another day off tomorrow, finger cross I feel better tomorrow
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Heated Rivalry. Casting was obviously chosen for their great acting skills and outstanding 🍑 Thanks 🫡
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took myself to a solo date few days ago. and let me tell you that, I did had a v good time with myself , but I received many weird looks - as I was alone, alone dining..felt uncomfortable, but who else will take me on a date if not me!?! peace and love everyone
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Meet somebody that wants to love you - not someone that needs to be loved! ❤️ I heard this today and it stuck. Wanted to pass it on. ❤️
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I had to delete my social media to focus on studying and work. How do you balance being addicted to social media with real life?
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684 Fell sick and couldn’t go in for work today...haven’t felt this mellow in such a long time..
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Un my current job I need to be online all the time to stay updated on trends and aesthetics, and I love that part. But personally, at this moment, I don’t want to be online at all. Don’t know if that makes sense.
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WHAT IS REMEMBERED LIVES
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Why can’t I find you?
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Uk what working for a smoothie place won’t be so bad if a good looking men comes 🫠
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My cat died 4 days ago Every day has been hell. I never thought I would lose her so soon and I can't stop thinking about her, how much I her, I think about how I'm never gonna be able to hug her again. I keep thinking did I help her live a happy life? Did she miss me? Did I cause her pain because I had to flee from Iran and I couldnt take her with me? If only I could've found a job and get a flat so I could bring her here she still would be alive. I try not to blame myself and not blame my friend who let her go out in their yard and play, who knew she would run into the street right? But I just think I would've never let her play in the yard because I was always afraid of losing her, I tried to give her the best food, I took her to the vet with the slightest discomfort, I wanted her to live very long 6 years is so little,she was the best cat,she was my daughter. I can't belive she's now buried under a pomegranate tree and I couldnt even hug her one last time...
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Hey chat, asking for a friend what does it mean if a guy stops responding after the hookup? Is he waiting for me for a txt first ? Lmao asking for a friend ;-;
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I need new Pokémon friends
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I love discovering spicy X accounts from guys I know in real life 🫣
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In México we don’t celebrate Thanksgiving but wishing you all a lovely night with your loved ones 🫶🏼
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You know inside that they don’t deserve your energy But you ask yourself, “who does?” You dear. You deserve all of your energy at the moment.
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My husband is somewhere out there in his 30’s -40’s working on himself. I’m here baby building our empire. The universe will align us in due time
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For all the gay men out there who feel unattractive, unwanted and unloved. This is something you’ve learned, and you can unlearn it. It’s a phase, not forever. You can grow into someone you can love, and outgrow the version of you that feels unworthy of love.
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I have depression and body dysmorphic disorder. I'm tired.
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never let me download a dating app ever again, why do straight men think i want to match with them? -_-
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Wrap me in your arms again The adrenaline makes me shiver Show me that you're genuine, that I'm safe again That you came here different No time to define, but before we get closer I ask if you love me, and you just, won't you just -Obsessed with this song 😩
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Lo poco amigables que son algunos pepinos por acá…
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crushing on my pole teacher 🙂‍↕️😶
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I was clearing out the house last month and I found a roll of 35mm film from years and years ago. I sent it off to be developed and the images just arrived in my inbox this evening. Time hasn’t been kind. They’re faded and the colours have blurred into a kind of shimmer. Some of them are beyond understanding but, in a couple of them, a face smiles out of the dreamy haze. It was the year 2000. I’d been seeing a guy for a while and we decided to spend the entire day in bed. We talked and drank and fucked and smoked and, for that day, my bed became our world. Nothing else existed. It was only us. I think that was the day we told each other I love you. We weren’t together for very long after that but we stayed in touch and spoke occasionally and, though we both went on to have committed, long-term relationships, I still think about him often. He died three years ago. I can’t describe how happy it makes me to see him again, from a perfect day, half remembered. Make your memories now, folks, and cherish them later.
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I’m not feeling well today, fellas. 😢
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Second grad school app, submitted. Freaking out, but whatever happens, happens. Gonna research for other grad schools, but these were the two that were closest to what my goals are. Fingers crossed.
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Ok but where are my bears at
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Decided on a whim that I wanted to host a holiday party at my tiny apartment in a few weeks and now I’m stressed lol. Why am I like this??
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i love bears and otters and big hairy bodies yes lordddd
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694 I’m getting really interested in learning about gymnastics specifically the rings, anyone knows where you can pick that up? I want to spin around and do all those turning things just for fun
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Don’t confuse love for attention. One feels like lightning the other feels like connection. One is electric the other one is magnetic. One feels like chasing the other feels like contention. Don’t confuse love for attention.
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Does anyone want to practice French with me? Quelqu’un veut pratiquer le français avec moi? 🇫🇷
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Back to the gym today after a few months (like 36 months). Send thoughts and prayers (and maybe some tips).
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Life happens when you’re not looking
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691 Went for a stretching/physio session today, so I’m gonna sleep like a baby tonight, I hope.
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And maybe if I sit out long enough in this crisp golden hour, perhaps the stinging kiss of frostbite will remind me of that blistering bliss that is your lips
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Hey guys me and my partner are new to this and was thinking this would be a great way to make friends anyone willing to show us the ropes?
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Heated Rivalry asserts a core tenant of critical (m)ass theory: No matter what position you play — forward, center, top, bottom, goaltender, vers, defensemen, or even side— you MUST have a big, fat ass.
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I know we all joke about this idea of ‘twink death’ but anyone else find the idea of like aging and “appearing or becoming a man” kinda scary?🙈 And for those who have had that transition already, any advice? 😅
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May all my haters become my waiters when I sit at the table of success 🗣️
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¿Me propones algún plan improvisado?😝
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I have too many crush on this app 😮‍💨🔥
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I won’t give up, I won’t give up, I won’t give up, I won’t give up Even if it takes a little time
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Have you ever ghosted anyone and why?
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like this if you think I’m cute 👹
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687 Took a long bath and soaked myself in my own filth… So relaxing..
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Might show my face at 200 followers idk 🤷‍♂️
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Dear Future Wife, That’s it! You’ll never see me young. I was sure I looked pretty decent. At least I don’t have any gray hair. I bragged about it to anyone who’d listen, but today I thought—how do I even know I don’t have gray hair? When was the last time I checked? I rushed to the mirror and guess what? I do. I do have gray hair. Not just one or two, I found the third one in my beard. God knows how long they’ve been there! I mean, I can still pretend they’re not gray, just shiny. But I’ll have to accept it soon. And so will you. You’ll never see me young, my dear. You’ll have to love me for my inner world, for my soul, for who I am, and all this bullshit. Please, hurry up. Who knows what life can do to my soul and how long I will stay the same. Yours, In the future
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For people understanding their relationship patterns: Did you grow up with too much attention, intrusion or sadly too much violation? → (Avoidant attachment) Or did you grew up with neglect, abandonment or loneliness? → (Anxious attachment) In life we need both freedom and stability, and undestanding what you need will help you pick a partner that matches your needs.
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kinda miss the summer fits tbh
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“If 2 people can sing the same tune, they’ve realized they have something in common” Yo-Yo Ma.
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I’m thinking way too much how I’m being perceived by other people. It’s tiring and annoying. It’s making me rethink things I’ve done or said in the past like I did something wrong. Like I hurt people with my words. How do I stop playing these scenarios in my head and blaming myself for being too honest, too sarcastic, too direct. I am me and I want to live freely and authentically. If people can’t take me well then I’ll find those that can. I am so tired regretting things I’ve done or said to people. The only person I really need to stop being so hard on is myself.
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