piu-piu 7 months

I think I finally understood why I will never fall in love : once anything makes me question this sense of “it was meant to be” I’m struck with the indifference of banality And banality is cherisable to but that’s not Love

piu-piu 7 months

My softness use to scare me Now it’s the other way around I’m afraid of how damaging I can be once scorned

gavinakagriffin. 7 months

I have a question, your biggest red flags in LGBTQ+ dating? Here’s mine. Grindr, moves to fast, people who don’t take time to build a dynamic, people with loud judgment, performative people, stereotypes, derogatory language, gay for pay, unnecessary shade, lack of respect to others even with differences, and trying to change someone when they don’t want to conform. What’s yours?

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lax 7 months

693 Started to plan my weekend now…and I guess I’m making progress...last 5 months was truly a struggle..

shinbin 7 months

What happens when you scream into the abyss and the abyss screams back? Asking for a friend.

silveraccordlx 7 months

I would like to nerd out about Lux so please comment or DM me if we can discuss. I have a few points in particular that I would like to talk about to somebody: 1. The 5/8 time signature in Divinize 2. The cuntiness of Catholic imagery 3. Should “La Rumba del Perdón” be turned into a movie? 4. Puerto Ricans, chime in, what did she mean by “en PR nació el coraje?” I am only an intermediate Spanish speaker so I’m still grasping what a lot of the songs mean but I’m really feeling like this is an album for the history books.

moor 7 months

I Never thought I’d have a proper ✨coming out✨ as I’ve just always been openly fruity. Couple days ago in therapy I had one of the most existential moments when I accidentally ended up having what can’t be described as anything other than a coming out to myself and it’s changed everything for me.

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aquaalaa 7 months

Looking at my feed and oh my goodness I seen so many gorgeous men

baldestbaddie 7 months

how are yall making gay friends? like am i missing a monthly meeting or something?

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tofubrat 7 months

Being a December Sagittarius is such a blessing hehe

sailormars 7 months

Journal prompt: If love is already a given, why do you need to perform for it? According to Alison Armstrong, men are born ready to love the person they choose to be with. So why do you feel the need to become someone to be loved, when you are already loved? Tears are expected, encouraged and appreciated. You deserve to be seen and loved. Muah 💋

breadhubby 7 months

As someone who hates musicals I did enjoy wicked part 1, hopefully wicked 2 is nice too

priyesh 7 months

Had pancreatitis flare up. Breaths are heavy. Today is fifth day of recovery. Surviving on good will, Medicines and love. No motivation to get out of bed But carousel never stops turning.

michael-m 7 months

And I couldn’t help but wonder… how would any of us fare in a nuclear winter as Mother Russia starts dropping her bombs???

timmy_tamz 7 months

Hey Germany whatever happened to chocolate WITHOUT hazelnuts?!

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pierito 7 months

Dealing with German bureaucracy is emotionally exhausting, and just thinking that going back to my home country would only worsen the depression, I just feel trapped 😓

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alvo 7 months

Drop an emoji ⬇️ and I’ll tell you a random fact about me 👋🏼

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justinclu 7 months

Hosted a 35 person Friendsgiving and lived to tell the tale

donovan.dona 7 months

the greeks had Plato and y'all have me !

lax 7 months

697 By some kinda fate, received a text the moment I arrived at his spot. Surprised me to hear his voice again.

yoyobaerry 7 months

Dear me, Thank you for being who you are. Despite all your scars of abandonment and abuse, you still choose to fall in love, still choose to be there for other people, still care deeply. You are lovable, kind, and the best gift anyone can receive. Please, don’t forget that. You deserve love and care.

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sailormars 7 months

There’s no better approval than the one you can provide to yourself. Your self perception changes when you learn how to invest in yourself. Use your thoughts to praise, and love yourself.

nico-laos 7 months

I started writing poetry on my tiktok vids (lol) should I write those words here too?

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jcp 7 months

Part from the corny Hallmarks Xmas movies, what are the movies you watch every Christmas ? The ones that embody the Xmas spirit ?

lax 7 months

688 Had a work chat today, and it was the usual blah dadida blehblehbleh.. had to stop myself from rolling my eyes so many times

milly 7 months

My sister was saying how funny she finds it that the stranglers - golden brown trending at the moment is because I used to be unhealthily obsessed with that song in the early 2000s. Once when we were kids and waiting in the car while our parents were shopping I held her hostage and forced her to put it on repeat for 40 minutes

avery-ren 7 months

I’ve been beyond excited to see Wicked pt2 for a year, but with all the recent adds of so many big companies collaborating to put out Wicked themed things- It’s reeeally put me off?? Big capitalism and money grubbing like that is gross to me. That’s coming from an ex retail worker tho- you see the worst side of capitalism there.

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die 7 months

find what you love and become obsessed with it.

bazakht 7 months

Is this app just filled with even more performative gay white guys already?…

aphrodite.aphroditus 7 months

somatic adjective so·mat·ic sō-ˈma-tik sə- 1 : of, relating to, or affecting the body especially as distinguished from the germplasm

muffyn 7 months

When things in life shift, they can be intimidating, and that’s okay, sometimes we need to be thrown from our comfort zone and try new things (or meet new people) staying within our bubble won’t lets us grow. 🫶🏼

avery-ren 7 months

I need a fresh hair cut so I can feel confident again 😫

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saochiang 7 months

Finishing up my second grad school application, still waiting to hear back from the first one. 😖😖😖

hehiminbloom 7 months

How does one form their own aesthetic? I feel like a ball of random vibes

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nico-laos 7 months

People are making fun of me cause I didn’t know the wicked story before the film lol. But they don’t understand that musicals in italy are not a thing and it’s kinda of a privilege even having the film in the original language.. btw we shouldn’t judge people for their ignorance in pop culture because there’s SO MUCH to discover yet.

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lilian_vltgr 7 months

Hey beautiful people! What inspired you last week !?

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lukeisdandy 7 months

If you don’t want to get bumped on the dance floor, stay off it.

breadhubby 7 months

Idk how many inspections I have in me, because finding a place in Melbourne will be the end of me for sure

axl 7 months

There’s the sun, there’s the moon. Then there’s you.

clownpup 7 months

need more fat and chubby men on my tl, fat and chubby men HIIII ILYYYY MWAH MWAH

lax 7 months

695 Been thinking about how I wanna use my time…what deserves my attention, what should I focus on…what do I want to achieve for myself..

thotanist 7 months

Important to occasionally get an early morning train to London to remind me of the horrors of the corporate life - a sea of matching haircuts and gilets

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avatar.isaac 7 months

the way the US just decided to do away with the only brown coin instead of increasing its value to what it’s truly worth says something

shg 7 months

It’s wild how you can be talking to someone, genuinely trying to build somethin; and then one random morning, you see they’ve unfollowed you. No explanation. No conversation. Just a quiet exit. So you ask why, and the answer is: “I thought we’re not a good match.” And honestly? That part doesn’t even matter. Who cares about being “rejected” by someone you’ve met for a few weeks? That’s life. People connect, people don’t. It’s fine. What’s not fine is the lack of basic respect. Since when did we lose the ability to communicate like adults? At what age do we finally grow into the maturity to say things openly instead of disappearing, unfollowing, or avoiding a simple conversation?

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psaltair 7 months

yk……..i’m stronger than I think

austinsdalley 7 months

Making out with someone to the crescendo of Divinize is an other worldly experience and I highly recommend

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avatar.isaac 7 months

I came to NYC thinking I didn’t know how to cook, however in reality my mother’s recipes were all in my head. Now, I’ve been making dishes from childhood that I completely forget about

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kulbs 7 months

Show me your floof.

alvo 7 months

Comment with an emoji and I’ll write a poem for you 👇🏽

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avatar.isaac 7 months

got to my childhood home and my mother asked me if i was going to make my juice, “well yes” 😌

serenawilliams 8 months

i know i probably have mental health problems and possibly even drug addiction to the point where i likely need professional help BUT it’s 20:20 and this is the first time alcohol popped into my head at all today and i find that to be such a good sign. i’m also about to hit nine days drug and alcohol free.

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bryan-tino 7 months

Dear Santa, I just want a boyfriend that snowboards & would be down to go on ski trips with me. Or friends. I’ll take either or both. Sincerely, Your Bestest Boy

alex 7 months

i was trying to be responsible with the gym bag i want to buy. i said, i’ll wait until it hits 120 ♥️s. it jumped to 121 the next day. i said, i’ll wait until it goes on sale. it just went 5% off. how many more signs do i need?

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