sailormars 7 months

What’s the biggest misconception gay men have about loving another men?

muffyn 7 months

I’m cliché in the sense that I want movie love, the type where a guy buys your flowers, or brings you lunch at work just to see you, takes you out to star gaze and shows you constellation, or something like that 🤷🏻‍♀️💅

nico-laos 7 months

I’m happily overwhelmed by the support I got after opening my self about being single after years of relationship. Your stories inspired me so much and I really do feel better. Thank you💐❤️

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chanelapee 7 months

Collective gives tumblr, and for that we Stan 😍❤️🙈

serenawilliams 7 months

11 days sober and tonight the craving is unreal. like literally having to zone out of flashbacks of the last time i smoked. even the 5 second flashbacks feel so good. my blood pressure drops tenfold. this is fucking scary.

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luisteran 7 months

Does anyone know where could I buy fabrics online? (pls help)

luke_vieira 7 months

I’m such a bad texter geez and it’s getting worse by the day

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princeadam 7 months

We started to ask each other basic questions. I always lie. (No bad intentions but because there are mo expectations.) We hugged chest to chest. His head was on my arm. His scent was very masculine. His eyes have some wrinkles when he smiles. (I liked these details) We hugged about 2 hours and then we fell asleep. It feels so familiar. Someone I know for long time. A new Love ?

sailormars 7 months

Journaling prompt: Were you raised for autonomy or loyalty?

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kalelder 7 months

Morning boys! Have a great Sunday.

nico-laos 7 months

ok first two weeks being single. How can life be good again after loving a person so much?

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itsjacobedmonds 7 months

Today’s mental image: The shower scene in Heated Rivalry 🚿🔥

._.dude. 7 months

god forbid a pimp be vulnerable my bad

avatar.isaac 7 months

do you ever look at someone and go like you have an old world face

southerncowrie 7 months

Chat, I need to finalize my karaoke lineup for my friend’s bday party tonight. So far this is what we have: Sweet Thing, Rufus ft Chaka Khan Ring the Alarm, Beyoncé Loyalty, Kendrick/Rihanna Tia Tamera, Doja Cat When I See U, Fantasia Little Lies, Fleetwood Mac Deja Vu, Beyoncé/Jay-Z

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clownpup 7 months

seen this guy twice now and both times we have not only made love but he’s made me feel so seen and heard when it comes to intimacy and honestly i love it over here

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s.owen 7 months

i have a photos folder with 3,600+ pics in it labeled “everyday beauty.” considering diving in and posting some here…

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danielm 7 months

Today is the day to break glass ceilings. Today, walk into that room that you feel you dont belong in.

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breadhubby 7 months

"I am aware of your absence as deeply as I am of your presence, my love doesn't sleep." -Simone de Beauvoir

theguysacha 7 months

So I’m in hospital. Entertain me?

millatte 7 months

Am I the only black person on this app omg….

thatonelankyboy 7 months

Yesterday was a good volleyball day 😌 (my back is dead tho but nothing comes for free)

donovan.dona 7 months

that's so girl wearing a skirt as a top

princeadam 7 months

I would like to share my October story. It’s short but intense. It’s about two people but it ends with a triangle of sadness. His name is Timothy And my mane is Adam.

lax 7 months

698 Need to get back to using pastels… been pushing it back for a while and remembered it’s something that I enjoy rather much

sailormars 7 months

Journaling prompt of the week: Who would you be if what you desired already happened? Then act as if it already did and let the experience come to you

danivalentin 7 months

Something about texting here feels nice. Like a notebook, but shared. Poetic its my preferred alterego here ajaja. Not for long though🤭

donovan.dona 7 months

You won’t ever catch me. EVER.

donovan.dona 7 months

The devil works hard, but I surely work harder

rainbowwarrior 7 months

Any pointers on liking someone 2500 miles away

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curated_by_marc 7 months

“To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that’s all.” —Oscar Wilde

lax 7 months

701 it’s Christmas and dark, so things get a little more difficult. Sometimes, I debate a lot if I should openly express this kinda things on platforms like these…

milly 7 months

I wasn’t allowed to watch movies from when I was 6-12 years old. Which was fine. Whatever. What I will say tho is that when you don’t have the nostalgia aspect attached to it a LOT of the media you grew up with is like really not that good. Like fully not interesting to watch when you come into it as an adult with no emotional connection to it.

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beachbum 7 months

can you guys recommend a book that had a big impact on your life

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akai 7 months

I'm at a point in my life where I don't even know the point I'm at, but I'm at that point 🫠

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goodbadboy 7 months

What else to do in winter after work in Berlin? It’s already dark at 4 pm. Evenings are especially long. I try to do gym several times per week and once per week yoga. And I have a hard time finding more things to do so instead rewatching some favorite anime (Attack on Titan🤤). Any good ideas for this time of the year? I guess socializing would be great but for that I need to find more people to socialize:) I’ll see a friend on Friday and a few more on Sunday. Are you guys very social and always have people around you throughout the week? Note: work from home queen here so no office and no live work meetings

jamesiii 7 months

Thnx for all the love 🫠🥹

cardozoj 7 months

Sinto um frio sazonal Não sei quem é quem, Se devo ausência ou permanência, Se me vejo no espaço ou no estrangeiro, Ou se me busco em cada ponta de unha que roí. E então, como voltar para casa, se nem a casa para mim é lar? Sinto-me um intruso funcional, aqui dentro e ao meu lado — justamente um par

garycrumlin 7 months

Is anyone else struggling to find people that are wanting to monogamous? Everyone seems to already be in relationships or just wanting to hookup now

milly 7 months

Should I release my watched list at the end of the year ?

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benvstheuniverse 7 months

god knows the love i have for fka twigs

pouched 7 months

Abrazarse a tus brazotes: Abrazotarse

adamfierst 7 months

odio las apps de citas 🫠

sailormars 7 months

Dulzura en los labios, canela mi piel, seré tu canario del amanecer.

zander 7 months

i like being called a good boy

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mikevi 7 months

Its truley odd, Ive though about relationships in the past, and even got to the point where I made really nice plans for dates (which sadly never happened). But, the odd part is, untill recently, ive never really had those nice randome thoughts about just spending time with someone, anyone. But now, every time i have kind of nice thoughts, its with men. Never saw it comeing. Its both nice and a little frustraiting, because, why did you waite so long to have these nice thoughts brain!?!?!? theyre so nice and make me both happy and hopefull. I just got to get use to talkin to strangers to get things going. a little at a time i guess.

tkshk 7 months

sometimes you just remember g.l.a.m.o.r ous yeah

avery-ren 7 months

Being an introvert during the holiday season is hard ngl

lax 7 months

700 Can’t believe I’ll say this but got a little vexed after a bunch of people started messaging me.. while I know they care, it feels like a bit much to reply everyone of them

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