marcelek 7 months

How do you deal with the situation when a boy you’ve met looses interest in you in a matter of days after a really good date? 🧑🏻‍❤️‍💋‍🧑🏻 I know it happens often in our community and I wanna see if you have some good coping mechanisms for that 😊 Looking for some advice just to explore the topic!

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wilfy 7 months

Re: coffee Cortados over lattes. Perioddddddd!

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breadhubby 7 months

Just started watching “Hacks” and I can see why it won Emmy, is it fun

psaltair 7 months

they shoot daggers from their eyes at my angel baby 👼 bc she’s warmer than the sumertimmmeeeeee and they can’t steal her light no matter how they tryyyy

nico-laos 7 months

ok comment your fav silly word in your language. Mine is: Strozzapreti which is a pasta but it actualy means “choking a priest” lol

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sqnutkin 7 months

Do these women - Florence, Rosalía, Twigs - want a mass queer breakdown?! 3 astonishing albums in a fortnight 🫠

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mralastairjames 7 months

I would devour a Terry’s Chocolate Orange right now

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serenawilliams 8 months

10 days drug and alcohol free.

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theboyisbeautiful 7 months

‘The moustache is the f@ggot’s veil’ is an old-fashioned Greek expression used in the 1960s, echoing the proverb ‘the cassock doesn’t make the priest.’ The moustache, as is well known, was considered a marker of swagger and masculine pride. A man without a moustache was barely considered a Man at all. So, according to the saying, anyone who isn’t truly a man in essence should at least look like one. Save a fag, f*ck a mustache.

virgo 8 months

My ex told me that his (poly) partner is going to be on the next season of love island? Not fully sure what am I supposed to do with this information so I’m posting it on Collective

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aphrodite.aphroditus 7 months

I really am the girl from “Girl Interrupted” with my rotisserie chickens. IYKYK

tomasderico 7 months

And gays remember — if you take trimix, take the antidote before leaving the “gathering.” Spending time in the ER was NOT fun 🫡 my fault, lesson learned.

donovan.dona 7 months

they're deporting me back to idgafistan

saykwahn 7 months

Who taught millennials the word ‘intentional’

mikevi 7 months

If you can make me flustered just by existing near me, hell yes.

s.owen 7 months

nothing makes me more homicidal than trying to find an apartment in a city i don’t live in yet i am going INSANE

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hamal 7 months

If you’re reading this happy Thanksgiving you deserved to get stuffed like a turkey And you deserve to stuff someone like a turkey 🦃 Gobble! Gobble! Gobble!

leumsq 7 months

Where the hell is my husband?

sailormars 7 months

Journaling prompt: are the desires that I feel really mine? Or were they programmed into my subconscious? Ask yourself this a few times, the word desire will evolve.

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shaunlbvs 7 months

HAPPY THANKSGIVING MY LOVELIES!!! Eat some good food,spend time with your loved ones, and get some Di-dessert!🍁🍽

sammyjordan 7 months

Not even halfway through the day... dunno if I'm gonna make it.

lax 7 months

692 Eye candy turns out to be straight….pfftt.. haha That said, in disbelief that I’m gonna go to the club again this weekend, exhausted just with the thought of it…at least I have company…

hehiminbloom 7 months

I can feel my mind slowing yet speeding up. It wasn’t as bad last year, but I guess every year without them makes it worse.

s.owen 8 months

extremely grateful to have gotten out of academia before AI because wow what a fucking nightmare

milly 7 months

For some reason my mother put on the seven little Australians audio book for me and my sister when we were kids. Do not recommend. Very traumatic book hahahaha

milly 7 months

Few things are more cringe than being rich but not admitting that you’re rich. Just own it girlie pop. Own it or hand over the fucking money right now

sailormars 7 months

Traded the parties for books, the books for hyrox, and hyrox for you.

sailormars 7 months

Learn how to become instrumental; remove the expectations you have around others so you can truly meet the person in front of you. Not your unmet expectations.

apompei 7 months

Traveling to Kraków in February and looking for things to do. Any recommendations?

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wilfy 7 months

What do you smell like?? 👃🏼 I’ve been wanting to try new scents. Let me know 🤓

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thegingertwink 8 months

One of my friends got ghosted by a boy on Grindr because he would not collab on his OF. Now that I am no longer single I don’t go on Grindr anymore but has this happened to anyone else here? Just curious 🧐 😋

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ryry12 7 months

What’s happening in Shanghai? 😏

jbenjamin 7 months

Thinking of changing my Grindr bio to “Into discreet encounters where almost nothing at all happens.”

locke-e 7 months

Say one thing, do another. that's who you are, it's never true but very real. If I had a dollar for every line, Maybe I’d be rich this time. Not a fool waiting till it’s tomorrow, Watching the sun rise.

unboxitabe 7 months

Who’s your Favorite Artist that you listen too?

virgo 7 months

Ngl I’m a big fan of when the boys do their lil dancey dancey showtime on the subway. NYC I love you

chaseb 7 months

These pics from Halloween turned out to be epic

atlasbee 8 months

i’m tired of getting on any inclusive app possible looking for a crumb of attention and possibly affection. i just wanna be loved by genuine people :( specifically trans masc and other queer folks who are self aware lol

milly 7 months

“This would kill a Victorian child” doctors were prescribing cocaine for literally anything back then

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fabianmk 7 months

Asked my AI - using Claude if you were curious - a question. It then ended its response with a casual follow-up question. I did not intend to have a chat with my AI. I played a long to see where it leads. Strange how those tools evolve.

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havi 7 months

Ready to scream into the void

mattbenjammin 7 months

My 5pm Alani was a bad choice 🤪😮‍💨

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aphrodite.aphroditus 7 months

corporeal adjective cor·po·re·al kȯr-ˈpȯr-ē-əl 1 : having, consisting of, or relating to a physical material body: such as a : not immaterial or intangible

jonathanfraga 7 months

Moving to a different country in January. The problem is I don’t know where. Send recs!

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danielm 7 months

In case nobody has asked you lately… How are you really?

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foxmeadon 7 months

Can anyone recommend a great tasting vegan protein powder? 🌱🥤💪🏼

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milly 7 months

Real pain is being priced out of iPhones.

blessedjess 7 months

I wish I could go back To when you first set your eyes on mine Dark and piercing like a ravens. Boy, I caved in..

fig 7 months

No longer using Spotify, so just came here to say ROSALÍA 🕊️

milly 7 months

I’m on season 5 of suits and I realised I truly do not give a fuck about any of the characters. “We’ll get caught!” Okay…and ? It’s good background noise when I’m doing things around the house etc but it is like REALLY repetitive and boring. Kind of shocked at how highly it’s rated ngl

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aquaalaa 8 months

Starting my own magazine and I’m the only employee girl I’m tired

apollo_noir 7 months

Bro, im so gay. Like, feral gay.

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chrisgardener 8 months

Week one going back to the gym went surprisingly well, I’m remembering to start off slow and keep the weights low to build slowly over the coming weeks and months

winemilf69 7 months

Need a salon book club type thing where we just go through social media

guesswhosjack 8 months

Any LGBT artist recommendations please? I want to put a large, landscape print or piece of art up above my bed. I’d love to support someone from the community rather than put any old thing up so if you know someone, drop me a comment/dm 💞

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milly 7 months

They gotta stop showing me Jacob Elordi edits, I refuse to fall for the Australian private school boy propaganda

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