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the Apple autocompletion needs to srsly tone it down a notch, I'm just a lil "omw" usually, not "On my way!", like I'm never on that level
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Angels are around you at all times.
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Tips for a collective newbie ?
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You have one bad day and it makes you want to quit 🥲
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Not me getting ring-fished
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So we can meet strangers on the internet for dates, but not for hiking or brunch? Make it make sense 😆
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the way I gasped-
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What will you guys be for holloween? 🎃 Im more of a Christmas guy, but i still wanna participate 😭 lol
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Sometimes all you have to do is sit back and observe, it can actually be quite entertaining and self-assuring #thoughtdaughter
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Come and do a Sunday morning reset and decorate for the fall with us https://youtu.be/4_DQL62LCxg?si=vsbGqseL6uS_Kugg
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Throned in splendor, immortal Aphrodite! Child of Zeus, enchantress, I’m implore thee Slay me not in this distress and anguish Lady of beauty… Shall he text me back, plis 🙈😭
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had a nightmare this morning that my ex was yelling at me for not showering or brushing my teeth enough?! smh don’t let your imaginary haters bring you down 😪
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I’m a giver, big time, and lately I’ve realized I don’t really get reciprocated, especially in dating and even some close relationships. Been reminding myself this lovely cliché: “your energy belongs where it is returned”. I wonder how other people feel about their give vs receive ratios.
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how would you approach to your crush? what would your first message be?
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phone, wallet, keys… and posting my fit to my collective outfit diary lol
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While Shoving falafel wrap in my mouth, I look up and there’s a gorgeous guy sitting right In front of me staring. 🫠
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Loving blanessss leaving tomorrow :(
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Any recs for this Shocktober season? 🎃 👻 🧛‍♂️
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Would love to see more diverse bodies in here. Everyone looks like a hot model (non-derogatory)
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Good morning yall! What’s everyone coffee order? I’m trying new things out
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How are fellow USA collectors holding up? I’m losing my mind…
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What’s the time where you are? -Troye Sivan
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HALLOWEEN IS IN 25 DAYS!!! What’s is your costumes this year?
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Tengo que practicar mi español, así que quien quiere hablar 😌
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What’s the fashion trend that currently irks you?
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Deleted Grindr for the 1928372 time again, I feel like I’m doing lock-tober but being locked from Grindr.
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haven’t been on in awhile…what did i miss? ☺️
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True happiness hides in life’s little moments — and in generous plates of good food.
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collective is not into twinks ;(
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What should I make for spooky soup season?
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I came back from Kansas City emotionally exhausted. I took today off to process a lot of what’s conspired, figure out my next moves. My therapist doesn’t know what they have coming. Watch this space.
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danced on and made out with a girl in the club last night, and we’re running it back again tonight 🥳
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They arrive, carrying the weight of love that has already been spent, from rooms where it once burned and then went cold. The silence bends to hold them, soft enough to cradle the ache, bright enough to bring warmth, even if it cannot last. Then they rise, lighter than before, leaving only the waterline that traces the height where their love once reached. It remains, quiet, hollow, a refuge that no one claims, a shore pressed by tides that come and go until one day, the water forgets its way back.
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Queers: What’s your fav work out song?
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Soy panchito sudaca facha.
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Friend: He was into you. How do you never notice? 🙄 Me: Was he? I just thought he was friendly? Friend: F*ck my life 🤦‍♀️ Me: 😗✨
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Least favorite part about Gay culture? Go! How we describe other LGBTQ+ people in the community, as well as use either derogatory language as a compliment or humor like f*g or describe someone by their body type. Never understood why we do it, because this world already makes coming out. Not at all easy in many scenarios, and yet as a community we still can shade each other in ways that seem funny but when you look into it. It’s just derogatory, with laughs. Anyone else here feel that, when it comes to after coming out? And actually exploring the community.
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outing myself in the men's restroom by washing my hands
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i miss u all hiiiii
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after all, seasons change ~ Carrie Bradshaw
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looking for models to sketch …
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Guys, I need your help. What are the most unconventional ways to overcome a really painful heartbreak? I’ve been an absolute wreck for the last few months and I still don’t know how to overcome it all.
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I find it romantic when you do not want to fuck on the first date. Like damn let’s build some tension first.
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this time of year always reminds me how much I hate leaf blowers 🙂‍↕️
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Guy names that I love: -Adrian -Cedric -Ariel -Claude -Laurent -Beau -Nicholas What about you?
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love the new taylor swift album ❤️‍🔥 the fate of ophelia is fire 😍😍
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Anyone else here in their late 40’s? Drop a Hey 👋
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How long did it take you to recover from a heartbreak? 💔
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It's never my loss, respectfully.
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we don't give "crazy twinks" enough credit. being composed is easy. do you know the courage it takes to lose your mind, do unhinged things, then collect yourself and keep living? no shame. no regret. just madness and vibes. madness is an art!
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baby's been on her bullshit
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Queers: What’s your fav Sunday activity?
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I have fourteen pieces in the kiln for their last glaze firing. I hope they all make it out alive (no cracking or breaking) 😇
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Why does my conch piercing still get sore its literally been 4 yrs
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get your stupid ass ai generated images tf out of here
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Someone to save my heart from the fate of Ophelia?
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Looking for your people? Finding a real community can be tough for LGBTQ+ folks. Discussions on Collective makes it easy.

Browse conversations and discussions from our global community of over 140,000 gay, lesbian, bi, trans, and queer folks. It's an open LGBTQ+ forum and chat space where we welcome straight allies and anyone who is just starting out, unsure of their labels, or early on their journey, too.

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