strawbrry 9 months

𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒹𝑜𝓁𝓁𝓈 make my world go round (and everyone’s for that matter)

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shawnnnnn 9 months

How do you motivate yourself after failing for an endless time?

0beron_0restes 9 months

I am just convinced many of these highly rated albums on RYM and AOTY are overrated af. Also, have you noticed most of them are made by men? I think I’m seeing a pattern

pabllt 9 months

My bestie, who is actually the man I’m in love with at least for four years now, told me yesterday he’s struggling with his relationship because his boyfriend don’t take care enough of his actions when it has something to do with the red lines they BOTH put in it. He was also crying when he told me that and I felt his pain, and the only thing I could think about was that I cannot imagine how someo could hur that marvelous person I had in front of me. He deserves better ❤️‍🩹

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zayn 9 months

To taste the breath of life anew, I first must wander inward, return to the garden of my soul, where the self, veiled, awaits the dawn.

juststeve 9 months

Dear Universe. I will find true love. It’s here for me. Somewhere. Either I’ll find it or it will find me. I will be understood and will have someone I can understand. To hold and hold me back. Someone I can confide in and be trusted with their deepest self. I know being with someone means being with all of them good, bad, and in between. I’ll be that rock.

akmolov 9 months

Looking for a gym buddy! Let’s stay consistent and keep each other motivated

beniguess 9 months

know anyone hiring for some semblance of a creative job in Amsterdam? I don’t have my usual network here and I really need some help 😅

jonroberts1988 9 months

Just joined! How does this app work? Any good?

louis.fs 9 months

I told someone today something I easily forget to tell myself: “At the end of the day, we are what we tell ourselves. So choose wisely the words you repeat to yourself.” I think self love awareness, is a necessity and it comes from you, don’t you think?

ard_493 9 months

Still mastering the art of taking each day as it comes 😄 Anything anyone has done that has helped out with that? Suggestions welcome and much appreciated 🥰

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sailormars 9 months

Kiss me hard before you go

saykwahn 9 months

Sometimes when I’m surrounded by too many hot people the theme song to ‘Two and a Half Men’ plays in my head at max volume.

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itsjacobedmonds 9 months

Being queer is fucking magical. ✨⚡️💫

lucienzera 9 months

I feel like a racoon, a bear and a sloth today.

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gavinakagriffin. 9 months

3,2,1. This question is for people who are in long-term relationships, what were the clear signs you knew you and your love would last. Not just through months, but general time as you went forward. Asking for advice because I keep getting mixed up with guys in hookup culture, who tend to not read either my forward language or indirect when trying to inform. Or they just completely move to fast, to where I can barely communicate before they get to close.

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rtm_fray 9 months

Seems like procrastination is one of the things I am really good at. Any suggestions on how to become more productive?

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thejcoefficient 9 months

Why must I follow 10 random strangers before I can start using the app 🤡

joseph.nyc 9 months

Alright gaymers, come out! What new games that came out or is coming out are you excited to play? I’ll start Pokémon ZA, Metal Gear Solid Delta, Moonlighter 2, FF:Tactics, Digimon, Fable 4

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chilly 9 months

Overpriced coffee as an interest… fair enough. But is that passion or Stockholm syndrome? 🥹

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sierramichhh 9 months

I cannot rest until I learn the full choreo to im a slave 4 u ‼️😩

anselm 9 months

Queers: What‘s the best tip to feel happy on an unhappy day ?

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sierramichhh 9 months

Pls comment your favorite y2k pop diva anthems for my gym playlist

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tre.social 9 months

chilly weather in dc thank GOD.

marc_ 9 months

Any UK-based photographers around? Either in the north-west or willing to travel 😬 looking for brand/lifestyle photography 📷

serenawilliams 9 months

it’s honestly crushing for my self-esteem that i can’t seem to stay sober. back to day 0 — a new beginning (probably the 23rd attempt this year alone) ❤️‍🩹 12 october 2025.

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habibi 9 months

The moment you realize uploading multiple photos results in multiple posts posted on everyone’s wall in real-time, at the same time 👀🙂‍↕️ #Spammyera

gavinakagriffin. 9 months

Who here can relate. On dating apps I feel like people assume more about me, before they actually like me and match with me to get to know me. I get this feeling more with Tinder, and if you read bios. Not all bios match the persons image their putting up through pictures. I notice this through seeing their socials come up on other apps and sometimes, rarer in person moments that aren’t often. Also the amount of times I’ve just said hi and am not even putting up a romantic front, and getting no reply at all based in conversation specifically. I see more judgements through the other person. How about you?

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bessieintessie 9 months

Looking back helps no one, staying stationary is languid. C’mon babe, you got this!

itsjacobedmonds 9 months

Happy National Coming Out Day! 🏳️‍🌈

tristian 9 months

I love going to the gym and seeing all the straight men with their little gym boyfriends 🥰

shawnmendes 9 months

Now that it’s October. Who got some good halloween costume ideas they don’t mind sharing with the class.

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sierramichhh 9 months

editing a makeup tut for tiktok… no way they do this for several videos a week im tiredddd

choosinghappiness 9 months

Today a very wise Costa Rican man shared his wisdom with me: “Being with someone you think you can fix— someone who uses you as a distraction from doing their own innerwork and healing— is like carrying around a backpack full of someone else’s stones.” 🎒🪨 That hit me hard. Because that’s exactly how it’s felt. 😮‍💨

milly 9 months

Everyone here asking me and my mate “oh so are you friends 👀 ?” Starting to feel targeted hahahaha

dylpics 9 months

What’s considered tall for you? What’s the cut-off?

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caylasaysheyya 9 months

I need to play Celeste and complete the pipeline

badis 9 months

2025: Emotionally unavailable men: 2 Badis: 0 😪😪

aquaalaa 9 months

2026 is going to be a productive year

kraynor98 9 months

Outdoor string lights to celebrate the start of Fall! Yay or Nay?

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georgipetkov 9 months

We need more Bulgarian representation on this app.

krikor 9 months

This truly is gay Pinterest

abe 9 months

my job on here is to post hot Asian men (including myself) and to make you giggle

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joseph.nyc 9 months

Hot take: The Demon Slayer movie could do less with backstory flashbacks 😅. It was good but i wanted more fighting scenes?!!… the art is gorgeous!

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sailormars 9 months

Dear lord from up above, don’t let this love I have for him be the last mistake I make… I loved him to death.

sdcs 9 months

It’s a rare aesthetic when you’re in the middle of a workout in the gym and after some small inconvenience you’re just doing your best to hold your tears

tomot_tom 9 months

So it’s just another app of people showing their torsos? Nice.

dell 9 months

Who's listens to Christian Kuria's song? (see you at chicago!) 🙌

donovan.dona 9 months

Alina's my mother, Gali is my father, Urban Flora's my bestest friend

anselm 9 months

Queers: Is marriage important to you / would you like a traditional family?

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piu-piu 9 months

I know that one day I will find a wo/man 🥹

kyemack 9 months

Looking for Canadian content creators for an upcoming project. The ideal person would have a love for pop culture, gossip, and celebrity news. If you have any favourites, please send them over! If you fit the bill, let me know as well!

haphazardstance 9 months

This app reminds me of d-list . Does anyone remember how great that was?

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