hearteyes 10 months

I need to see HUNTR/X at ACL

lax 10 months

Yay! It’s raining agaiiinnn Yes. I love the rain, the smell, the temperature and how it makes the sky pretty sometimes 729

nico._kng 10 months

Why are men so hot but so useless ?

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piu-piu 10 months

Run me my money

mrfizzy 10 months

Grindr: Clearance Aisle Edition — The Full Ego Crush Grindr red carpet? Cute. It’s actually a Dettol sponsorship wall with better lighting. 🧴🦠 This app stopped being a place for connection and became the bargain bin of intimacy — free samples, buy-one-get-one regret, and a receipt you’ll hide from your family. 🛒😂 Let’s be blunt: this isn’t just messy behaviour, it’s been systemic. Users have filed mass lawsuits alleging Grindr shared sensitive data — including HIV status — with third parties, and regulators have already fined the company for illegal data-sharing. No influencer backdrop, no PR hand-waving, no glossy yellow step-and-repeat will scrub that stain. Behind the jokes there’s a real, ugly cost. Casual hookups today can become shattered households tomorrow — kids wondering where their parent went, trust dissolved, trauma left to grow in silence. That’s not liberation; it’s collateral damage dressed as “freedom.” (Say that seriously, then laugh.) 🏠💔

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milly 10 months

Crying about Dan and Phil again

tom_superti 10 months

Loving blanessss leaving tomorrow :(

unboxitabe 10 months

What’s the time where you are? -Troye Sivan

fred.do 10 months

Is anyone considering going to TeleTech at The Cause in December? Never been. I see online it’s an open stadium, is it actually?

hawkanderson 10 months

I find it romantic when you do not want to fuck on the first date. Like damn let’s build some tension first.

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sierramichhh 10 months

Not me getting ring-fished

unboxitabe 10 months

HALLOWEEN IS IN 25 DAYS!!! What’s is your costumes this year?

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elvisbesewing 10 months

What will you guys be for holloween? 🎃 Im more of a Christmas guy, but i still wanna participate 😭 lol

lucienzera 10 months

how would you approach to your crush? what would your first message be?

raelwang 10 months

Focus on my mind

saochiang 10 months

How are fellow USA collectors holding up? I’m losing my mind…

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apollo_noir 10 months

I came back from Kansas City emotionally exhausted. I took today off to process a lot of what’s conspired, figure out my next moves. My therapist doesn’t know what they have coming. Watch this space.

unboxitabe 10 months

Good morning yall! What’s everyone coffee order? I’m trying new things out

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jkgarcia 10 months

Tengo que practicar mi español, así que quien quiere hablar 😌

ard_493 10 months

Friend: He was into you. How do you never notice? 🙄 Me: Was he? I just thought he was friendly? Friend: F*ck my life 🤦‍♀️ Me: 😗✨

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giannni 10 months

why do we run to the ones we do?

carter-jay 10 months

Could my face not break out thanks

noahbds 10 months

phone, wallet, keys… and posting my fit to my collective outfit diary lol

jarron 10 months

I’m trying to teach the algorithm something. All my BLACK PEOPLE to the comments please🧚🏾‍♀️✨💖

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psychedelicprince 10 months

we don't give "crazy twinks" enough credit. being composed is easy. do you know the courage it takes to lose your mind, do unhinged things, then collect yourself and keep living? no shame. no regret. just madness and vibes. madness is an art!

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felipe.tx 10 months

Would love to see more diverse bodies in here. Everyone looks like a hot model (non-derogatory)

beachbum 10 months

outing myself in the men's restroom by washing my hands

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duchel 10 months

What’s the fashion trend that currently irks you?

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anselm 10 months

Queers: What’s your fav work out song?

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jacobkoch__ 10 months

Might be starting a brand or whatever…

kings_world 10 months

Why could everybody on this entire app star on boots

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aquaalaa 10 months

Hi gay people in my phone what are we doing this weekend?

autumnexpected 10 months

What should I make for spooky soup season?

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alvo 10 months

If we’re friends in here, message me 👋🏼☺️

donovan.dona 10 months

the way I gasped-

callumjkemp 10 months

I honestly need to sort my sleeping schedule out I’m too tired 🥸

nico._kng 10 months

Deleted Grindr for the 1928372 time again, I feel like I’m doing lock-tober but being locked from Grindr.

clownpup 10 months

danced on and made out with a girl in the club last night, and we’re running it back again tonight 🥳

awizard 10 months

looking for models to sketch …

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wilfy 10 months

I have fourteen pieces in the kiln for their last glaze firing. I hope they all make it out alive (no cracking or breaking) 😇

bartosz 10 months

How long did it take you to recover from a heartbreak? 💔

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itsjacobedmonds 10 months

Being delusional everyday is so fun. 🤪

alexist1998 10 months

I want Pedro pascal to be my boyfriend. Can I say this here?

gavinakagriffin. 10 months

Least favorite part about Gay culture? Go! How we describe other LGBTQ+ people in the community, as well as use either derogatory language as a compliment or humor like f*g or describe someone by their body type. Never understood why we do it, because this world already makes coming out. Not at all easy in many scenarios, and yet as a community we still can shade each other in ways that seem funny but when you look into it. It’s just derogatory, with laughs. Anyone else here feel that, when it comes to after coming out? And actually exploring the community.

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wilfy 10 months

You have one bad day and it makes you want to quit 🥲

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suffy_ 10 months

Tips for a collective newbie ?

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raulorgz 10 months

love the new taylor swift album ❤️‍🔥 the fate of ophelia is fire 😍😍

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cgsmithson 10 months

Anyone else here in their late 40’s? Drop a Hey 👋

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chilly 10 months

Overpriced coffee as an interest… fair enough. But is that passion or Stockholm syndrome? 🥹

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louis.fs 10 months

I told someone today something I easily forget to tell myself: “At the end of the day, we are what we tell ourselves. So choose wisely the words you repeat to yourself.” I think self love awareness, is a necessity and it comes from you, don’t you think?

tyronhewitt 10 months

Come and do a Sunday morning reset and decorate for the fall with us https://youtu.be/4_DQL62LCxg?si=vsbGqseL6uS_Kugg

strawbrry 10 months

this time of year always reminds me how much I hate leaf blowers 🙂‍↕️

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strawbrry 10 months

had a nightmare this morning that my ex was yelling at me for not showering or brushing my teeth enough?! smh don’t let your imaginary haters bring you down 😪

anselm 10 months

Queers: What’s your fav Sunday activity?

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joseph.nyc 10 months

Alright gaymers, come out! What new games that came out or is coming out are you excited to play? I’ll start Pokémon ZA, Metal Gear Solid Delta, Moonlighter 2, FF:Tactics, Digimon, Fable 4

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juststeve 10 months

Dear Universe. I will find true love. It’s here for me. Somewhere. Either I’ll find it or it will find me. I will be understood and will have someone I can understand. To hold and hold me back. Someone I can confide in and be trusted with their deepest self. I know being with someone means being with all of them good, bad, and in between. I’ll be that rock.

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