sierramichhh 10 months

Why does my conch piercing still get sore its literally been 4 yrs

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lucienzera 10 months

I feel like a racoon, a bear and a sloth today.

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tristian 10 months

I love going to the gym and seeing all the straight men with their little gym boyfriends 🥰

xlebobulochniy 10 months

collective is not into twinks ;(

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saykwahn 10 months

Sometimes when I’m surrounded by too many hot people the theme song to ‘Two and a Half Men’ plays in my head at max volume.

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oyejuan 10 months

Any recs for this Shocktober season? 🎃 👻 🧛‍♂️

ohenriko 10 months

They arrive, carrying the weight of love that has already been spent, from rooms where it once burned and then went cold. The silence bends to hold them, soft enough to cradle the ache, bright enough to bring warmth, even if it cannot last. Then they rise, lighter than before, leaving only the waterline that traces the height where their love once reached. It remains, quiet, hollow, a refuge that no one claims, a shore pressed by tides that come and go until one day, the water forgets its way back.

rtm_fray 10 months

Seems like procrastination is one of the things I am really good at. Any suggestions on how to become more productive?

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sierramichhh 10 months

Pls comment your favorite y2k pop diva anthems for my gym playlist

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sierramichhh 10 months

I cannot rest until I learn the full choreo to im a slave 4 u ‼️😩

halfpersianboy 10 months

so happy this app exists ✨ community ✨ aesthetics ✨ no pink washing

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sailormars 10 months

Angels are around you at all times.

nikolai 10 months

Guys, I need your help. What are the most unconventional ways to overcome a really painful heartbreak? I’ve been an absolute wreck for the last few months and I still don’t know how to overcome it all.

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ant.small 10 months

haven’t been on in awhile…what did i miss? ☺️

izaakzed 10 months

Soy panchito sudaca facha.

akmolov 10 months

Looking for a gym buddy! Let’s stay consistent and keep each other motivated

gavinakagriffin. 11 months

3,2,1. This question is for people who are in long-term relationships, what were the clear signs you knew you and your love would last. Not just through months, but general time as you went forward. Asking for advice because I keep getting mixed up with guys in hookup culture, who tend to not read either my forward language or indirect when trying to inform. Or they just completely move to fast, to where I can barely communicate before they get to close.

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0beron_0restes 10 months

I am just convinced many of these highly rated albums on RYM and AOTY are overrated af. Also, have you noticed most of them are made by men? I think I’m seeing a pattern

gavinakagriffin. 10 months

Who here can relate. On dating apps I feel like people assume more about me, before they actually like me and match with me to get to know me. I get this feeling more with Tinder, and if you read bios. Not all bios match the persons image their putting up through pictures. I notice this through seeing their socials come up on other apps and sometimes, rarer in person moments that aren’t often. Also the amount of times I’ve just said hi and am not even putting up a romantic front, and getting no reply at all based in conversation specifically. I see more judgements through the other person. How about you?

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tofupuffpoof 10 months

i miss u all hiiiii

itsjacobedmonds 10 months

Being queer is fucking magical. ✨⚡️💫

sierramichhh 10 months

editing a makeup tut for tiktok… no way they do this for several videos a week im tiredddd

caylasaysheyya 10 months

I need to play Celeste and complete the pipeline

shawnnnnn 10 months

How do you motivate yourself after failing for an endless time?

miguelescuela 10 months

True happiness hides in life’s little moments — and in generous plates of good food.

thejcoefficient 10 months

Why must I follow 10 random strangers before I can start using the app 🤡

anselm 10 months

Queers: What‘s the best tip to feel happy on an unhappy day ?

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jamp 11 months

Sort of scandalous the way my entire mental health depends on working out 💪

charli_xcx 10 months

Blocking everyone who posts Gaga pics bc I can’t get spoilers xoxo

djj 10 months

after all, seasons change ~ Carrie Bradshaw

anselm 10 months

Queers: Is marriage important to you / would you like a traditional family?

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ard_493 10 months

Still mastering the art of taking each day as it comes 😄 Anything anyone has done that has helped out with that? Suggestions welcome and much appreciated 🥰

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choosinghappiness 11 months

Today a very wise Costa Rican man shared his wisdom with me: “Being with someone you think you can fix— someone who uses you as a distraction from doing their own innerwork and healing— is like carrying around a backpack full of someone else’s stones.” 🎒🪨 That hit me hard. Because that’s exactly how it’s felt. 😮‍💨

sadplantboi 11 months

I never realized how often I take happiness for granted in the moment. Instead, I get caught up in my thoughts, grieving missed opportunities and bittersweet encounters. 🥀

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sailormars 10 months

Guy names that I love: -Adrian -Cedric -Ariel -Claude -Laurent -Beau -Nicholas What about you?

strawbrry 10 months

𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒹𝑜𝓁𝓁𝓈 make my world go round (and everyone’s for that matter)

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shawnmendes 10 months

Now that it’s October. Who got some good halloween costume ideas they don’t mind sharing with the class.

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andyjo 10 months

baby's been on her bullshit

austinsdalley 10 months

Looking for a job, a new apartment, moving out of my current apartment, and renewing my Italian residence permit all at the same time, but at least it’s a beautiful day today

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samuzed 10 months

Wonder what I should dress up for Halloween, any suggestions?

zayn 10 months

To taste the breath of life anew, I first must wander inward, return to the garden of my soul, where the self, veiled, awaits the dawn.

habibi 10 months

The moment you realize uploading multiple photos results in multiple posts posted on everyone’s wall in real-time, at the same time 👀🙂‍↕️ #Spammyera

tre.social 10 months

chilly weather in dc thank GOD.

jonroberts1988 10 months

Just joined! How does this app work? Any good?

joseph.nyc 10 months

Hot take: The Demon Slayer movie could do less with backstory flashbacks 😅. It was good but i wanted more fighting scenes?!!… the art is gorgeous!

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marc_ 10 months

Any UK-based photographers around? Either in the north-west or willing to travel 😬 looking for brand/lifestyle photography 📷

beniguess 10 months

know anyone hiring for some semblance of a creative job in Amsterdam? I don’t have my usual network here and I really need some help 😅

sdcs 10 months

It’s a rare aesthetic when you’re in the middle of a workout in the gym and after some small inconvenience you’re just doing your best to hold your tears

kraynor98 10 months

Outdoor string lights to celebrate the start of Fall! Yay or Nay?

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joshua.humphreys 11 months

Why do gay relationships feel unattainable?

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