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Who here, absolutely. Can not stand Grindr, as a social dating app for gay men/LGBTQ+ alike. “Clap if you could care less for the app, and how fast some move on there”👏🏻
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Putting myself in time out for falling for a “Rave/Circuit Bae”
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Everyone here asking me and my mate “oh so are you friends 👀 ?” Starting to feel targeted hahahaha
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keep going, you hot antifascist icon 🔥✊🏼
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my job on here is to post hot Asian men (including myself) and to make you giggle
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Who's listens to Christian Kuria's song? (see you at chicago!) 🙌
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The final trailer for Wicked just dropped … I’m not okay 🥹😭
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Looking back helps no one, staying stationary is languid. C’mon babe, you got this!
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It's never my loss, respectfully.
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Someone to save my heart from the fate of Ophelia?
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Can’t decide if I should go for a gay group run or gymnastics class this week
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How do you use this app to the max?
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This app reminds me of d-list . Does anyone remember how great that was?
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This truly is gay Pinterest
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aggressively curating this feed starting with following anybody Black-
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I Think I am ready to start dating again 🤔🤔
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Favorite activities include: Long walks in Prospect Park, watching movies at Nitehawk, thrifting, museum trips, Hudson Valley day hikes, gardening, game nights, detaching from reality to achieve a brief reprieve from the perpetual existential dread, and eating delicious food.
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2025: Emotionally unavailable men: 2 Badis: 0 😪😪
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What do you do when you see another gay at the gym? 🏋️‍♂️
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This app needs tag filters… like how do i find people with same interest to follow? The algo on the feed doesn’t seem to be well trained as well 😩
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We need more Bulgarian representation on this app.
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What’s considered tall for you? What’s the cut-off?
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🥳 like if happy friYay! 👋🏼🤩
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Happy National Coming Out Day! 🏳️‍🌈
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Why is autumn always perceived so hard? 🥹
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Kiss me hard before you go
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Gays, who is Taylor Swift?
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2026 is going to be a productive year
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I’ve never seen Lana del Rey and Remy Bond in the same room together
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Queers: What should every queer person own?
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I do really like this app, but I hope they can streamline a few things because it all feels a bit busy at the moment. I catch myself getting a little overwhelmed and confused - anyone else?
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it’s honestly crushing for my self-esteem that i can’t seem to stay sober. back to day 0 — a new beginning (probably the 23rd attempt this year alone) ❤️‍🩹 12 october 2025.
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Lately all I’ve been doing is treating myself. Because no one else can treat me the way I treat me.
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This is better than Tinder
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I need Halloween costume ideas!! I don’t think I’ve done a good Halloween costume in 10 years 😫😫😫.
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Looking for Canadian content creators for an upcoming project. The ideal person would have a love for pop culture, gossip, and celebrity news. If you have any favourites, please send them over! If you fit the bill, let me know as well!
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Oomf with “friends only” on his profile is so hot it makes me want to kill myself
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I fear I’m crashing out , like where is my group of gay besties that I can drink wine , watch RPDR w/ & gossip about our relationships without out hooking up with each other 🤷🏻‍♂️
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🍃 and singing Cardi B’s entire album karaoke style was the best Friday night!
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So it’s just another app of people showing their torsos? Nice.
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I lost the .mp3 file of the song you made for me. I’ll have to remember it forever because I’m too afraid to ask you for it.
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I know that one day I will find a wo/man 🥹
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Team, I am ill asf today. Not a fan 😩 anybody else come down with what’s going round? It’s brutal 😩 send hugs and top tier memes plz xx
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Swiping right on tinder to guys with clothes I want to borrow 🤭
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i’ll never give up my fairuz mornings and um kalthoum nights
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The man of little learning grows old like a bull. Only his muscles grow; his wisdom does not! Buddha - DHP:11.7
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my ass is fatter I feel it
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Need more fat and chubby men on here. where are they?
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“Grief reminds you of what mattered…” — Michell C. Clark
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I’m so excited to join a new app omg where do I start 😭 do I just talk about my interests?? 🫶
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It’s cuffing season. LA boys let’s get cuffed
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Alina's my mother, Gali is my father, Urban Flora's my bestest friend
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Y’all I miss u. I’m just self isolation hard rn. But I still love u! I’m sorry : (
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I was talking to a guy on here and idk what possessed me to send him one of my most experimental tracks as an intro to my music but… he ghosted me 😭🤧. Like NOoooooo, IM A STAR 😭 give me another chance 🤣
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Taylor Swift is the most BORING artist out there. I said what I said. This new album sounds like royaltyfree music. Bye
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What’s the best season, and why is it autumn?
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Dear lord from up above, don’t let this love I have for him be the last mistake I make… I loved him to death.
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