henriyjs 4 months

people be going to check up their joints and say “this is how i know i’m turning 30” babe ur in ur 20’s bsff

nicosyl 5 months

Other dads want the discuss and share their experience? 2 guys that just adopted a baby here and are lacking hours of sleep

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kings_world 5 months

What’s the most Kookoo-banana-bonkers thing someone has said to you on a dating app?

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allmyfriendsaresuperheroes 5 months

Another long distance lover found a boy in their own town. I’m very happy for him, truely, he is such a beautiful person and deserves all the romance and love. But oh it’s still so so so bittersweet 😮‍💨❤️‍🩹

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grayson 5 months

There’s too many cute boys on this app. I need everyone to get chopped …

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julien_ 5 months

any hot gurl summer music recommendations ?

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tgcowles 4 months

i fear the pride month bleach blond is desperate for a comeback

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benargenta 4 months

Really pushing myself to create a lot of art these next two weeks. Would love some figure drawing inspiration. Want to be drawn? Send pics my way!!

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udonomii 5 months

Two melanated babes blew their horn just to tell me I looked amazing. More of this please

joshuavilorio 4 months

Feeling very millienial optimism

milly 5 months

You ever explained the way Hannibal stabs Will is actually extremely romantic and intimate and also they’re 100% in love to your coworkers or ?

bamps 5 months

I don’t know if I love or hate soulmates on Netflix but it definitely made me cry. Discuss.

breadhubby 4 months

“Life can only be understood backward, but must be lived forward”

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saochiang 5 months

So far I’ve been able to draw for 5-10 minutes without feeling tired, the longest I’ve drawn when I’m on some kind of a flow was for one hour. For playwriting I’ve been able to write 30 minutes to an hours worth of dialogue. Sewing I’ve only been able to do 5 - 10 minutes. I’m still nowhere near as productive as I used to be and I hate it so much… But it’s like going back to the gym after not going for so long (yet ANOTHER thing I need to do again), it takes time to find the joy through the frustration. Hooray for burnout, and only just now figuring out a much healthier way of working. Better late than never. 😔 Whinging is over, I’m gonna try reading a book now.

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pasifaye 4 months

Watching the L-word for the first time. Who are you faves, adhdivas? 💗

joshuavilorio 4 months

Currently into sitting back and watching how things affect me

lax 4 months

514 Felt like I avoided the crowd yesterday by staying home. Phewwww

izzzz 5 months

the one thing this app needs is everyone’s age showing on their profile

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sierramichhh 4 months

Ive got a crush on the shape of your name in my phone

guel 5 months

friendly reminder to myself: don’t open this app when in public :)

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collective 5 months

Stop keeping the Collective lore to yourself. If you found a creative partner or a work wife on the app, it is time to spill the details. Leave a comment or a private comment below, we wanna hear all about it ;)

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marygladyshevaa 5 months

realizing that im starting a new chapter in my life is very stressful and relieving, i didnt know it will hit me this intense because i always wanted to make this move, at the same time the sadness is eating me up even tho im very happy and excited, everything is so scary again with all these waves of weakness and being strong but i guess i just have to go with the flow?

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psaltair 4 months

Dreaming away your life

thotanist 5 months

Very much hoping to see NO Eurovision posts this weekend - not while it’s being used to queerwash a genocide

mikevi 5 months

Its sort of crazy, figureing out that I be gay has Deffinantly helped me find the confidance to try different types of clothing. THERE ARE SO MANY DIFFERENT TYPES OF CLOTHING ITS CRAZY! Im goina try some “Harem pants” and see if those are as fun as they look!

sierramichhh 5 months

I hate when people stay with one airpod in at all times..take that shit out

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milly 4 months

Did y’all know that there’s a crack ship side of TikTok ? Like not a specific one, just crack ships in general. I’m asking because I am on it (top ships for today are Hannibal X Patrick Bateman and Vecna X Sue Sylvester)

avatar.isaac 4 months

One of my favorite people is moving back to the city 🥲

joshuavilorio 4 months

God forbid a bitch be chalant

joshuavilorio 4 months

How do you stay connected with the world around you

milly 5 months

Always thinking about the time an Aussie prime minister went for a swim and we just never fkn found him again. Missing to this day. Presumed dead at sea. Named a swimming pool after him.

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milly 5 months

I love famous actors because like they’re some of the hottest people on the planet. Additionally, they’re all theatre kids. Truly beautiful to behold.

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joshuavilorio 4 months

When the goal is to experience life you always win

unwakandiano 4 months

What is your last thought before going to sleep? I reed u in the comments 👀

dave21 5 months

Recommend your favorite movies, please

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tempson 5 months

Oh, you thought you nailed that interview? Just kidding. We even asked salary questions. But just wanted to call and say we’re turning you down because the straight of Hormuz. Yeah, that’s right. I said the straight of Hormuz. Even though we have nothing to do with crude oil. Even though we’re a design agency. Yeah. Suck my fat one. - to a bunch of Cucks

sierramichhh 4 months

They not tryna be villagers fr but we not ready for that convo yet

studiokervo 5 months

I’ve been wanting to grow a big “stranded on an island” beard but I’m not actually stranded on any island so looking disheveled & unkempt for 6+ months to obtain the look never quite works for me…

allmyfriendsaresuperheroes 5 months

I’m so sick and tired of men saying they’re afraid to date me because I’m intimidating?? What a lame excuse, step the fuck up! (I’m really a sensitive soft boy 🥺)

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marc_ 5 months

You should remember there are people in awe of the things you do.

hugodhotman 4 months

Ariana Grande new song comes out tomorrooow 🫰🏻✨

loveandrewandjordan 5 months

Also on TikTok under the same name if you wanna see our mini vlogs and support us there too! 😘

sierramichhh 5 months

Thought I looked cute during my in-person meeting today so I decided to take a photobooth pic bc of course, I turned the volume down just to discover it still dings at full volume even when muted🙃 my coworkers dont even be shocked anymore bc im always on some bs at this point😭😭😭

die 5 months

validation comes from within.

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gore-galore 4 months

My toxic trait is thinking I could change The Trunchbull

insolitaryruin 5 months

it's bizarre to me a lot of visual art students i interact with have an understanding of writing as this linear, reducible, say-what-you-mean medium they're heroically not doing

kings_world 5 months

Very emotional and hellacious week but nonetheless we prevail~ this Gemini moon is fickle especially since I’m a Gemini moon. How has it been for you?

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samuelcardoso 5 months

What’s the most attractive thing in a man besides his appearance? 😏

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aidos 5 months

If all your exes had to form a girl group, what would their group name be—and what kind of music would they make?

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hmln_leo 5 months

Spent the weekend with my ex, he‘s moving back to NZ. And now I know for sure this chapter is closed

perseus 5 months

I just want someone who will call me a good boy when I save the plastic to be recycled when throwing out spoiled food.

clownpup 5 months

i’ve been getting touched and kissed and praised on so lovingly and invitingly and understandingly and i just know everything is gonna get better cause it literally just gets better

jcasx 5 months

Currently watching The L Word for the first time…need someone to have some discourse with on my feelings about it so far 👀

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