itsjacobedmonds 6 months

Is it a red flag to live with a married couple and thier baby?

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sierramichhh 6 months

Its so cold imma need my lyft to drive to my front door (I live on the 6th floor)

parvesh 6 months

Who are all these people? European AI spam? What is this app?

gabriel33 6 months

Today he saw some dried roses petals and some roses dried and asked me what they were meant for, I just told him that I dried them in the oven so they could last forever since they were starting to lose their beuty, his answer left me speechless, with the most calm and unbothered voice tone he said that he could get me another bouquet of flowers 💐

sailormars 6 months

Journaling 101: Why don’t you feel a part of the world? It can so beautiful if you open up to it… I know it’s been hard in the places you know, but what if you trust what you don’t know? …

carlosandovalof 6 months

Is it a requirement to have a Rosalía 'LUX' album pic on here?

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sierramichhh 6 months

I love flirting w strangers when they don’t immediately piss me off

die 6 months

A man in a suit or a man wearing gym clothes?

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gabriel33 6 months

Hii guys I think I have cought a very bad flu, i feel kind of dizzy🫨, my whole body hurts and my legs 😭 all the muscles + I feel I don't have energy🫩 +. I lost my appetite. Any home remedy? I would like to avoid as much as possible medicines💊⚕️

sierramichhh 6 months

Hol on im tryna see sum rq

u.can.call.me.demi 6 months

What’s the fun fact of the day? I wanna learn something fun

sierramichhh 6 months

Feeling magical after leading many chants at the PSL.NYC protest. Turns out I didn’t even need a sign bc my voice is louder than them. It was cathartic to scream!!!!

hmln_leo 6 months

ICE coming to Italy was not on my 2026 bingo card 😡

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gaymini 6 months

I’m asking one more time on valentine’s day… is everything still romantic?

gabriel33 6 months

He treats me sooo damn good that I'm feeling like taking advantage of him😭🥰😜

milly 6 months

Obsessed with the way my coworker is always telling me about Pokémon and then going “do you know who that is?” No I don’t know shit about Pokémon brother but I’m glad you’re excited

kyemack 6 months

Missed opportunity not to have Paolo and Isabella sing at the Olympics Opening Ceremony tbh

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silveraccordlx 6 months

I’m sick 😭😭😭 everything hurts and I have fever chills. I just want to sit upright and have a taco 😭😭😭

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milly 6 months

Realised recently how much it strains my fkn voice to speak in my customer service tone.

zayn 6 months

aquí nadie quiso irse, quien se fue sueña con volver

sierramichhh 6 months

I hate when my gym crush doesn’t play by the rules….you gotta show up for me like I show up for you boo

quinoandino 6 months

Any gamers here? (preferably console)

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catdad 6 months

Stache envy is real 😓. Y’all are killing it up in this app. 😍

hues 6 months

Plastic please, thank you.

sailormars 6 months

We are all doing this for the first time, give yourself the dignity to embrace your life, and if you are willing to… change it! Besos 💋

lorde 6 months

i just want a bf it’s that too much? 💔😪

tsty 6 months

Why does society treat conflict with fathers as evidence of paternal failure, but conflict with mothers as evidence that the child is ungrateful, broken, or cruel…rather than allowing that mothers, too, can cause harm?

sierramichhh 6 months

My ringconn giving me a sedentary notification HELLOOO im literally sleeping??

marlowe-f 6 months

“The only ethical consumption under capitalism is pussy”

champilano 6 months

What’s something you changed your mind about as you got older?

anothermillennialhere 6 months

In the online world, I want to try and find moments to be offline… look outside the window, smile at stranges, sit with a book, sip coffee in peace, sketch, sing, dance… AND unravel the string of my thoughts and listen to my heart ❤️

breadhubby 6 months

Watched Hamnet in the cinema, and I enjoyed it such a good movie!

sierramichhh 6 months

Can yall stop making urself into an ai cartoon this world finna blow UP

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lizzy 6 months

Really don’t wanna go to work today😫😵‍💫

raulorgz 6 months

apple music or spotify???

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victor_mre_ 6 months

“The old world is dying and the new world struggles to be born; Now is the time of monsters.” Antonio Gramsci. No: Empire, white male supremacy, colonialism, silly identity manipulative games, hate, “us” vs “them” among the working class. It’s the guys at the top of the ladder we have to observe and dismantle. Yes: All the rights for all the people, universal human rights, structural truth, coherence, consciousness, kindness, shared reciprocity! Is it really that hard?

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halfpersianboy 6 months

100 g of protein daily - sometimes really challenging

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cchristophrr 6 months

SOS the bots have found me here

badis 7 months

For so long I was hurt and disappointed at him for leaving, thinking how could he give up on us. Then I had my major era of imagining apologizing to him, bursting with pain and regret for all the things I hadn’t learnt yet, all the ways I wasn’t ready for it, and how I could have been a better bf and friend. Yearning to be back in his arms, and promising that we were meant to be. On a hike recently, I had this feeling rush over me, of gratitude, and thankfulness. In my solitude amongst nature, I spoke it out into the desert’s copper tanned mountains “thank you, for ending it, and letting me continue discovering myself”. All the things I wanted that impeded me from giving him my all, I now know are less rewarding and worth it for me. Gracias por dejarme

carlos222 6 months

guys who read guys who read guys who read

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sierramichhh 6 months

Book recs for thought daughters ???

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sierramichhh 7 months

Im sorry who the fuck decided it was a good idea for jacob elordi to play heathcliff????? Lets bfr

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shearpaint 6 months

If people walk into your life when you need them, and walk out of your life when you no longer need them; then why do we find ourselves lusting over people who would never give us the time of day??

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lax 6 months

626 Been thinking about planning dates with myself and going out and doing things that piqued my interest

sierramichhh 6 months

Starting burlesque classes next month !!!

tudorsremy 6 months

“This furnace is your fuel and your desire your mother must have said don’t play with fire” Feline

milly 7 months

‘Narnia Christian allegory’ son or ‘Golden Compass anti Catholic Church ’ daughter

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kennyekums 6 months

Craving connection and denying any possibility for it. Why are we like this?

saochiang 6 months

To everyone out there who is versed in Shakespeare, is it possible in this day and age to produce “Taming of the Shrew”? I think trying to find a way to make the VERY outdated comedic moments work would be a fun challenge, but most of my director friends in theatre basically answered, “There’s no way to make it work”… which is a little more than disheartening to say the least…

sierramichhh 6 months

If you’re still joining the us military in 2026 you’re a bitch btw

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milly 6 months

Once again someone in my life has to me they found me super intimidating when we first met

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ike_m_ 6 months

Where are the POC hotties on Collective? I wanna see somethin 👀 🤔

sirhuck 6 months

Love these days for me means Follow Through & Commitment

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