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625 I think I would like to take my time in life.. to walk in the rain and feel it gently tapping against me… watch the clouds drift slowly in the wind, and the sky’s brilliant display of colours as the sun set
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Almost a month without Grindr or Sniffies. A very liberating experience
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What the fuck is up with the anti-tomato agenda at these restaurants??????
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Reporting live from the heated rivalry lookalike contest 📍wsq park Edit 230 mercer now?
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Rachaidh seo thart freisin.
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Normality I think I’m pretty normal But im definitely spicy And by spicy I mean… In the UK sense Witty In the USA sense Sassy And German frech But through it all I’m Still 1000% authentically myself Normal, not crazy Though, if you would describe The above as Crazy Then I glady accept the Compliment. 5.02.26 AC
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I wish pants didn’t make me dysphoric. I’ve got so many nice pairs of pants and nice blouses to wear with them but I honestly believe I’m not passable at all in pants.
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how many users have you had to block here…?
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It’s too early to start working. Is it wrong to want to go back to sleep? 🫠😭
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I like being mysterious it makes it fun when you can’t really tell how someone’s going to act or what they will do.
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people who are cuffed, what measures do you take to not feel completely consumed by your love for/infatuation with your relationship/partner? i feel like there’s very few moments in my day when i’m not thinking about him (even subconsciously) and idk how healthy that is 🧍🏾
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Big fan of living alone until I’m sick. Then I’m the loneliest person in the world. Just wanna stand over mums bed and tell her I threw up at 2am :/
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If you can do that big upperlip frown pout thing I hate you !!! (I luv u)
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Need snowpants by sunday
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Anyone here got their 200h ytt?
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finishing old artworks feels good
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Btw, ANYTHING political being posted on any META platforms are being immediately flagged, censored & inaccessible. It may look like a shadowban but it's more nefarious than that. Their algorithms are picking up the texts in your photos, the things you reshare and even the messages you send. Thank you @cal for letting us still have open discourse about things that affect us globally.
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¡QUE FUCKING VIVA PUERTO RICO! 🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷
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Changing with the tide Shame becomes grace Grace is kind kind is good… so good to me.
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Bad bunny and Lady Gagita! 🇵🇷🇵🇷🇵🇷
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i see reneé rapp for the first time tomorrow after stanning for over 6 years😭😭😭😭🩷
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Saying goodbye is never easy, but man… when I tell you hugging one of my best friends in SF for the last time tonight as they get ready to move back to the east coast was so hard. I’m so sad. This sucks so bad.
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Disclaimer: you’re not going to break your therapist, they’re trained to mange these things, but they’re also people so a little treat or check-in goes a long way. If you have an in-person therapist bring their favorite drink (if you don’t know, bring a water bottle) to the next session, ask them how they’re doing during these insane times. If you see them virtually ask them what TV shows and music they’re listening to. Maybe even share some music you’re listening to. The world is simultaneously on fire and freezing, the government is showing its ass (like it alway does). I’ve talked to a few colleagues and like myself the days ebb & flow, but being there for our clients has remained a constant (as it should be), however we are still people and it’s rough somedays❤️‍🩹
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Do you worry that your digital footprint and data from apps like Grindr, including data that can be sold or shared, could be used to track and target LGBTQ+ people? The same way 🧊 is targeting people right now?
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anyone watching The Boyfriend on netflix?? i’m kinda obsessed
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is anyone hiring or searching for a graphic designer?
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I’m selling a standing ticket for Florence + The Machine in London on the 17th February! Hmu boys
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What is this app? It’s all AI slop.
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I see myself falling in love with so many of you.
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Any friday the 13th tattoo freaks out there like me??
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why does my world feel like it’s falling apart after visiting the dentist?
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What’s everybody up to tonight? I should go to the gym but I’ve been so lazy with it… this weather doesn’t help 🥲
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So the city and snow plows just said fuck the bus stops huh… do they think we’ll just levitate above the 4ft piles of snow???????
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learning tennis as a beginner has taught me so much about the importance of sportsmanship, specifically how narrow-minded some of the other beginner players are when all they do is smack the ball across the court at all cost when all we're supposed to do at this stage is practicing to rally with each other. ok rant over 🙏
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I haven’t even seen Heated Rivalry mind you. I just have Hudson Williams psychosis seperate from that.
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Hoje cê pode me esquecer, é carnaval no Brasil!
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¡AMO SER BORICUA! ¡¡¡PUÑETA!!!
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How this app works?
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Which app do you delete and redownload the most?
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Does anyone have a invite code for the Quouch app ? 🙏🏽
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Had an interview with an insufferable consultancy today. “Could you imagine working for a tobacco client?” Like come on 😭
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Mine You don’t belong to me But that is not what I mean. You are mine in the context of love, Of partnership. In the same way the city you live in doesn’t belong to you. But we choose that, for a period of time. In this way you are mine. As long as we choose to be each others. That time, will be mine. For now, you are mine. -Father P
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Can Anyone recommend a good personal trainer/fitness program? Bonus if it’s in NYC!
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Apparently I’m the kind of idiot who can’t tell the difference between a Siamang song and an Indri Lemur song🤦‍♂️
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are people stilll on this app?
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Who are you rooting for at the Grammys?
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Attending The Mayhem Ball for the 4th time this month!
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Had a cute date with a cute boy
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I can’t even go pee because two of my coworkers are taking up the bathroom. They decided to drink an iced coffee, eating 2 cream cheese bagels during our company media day THEN split a bag of Takis while having chipotle for lunch. They’re shitting up their backs right now
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NY is experiencing the most gorgeous snow rn.
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Where are all the bears?? Show yourselves!!
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