giving-mildly-impressive 7 months

What’s your most embarrassing silly moment as an adult? Mine was getting caught doing anime faces when the elevator door opened….

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lax 7 months

588 My building’s lights are broken and because of that, I can actually look up the sky tonight and see stars or satellites amidst the inky dark skies which looks so mesmerising..

sailormars 6 months

Tu amor es como una avalancha, cae por su propio peso al existir.

sailormars 7 months

If you have any wounds I hope this lifetime you love them, and that love heals them. And you enjoy life

zeinthepain 7 months

Someone needs to organise a Hannah Montana viewing party on the 24th! 👱‍♀️

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statmanthom 7 months

What is everybody reading? I need some recommendations.

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milly 7 months

I’d consider crystal castles (II) & (III) some of the greatest albums of all time. But unfortunately, there’s the Ethan Kath of it all.

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udonomii 7 months

Just broke up with DoorDash (Deleted the account)

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rainbowwarrior 7 months

What does love look like to you? Besides all the romance stuff

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zayn 7 months

delete his number, delete the chat and leave it alone, if he wants to message you, he will. if he doesn’t, then you didn’t lose anything.

emigiannotti 7 months

Porque media barcelona se fue a brasil? Todos los gays fueron a brasil? Que hay? No se entiende? Siguen en brasil? Something is happing there all the time. Gays questions with no answers…

eve_amelia_ 6 months

hello little queers, would anybody like to be friends

eve_amelia_ 6 months

i am so excited for the summer but personally dreading the damn bugs coming back flying up in my business

paulykinzzz 7 months

Just watched the UK version of Saturday Night Live. Massive fan of the US version and don’t know why they took so long to make it. Tina Fey was the first ever guest host. Anybody watched it? Thoughts and opinions? Do you like our British humour? 🤪 🇬🇧

bbeenn 7 months

I just want someone to buy me Pokemon cards 😮‍💨

sierramichhh 7 months

I can’t believe there was a time where I DIDN’t like truffle aioli😩

ndrsrzc 7 months

A life fully lived through fashion.

lone_wanderer 7 months

Hate that I have to choose between being on the apps and having standards.

goodbadboy 8 months

Men left me after they slept with me so many times. Sometimes brutally without any words. I was abounded so many times that I started to fetishize abandonment and neglect. How crazy is that. Abandon me after sleeping with me this is what I want 🤣 No. That’s not what I really want. Stay. Tell me I’m beautiful. Tell me you like me

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bran.don 7 months

Watching ‘Twinless’ taught me to never trust (some) twinks A great movie tho.

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sailormars 7 months

Journaling 101: Nobody can shame you. Act like it, live like it. You don’t owe shame to people, you don’t need to bring it to your relationships. You can be yourself, and no one can shame you.

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locke-e 7 months

We Would Miss Us I wouldn’t take back these days, From learning who we are, Where we would be. It’s the oaths we hold, The promises made, The heads held high. It might be all that, Under a brilliant star, Or under the sheets braving the cold.

giving-mildly-impressive 7 months

Is it silly to tell someone you love them after meeting them twice? 😬

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nikosfrank 7 months

Drop your 2010s fav song

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milly 7 months

You ever just never watch the final episode or season of shows so that they don’t end or ?

amansharma 7 months

What are your workout splits? I’m getting bored of PPL

simone94 7 months

Happy people want you to succeed. Bitter people don't. Confident people acknowledge your strengths, intimidated people, remind you of your weaknesses. Secure people, celebrate your light, insecure people, try to dim it. If you have to shrink yourself to make other people comfortable, You're probably in the wrong room.

aynsleyknight 7 months

Looking for dates on this app is difficult, y’all wanna connect platonically which is cool but I wanna date too. 🤣

beniguess 7 months

Is anyone using Grindr’s AI EDGE subscription? I am writing about AI in dating apps and I’m DYING to see how it works or IF it actually works 😉

strawbrry 7 months

I hate the way tax season makes me feel on a cellular level

giving-mildly-impressive 7 months

Songs about heartbreak….I love them.

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sailormars 7 months

I am so secure in myself that if I’m into you.. I would never make you doubt it.

tylerzcol 7 months

To all my partnered friends: How’d you meet your partners? What kinda advice would you give to those who want a relationship but don’t know what to expect?

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lynx 7 months

Every year I realize how much better I get up in the morning when the sun is up

ferg-cooper 7 months

Looking for some new models! I’m in London but keen on international too (and can work remotely) hmu for more info/questions etc…

lucienzera 7 months

I feel like I hit the jackpot - got invited to a movie gala!

lashagogola 7 months

should i triple text my crush?

flynn.b 7 months

ask me what I have in common with ice hockey players 😬

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bynk 7 months

Had anyone read the velvet rage and do you recommend? I’ve heard its a heavy read

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._.dude. 7 months

Might be losing faith in finding what I’m looking for.. I guess I’ll just become what I’ve been wanting ? Idk adulting sucks

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taurupo 7 months

I miss having a job that pays 😭 or even having the option to be able to work ughhh

brytheherbivore 7 months

Excited for my first beard appointment this weekend!!!

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luisteran 7 months

currently reading “the first to die at the end” hopefully the title is lying this time

alvarovgg 7 months

what have I missed these months??

sierramichhh 7 months

I hate how judgmental the girls are to black-owned brands. Other black women are the FIRST to hold these brands and founders to an impossible standard and waste no time shitting on them as soon as there’s bumps in the road….where’s the grace thats held for the mediocre legacy brands??? Now we lost Hanifa before I could even afford to add a piece to my collection 😒 im irritated

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sailormars 7 months

Chasing only leads to suffering, your suffering won’t change the pattern. Only the kindness in knowing that your efforts can be turned inwards and you can meet the shadows that act beneath that tension. Shadows that you abandoned and that rise in hopes to be acknowledged, integrated and transmuted.

bran.don 7 months

I know it’s a privilege to feel things deeply But What the fuck.

aphrodite.aphroditus 7 months

“But ‘getting lost’ still takes us somewhere; and being lost is a way of inhabiting space by registering what is not familiar: being lost can in its turn become a familiar feeling.”

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