faisal 10 months

impatiently waiting for deluxua

jota 10 months

What’s your all time favorite album? 🎶

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zayn 10 months

i want to cry, im having a surgery tomorrow and they want me to shave my beard completely I WANNA CRY LIKE OK IT GROWS QUICKLY BUT GOSH IM SCARED

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belleann 10 months

why are there no london wlw events for 19-22 yr olds xx it’s a struggle out here

lav 10 months

You’re SO curated SO editorial

chavdar 10 months

“At the trial of God, we will ask: why did you allow all this? And the answer will be an echo: why did you allow all this?” Ilya Kaminsky, Deaf Republic

thomasj 10 months

any sam fender fans? 🤠

_coriisaiah 9 months

Authenticity isn’t an act—it’s my language.

albertopulido__ 10 months

It is our choices, Harry, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities. 🫰🏻

piu-piu 10 months

Would you date someone who’s fucked their friend’s boyfriend (while they were on a break)? 😅

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nc180 10 months

Which feels more vulnerable to you: sharing your struggles or sharing your dreams?

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milly 10 months

It’s always so interesting to me how many fans of sci fi, comic books etc are “anti woke”, as a whole, those things have never shied away from being progressive. How are you going to be a fan of media like doctor who, Star Wars, DC & Marvel and miss the point so spectacularly?

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cjp 10 months

is every man from France hung, yes or yes

pelin 10 months

How do you even make friends when you are over 30 yo?

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piu-piu 10 months

Why are the first people I followed here barely showing up my feed ever ?

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judashall711 10 months

looking for more nerdy gay friends to play d&d with 🏳️‍🌈🎲 also hot take: paladin = best class, ranger/barbarian = objectively the worst.

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jnxadel 10 months

Creo que esta App me da buen vibe de momento :)

taurupo 10 months

Waiting for the day more alt people will appear on this app 🙏🏽

piu-piu 10 months

If we’re friends and you introduce me to your man although my Loyalty lays to you don’t be telling me details of you cheating on your partner 🙉🙉🙉 Ion want in on THE LIES

sierramichhh 10 months

In search of cunty little black corset thats gonna make my tits look next level

masc_y_medio 10 months

I want to plan an Album listening Party for Taylor’s new album for my husband. Ideas for decor, food? I don’t really know the vibe of the album but the color orange and maybe Vegas?! 😂😂

azam 9 months

can i see myself as you see me?

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aresdefer 10 months

Thinking about the time a lady tried to recruit me into their cult. They had a leaflet and everything. Wondering what would’ve happened if I said yes lmao ☠️

urboyfilipe 10 months

i want to find new painters, illustrators, and creatives in general, to be inspired by. if you have any recommendations please drop their @ 🫰🏼 appreciate it

piu-piu 10 months

Do pets actually love us or is it all Stockholm syndrome?😂

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masc_y_medio 10 months

Making breakfast for hubs and family this morning! ☺️

jem-sykes 10 months

What books are people reading atm?

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vii_solar 10 months

Looking for pretty mutuals 🫶🏻

itsjacobedmonds 10 months

Someone asked if I had a boyfriend yesterday, and I felt so seen. 🥹

floriansenoner_ 10 months

My iPhone asks for more space. Even my phone is tired of me…

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justben 10 months

Following the last post re: getting deep. A gentle first question for the community, in two parts. 1. What is your earliest memory centred on food? 2. How does it make you feel to think about that memory now?

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dylpics 10 months

I’m trying to learn Italian 🇮🇹. Do you speak any other languages and, if so, how did you learn them? I only speak English (fluently).

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j_d_c_67 10 months

Anyone interested in becoming gamer friends and starting a group on discord or something? I’m on PS5 & PC 😁 HMU

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agoorsky 10 months

Woah, so likes are engraved on my profile forever… and instead of deep non-binario posts I’ve been simping over hot guys???

masc_y_medio 10 months

If we didn’t have at least one mental breakdown was it even a work week?!

piu-piu 10 months

What are your expectations/intentions going on a date with someone living in a different country? I’m lowkey annoyed wasting a match only to find out someone s just visiting 😅

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quebecossais 10 months

Millenial gay life is being at an event with intense lighting, squinting, and then asking yourself if that’s the daddy who railed you last night or a pretentious twink with glasses and a moustache.

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izaakzed 10 months

Si ligar con españoles es un delito que me detengan. 🫦

olliesinha 10 months

cant people just leave the dolls alone istfg

iamdarioblack 10 months

I’ve learned that the most important love we’ll ever have in this life is the love we cultivate with ourselves. The more I do the inner work, energy practices, meditation, resting well, nourishing my body, surrounding myself with uplifting people, being creative, making music, doing what brings me joy and aligns with my soul’s purpose, laughing, surrendering to the present, and leading with love….the more radiant I feel. And I’ve learned something else: beauty is not about how we look, it’s about how radiant we feel inside. When you see beauty in others, it’s because you’re seeing your own inner radiance reflected back at you. It’s a mirror of who you truly are within. All I want is for everyone in the world to feel this radiance. Because this is true love. And when we find true love within ourselves, we can’t help but spread it everywhere we go.

anthonyydistefano 10 months

You guys are all so cute I fall in love with all of you

hmln_leo 10 months

Particularly thirsty today and no gays in sight 😌

kissland 10 months

hii sooo can we be mooots >_<

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psaltair 10 months

sue me I wanna be uhh sue me I wanna be yeeaahhh

basa 10 months

Mmmm . What if I open art commissions? 🙇‍♂️

kc. 10 months

If you had to teach me English, what word would you teach me?

jay-paeds 10 months

Hello. Anyone out there who fancies real friendship? HMU. 🤙

thotanist 10 months

Will never understand people that are allergic to getting caught in the rain, especially when it’s warm out 🚶

donovan.dona 10 months

Caí en las garras de ChatGPT

pettygodmother 10 months

My arch nemesises……nemesi?……..nemesies…? Whatever it is, washing dishes and folding/putting away laundry! I am fighting for my LIFE, and they got hands. 😭

richieincanada 10 months

Full disclosure: I’ve zero intent to build myself as an influencer. I’m happy being the average version of myself. Question: the increasing number of influencer wannabes on social media is worrying (is it and why?) what kind of influence do these wannabes want to wield? Or they simply want to make some quick cash when they are still young and beautiful (a leg up so to speak)? Will they end up being lonely and alone when they have what they want initially.

huey_david 10 months

I’m pretty new to the app but already made two friends, what is your most wholesome story on here so far?

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