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It is a strange delirium. to ache for oneself, to hunger for a shadow already dissolved. Which self? The boy who believed, the man who doubted, the dreamer who danced until dawn? Perhaps all of them, perhaps none. That is the secret. we are shards, splinters of a mirror scattered across time, each fragment catching a different light, each insisting it is the whole. And so we wander, missing ourselves, yet never knowing which ghost we mourn.
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I don’t want people to complain at the end of 2026 when the person they said they were going to leave behind in 2025 was the person who broke them again in 2026 too. Stand tf up!
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Escucharás tu corazón latir muy rápido. Y también, muy cerca, el de alguien más. Verás la oscuridad —viciosa, desconcertante—, a veces obsesionada consigo misma, claustrofóbica. A veces excitante, la experiencia inasible de aquello por conocer, el pulso sensual de una cuerda a punto de ceder. Percibirás la gravedad liviana de lo divino en el río oscuro donde se aprende a nadar, donde los ciegos descubren el alivio de que todas las direcciones regresan al mismo lugar. Fluirás sin coordenadas ni horario; lo arbitrario lo quema el corazón. Después —o mientras tanto—, bailarás. Más allá del cansancio, bailarás con el ritmo exacto que nace del encuentro entre un latido y un beat, y en esa danza instintiva sabrás que tú y la vida se rozan, desafiantes y cómplices, porque para eso —y sólo para eso— tienes pies para bailar.
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If you’re not sweating like you jumped in the pool… I don’t want it
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650 Watch traitors the other night.. it is exciting to catch it with friends
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any new music i should listen to?
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oftentimes what we feel intense disgust or repulsion for indicates a desire we secretly want to like but feel shame for liking it, so the psyche fragments this part of you and uses repulsion as a way of protecting you from letting yourself want that desire.
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The best New Year's resolution I ever made was to start devouring all my nicest things, and save no small pleasure for an unspecified future. Now I burn the good candles, wear my nicest clothes, scribble imperfectly in pretty notebooks. You can't pin joy like a moth.
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Tell me the worst joke you know.
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I’m new here… but we’re just all gay tumblr mutuals in our own app right?
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Journaling 101: The reason why you’re chasing is because you’re looking to confirm that what you believe about yourself isn’t true. Ex: when you are obsessed over someone being with you, the reason you want their approval so badly is so that you can finally confirm that you’re worthy of being with somebody you consider attractive. “Which then would make you attractive” But the truth is that the faster you let go off that need. The easier it will be for you to see your own value.
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And I’m awake, abruptly, almost violently, with a different weather system moving through me than the one I had ten minutes ago. It’s absurd how quickly my inner climate mutates, how a single moment can tilt the whole atmosphere. It wasn’t him, not really, it was the way my brain seized on the sensation, the way it spun a tiny spark into a whole forecast. It’s not serious, not profound, not even particularly meaningful. Yet something in me flickered, that familiar thrill of discovery, even when there’s nothing to discover. My mind loves that trick. It loves inventing significance where there’s only coincidence, loves pretending it’s stumbled onto a secret when really it’s just hungry for stimulation. So here I am, suddenly charged, suddenly alert, suddenly rearranged, not because of him, but because of the way my own thoughts sprint ahead of me, eager to build a narrative out of the smallest shift in temperature. It’s ridiculous. It’s human. And it’s mine.
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You’re a people pleaser? Please all the people then
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do you ever get to the point with so many messages you need to pull the laptop out ? Bc same
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Entering 2026, I noticed something curious: Sometimes the loudest statements are made in silence. For years, I explained too much — what I wanted, why I was tired, where I felt wronged. Looking back now, the answers were always there. I had simply buried them under unnecessary words. I understand this now: Life doesn’t reward those who speak the most, but those who observe carefully. In 2026, I treat myself like a case to be solved. I examine my emotions without accusing them. I don’t deny my fears, but I don’t let them take control either. Most people turned out to be more innocent than I expected. Some, more calculated. But the greatest revelation was about myself. The most intricate mystery, it seems, is the one we keep locked inside our own hearts. This year, I make no grand declarations. Only quiet decisions — clear, deliberate, and impossible to undo. 2026 is not a beginning for me. It is a resolution.
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I try to convince myself that I'm fine being single and I'm better alone as an independent adult Twink on his late teens, but then I see a cute gay couple in the street and the only thing I can think is... (T_T)
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2026 and I say people are boring well at least the people I know.. I need new people to bring into my life this years 🙂‍↕️ I yearn for good times 🫠
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Had a dream I was buying desserts for my pretty Italian boyfriend - waking up has never been sadder 😭
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“Society, as we have constituted it, will have no place for me, has none to offer; but Nature, whose sweet rains fall on unjust and just alike, will have clefts in the rocks where I may hide, and secret valleys in whose silence I may weep undisturbed. She will hang the night with stars so that I may walk abroad in the darkness without stumbling, and send the wind over my footprints so that none may track me to my hurt: she will cleance me in the great waters, and with bitter herbs make me whole”. -Oscar Wilde
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2026: I enjoy solitude and I’m fulfilled by my friendships and chosen family. Romantic connection isn’t a priority for me right now, and I’m not one to organize my life around outside obligation. I’m open to connection when it’s articulated, consensual, and honest about intent and capacity. I’m not closed off to partnership. I’m simply refusing to collaborate with love that requires me to disappear.
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Tell me why a “straight” man (who’s been flirting with me for over a year) would have my number labeled as “home” and his girlfriend as “contact” 😵‍💫💀
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This year I think i’ll be getting rid of social media.
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how is your day going guys? <3
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Does anyone actually even come on here to make new connections… or should I stick to using Grindr to make friends……. Lmao
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listening to “blonde” and wondering if frank ocean will finally drop a new album in 2026. dude it’s been a DECADE! 😭
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In time it becomes Beautiful.
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I was wondering what TV show to obsess over now that HR is finished, but just remembered Industry S4 starts on Sunday. This will be my next hyperfixation. Any day 1 Industry fans here? I need more Harper and Eric scenes this season.
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Why is my boss asking me to do shit
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Just found out my spa building is closing for good 😭 good thing I have a second job to hold me over
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I caught up with an old friend today that I haven’t seen since we were both 18. For three entire hours we yapped, howled with laughter and shared some pain. After we parted I was struck by how my energy levels were not drained in the slightest. I *always* feel tired after socialising but with her? Not at all. Part of growing up really is getting better at noticing who/what energises you and holding it closer.
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El 2026 es tu nuevo lienzo, pinta algo increíble!!!
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Atp i just need Nini Coco out of drag in my life
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645 This will be the year I become the best version of myself..
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where are the JOBS!
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653 Finally started heated rivalry… when I watch this kinda shows, I always end up smiling to myself thinking awww that’s cute..
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Okay, so Has anyone heard a better song than midnight kygo remix? I literally start seeing the vibrations in air
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kim petras & ayesha erotica are life saviors when you’re about to hit a depressive episode ngl
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group projects? please never again. i’m speechless atp, saying “you’re making it a one man show” and “don’t expect us to work as much as you” two messages after is crazy.
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I’ve had so many unforgettable experiences with Mariah Carey. Being in her presence is astonishing—having her sing, point, & wave to me still feels surreal. It truly feels like our connection runs both ways. For years, I saw Mariah 2 to 3 times annually, often outside shows—from her Walk of Fame after-party at the Roosevelt, where we sat across from each other 4 hours, to unexpectedly running into her & the twins at the Kiwanis Chili Cook-Off in Malibu. At a Caesars Palace Christmas meet-&-greet, we cried together discussing overlooked lyrics & how deeply they shaped us. I apologized to the fans behind me, and they said, “Do NOT apologize—it was beautiful to watch.” Through friendships with her team, she always remembered me—even following me on IG. Whenever she knew I was there, she’d come to the edge of the stage, look me in the eyes, & sing Dreamlover—our song—& Always Be My Baby. Even before we spoke, we were on the same frequency. I once predicted her album would be called Cautiously Optimistic. Months later, she announced Caution. Mariah helped shape who I am & helped me survive.
Thank u 4 being legendary—at motherhood, music, & life.
4ever a fan. Love u, 2 infinity. 🌈✨♾️🦋🍯🎄🐑
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just finished watching “the buccaneers” and oh god, i have a lot of opinions about absolutely everything and everyone in that show
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All these kids trying to say 2010-13 aesthetics are 2016. Y’all don’t GET it. 2016 was the year tumblr started to die down a bit. Like I left for a couple of years around then because none of the homies were active there anymore. It was not peak galaxy leggings, Voss water bottles, nyancat, superwholock. I actually am so serious about internet lore do not piss me awf
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running late but not ugly
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Is it just me or am i the only one who has been sleeping a lot more lately… like a bear in hibernation 😭
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be the reason people still believe in romance.
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imma start hating group uni projects fr, like i made the presentation, illustrations for the presentation, research on every topic, prepared a long ass thing to say for every slide and y’all tell me “let’s remove this because xyz won’t be present” bruh ok she won’t be present so WE SAY IT, not remove it, are you okay?? also y’all were on vacation when my finals literally start tomorrow, but still i managed to do it all. SMALL VENT SORRY YALL
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Studying neuropsychology is wild because at some point your brain just goes: no more ATP girlie and your neurons start free-falling into apoptosis. LOVE IT, I AM WHERE I BELONG
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Life is uncertain. In the end, we all have to die. Live in the present and treat each day as if it were your last. If there is anything you can do for others, share your good fortune with them. And no matter how difficult life becomes, never lose hope.😇🫶🏻💕
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I wish I could wear Under Armour compression tops as well as Scott Hunter/François Arnaud
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Started Heated Rivalry expecting a slow burn kinda situation and it definitely isn’t, real gay men representation ngl
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