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I have recently discovered if a pretty guy compliments me I fold like origami oh lord. (This is not a subtle request, just an observation)
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Stomach’s been feeling weird all day… Looking for him… 724
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I wonder: is his 🍑 thinking about me?
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Got the appointment for my name and gender change in my passport, everyone get excited for October 16th!!!
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Guy I was dating moved countries and didn’t tell me. Fml 😂
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sundays are for car boot sales
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My extremely functional friend asking me how happy I (usually) am and being shook when I said 6/10 🤪
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Just got passively friendzoned… Great way to start the weekend
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A girl is just looking for someone soft,thoughtful,nice,interesting,family oriented , emotionally willing AND able not abusing drugs (including alcohol) who likes to dance isn’t boring and lives in the same country 😭😭😭
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So… Totodile, Chikorita, Tepig? Who did you choose?
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hey siri, do my job for me tomorrow so i can stay out with friends
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ugh i hate this feeling when autumn comes. first it’s cool and romantic, then it just becomes gray and depressing. any suggestions how to make myself feel better during this time of the year?
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Adult question for the adultiest adults: where did you get your comforter from? Ideally one that’s not too thick/heavy and can be used year round
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Why is everyone so low effort doesn’t anyone reciprocate anymore 😒
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sleep connects like bluetooth these days I be OUT
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I wish that I could tell you I would Slow down and commit But the world is so big And full of life You can't hold in and I have so much to give… I'm in love, I'm in love, I'm in love, I'm in love, I'm in love, I'm in love I'm in love, I'm in love with everyone… 🎶
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Hooyah navy hooyah navy
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the therapeutic value of cleaning your house within an inch of its life :’)
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how do you explain all that you’re feeling when you don’t have the words or energy to
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Is the feeling of impending doom universal? Between the rise of fascism, unbridled climate change, proliferation of AI, and what seems to be a complete lack of empathy around the world, I’m feeling more detached and dejected than ever. The American dream is dead and it feels harder than ever to find a sense of purpose. Can anyone relate? Any tips for maintaining a positive outlook in a dystopian world?
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Collective why show me cute guys in… Australia? 🥲
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If you’re going to exist in anyone’s imagination, may it be your own.
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is it too cold to wear fivefingers now
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I’m both excited and nervous about my new job… I hope it goes well though, wish me luck!
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What’s the wisest thing your grandparents told you that stuck with you?
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I love seeing fit and muscular men on here but where are the average bodied men at on this app? I do enjoy a dad bod! Not everyone is sculpted like Adonis! JS
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Update: first day went surprisingly well! It was a bit overwhelming though 😅
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what are you currently reading? 📖
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listening to jessica simpson at the gym (🏳️‍🌈)
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just finished watching Weapons and now i need to tell everyone about it :)
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need to rewatch season 8 of are you the one just to feel something
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demi said no SAD this autumn
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back on my lover boy bs
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ready to start accepting that 2026 is bringing too much change and I’ll need it but won’t love all of it
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So glad it’s finally the weekend!!
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I’m excited to move houses soon 🥰 is not my dream house, but after this one it will be 🫶🏽
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Well the seasonal depression has just begun and I want it to be over already but I love the weather
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Where’s all the crafty people?
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Stay home all day and took care of all my chores, now I’m free all weekend 726
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Manifesting that the French government isn’t going to collapse once again this week 🥖🇫🇷
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I am currently balding (😭) from the top of my head, but I still want to “use” my hair. At least since they’re there, so come in my rescue and tell me what haircut I could make? (No I am not cutting them completely, I have my life to do that)
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Looking for some clothing brands to check out. What are you buying for your cute fall looks? I'll pay a tariff if I need to...
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the bassline is so nice
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What is your favorite part of Halloween 🎃🎃🎃🎃🎃
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Immediately got unmatched when I told the guy that kink was a big part of my life 🤣😭
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Do i unapologetically like and boost people who I think need the boost? Hell yeah. Do i also unapologetically like and boost people who don’t need the boost? Hell yeah. Basically, if I like you, and your content, you’re gonna know (keep creating besties)
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today i am feeling weak. work was horrible today. my team is a nightmare, has been all week. the second i get time to myself, i'm interrupted. fighting with my brother too. i am not thinking about doing drugs or drinking but today is a day when i feel like, what is the point of being sober if i hate myself and my life either way? day 11 is done woohoo. …..right.
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Saw my ex kissing someone in the bar. I raised my glass! It is always nice to see charity work up close.
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Time to say goodbye Collective. 🖤
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Anyone in London green fingered / houseplant daddy? I need to downsize my collection and i’d like them to go to good homes. 💚
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Took the week off from work to clean my place up after an entire summer of working two jobs which lead to a really, REALLY bad burnout. I’m about 75% finished cleaning the place up and I’m looking forward to having my creative spaces back, fully functional and ready to make stuff again.
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This week tried to beat me but I won
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coffee prices are going up like wdym 9 dollars for a latte 🥲
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Still got no idea how this app works lol 🫠
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