sierramichhh 7 months

All men do in the gym is stare…say something or get tf on no shade

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michaeljlyons 7 months

Was thinking about going to Hot Dog Sunday tomorrow. So I bought a ticket for memorial weekend. Planning ahead…

beefgrindr 7 months

Not been sharing because I feel everyone’s out to COPY & PASTE at every corner

rainbowwarrior 7 months

Learning that talking stage doesn’t mean they get a basket. It’s the freest I’ve felt in dating in a while.

austinsdalley 8 months

Feeling extremely stagnant and lacking creative spark in life but on the bright side I made a perfect carbonara without scrambling the eggs so at least there’s that

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strawbrry 7 months

just took a delicious afternoon couch nap

parqbenj 8 months

looking through all the years of your queer upbringing, I wonder, what was the most important thing you had to lose in order to find yourself?

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studiokervo 7 months

I still don’t understand how people can get so good at Dominos ! yes im Caribbean, but I’m also an artist and all that counting and remembering is so out of my league.

pnklmnade 7 months

all roads lead back to you or however the saying goes i’d run into dead ends with nowhere to turn but home dirty knees, no carpet clean, from all my wilderness and now the pinot makes the hero seem so villainess - unfinished song

eyeofpsi 8 months

Gays, be honest: what part of gay culture do you participate in purely out of peer pressure?

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soupwaylee 7 months

my friends are saying shut up jennie just get in the car

bartosz 8 months

Friends have been asking me about my dating life a lot lately. And honestly haven’t been on a date in like 6 months. Is anyone else in dating-hibernation atm?

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milly 7 months

Big fan of how teenage girls engage with media

chavdar 7 months

Surely isolation is much worse than togetherness.

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pnklmnade 8 months

sweet apricot, tastes just like the love i had spread it on like paint, under the sun with his hands in my back pockets isn’t this what it’s all about.

sierramichhh 8 months

Got two more inches of snow this morning but shes melting already!

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mubeen 7 months

All handsome men live on this app I reckon

tgcowles 7 months

how do y’all deal with the bloating from creatine? took a week off for vacation and felt ✨ SNATCHED ✨

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sierramichhh 8 months

How lucky am I to have a zoo with happy dancing elephants above my apartment 😍😍 (my neighbors running nightly marathons in their 600sqft studio)

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presley 7 months

How it’s going on Friday? 🌞

sierramichhh 8 months

Any scalp psoriasis baddies out there bc my head is on FIRE

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sailormars 7 months

A journey to self fulfillment. I’ve started this journey with the essential thing that’s been given… life. Each one of us has a life. Yet we live as if it wasn’t ours but someone else’s, we trade self love for external validation, acceptance for comparison, and as we move towards adulthood life looks gloomy. Shame has taken over you, your bills terrify you, you avoid intimacy and you dilute your worth for 10 minutes of physical connection with someone you barely know. We are taught that love somehow it’s found outside of us, when truly our capacity to love is found within. You expect people to love you, to admire you, to be there for you, and without realizing you have become a vampire of yourself and your life. You drain your life dwelling in the debt not financial, but emotional. You think people owe you connection, people owe you relationships, you think your parents owe you love. When in fact, no one owes anyone anything, we give what we have. You wake up one day, life has gone by, and instead of shaming yourself you realize that this is your life. You can change it, you don’t owe anyone anything and you can find fulfillment in yourself.

castle 7 months

tell me how what i can do to not be the eye of the storm

annocha 8 months

I take days off at work for: My period Mental health My hair It ain’t always about a vacation but time for me in the week.

pnklmnade 7 months

my dreams are lucid, as were the memories and now i’m the age you were when you told me you loved me drunk on your bedroom floor, i drove an hour to exist with you in.

saochiang 8 months

Got pink eye, the doctor told me to take two days off from work. Normally I’d be annoyed because bills need to be paid and trying to save. But with the amount of stress I’ve been put under for the past several weeks from work, I’ll gladly take the extra two days off…

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strawbrry 7 months

(yet another) horrible day in the news 😭 trans friends in Kansas, the US, and everywhere — I stand with you!!!!!!!! evil, fuck ass lawmakers will never take away your humanity and your power, try as they might.

lav 8 months

Ok but what if I don’t want a job? Why can’t I just make art? Why can’t I just lounge around and think, and imagine and enjoy the rain outside my window? The system is broken and something has to change or I’m gonna lose my mind.

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aquaalaa 7 months

I’m in the process of a new era of me. I feel like I’ve only been giving the world 50% of myself times to make it 100.

sierramichhh 8 months

THIS SHIT BEEN UPGRADED TO A BLIZZARD?????? 20INCHES??????

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strawbrry 8 months

sick and bed-ridden so The Boyfriend season 2 is my full-time job 🫡

freitas 7 months

You’ll be Proud of That skin Full of Scars

lav 8 months

If you’re In your early 30s, what’s ur dating range? I feel like 27 and below is too young no?

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byjoshjames 8 months

Experience with being in a thrupple? Or a polyamorous relationship? I wanna hear from you!

zander 7 months

this gym life might kill me..but I love it

paul_apolinario 7 months

Good karma, my aesthetic (aesthetic) Keep my conscience clear that's why I'm so magnetic Manifest it (yeah), I finessed it (I finessed it) Take my pen and write some love letters to Heaven

alvo 7 months

What’s the thing you dream about spending your time doing?

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avatar.isaac 7 months

you got a big dump truck and a lovely heart you got ysl kicks and a red birthmark

fetofatigado 7 months

Heyy, I’m looking for dramatic yet deep and meaningful videoclips like lady gaga’s MARRY THE NIGHT masterpiece. Any recs?

sierramichhh 7 months

My food influencer friend is coming to town tomorrow I gotta get my nails ready for any features

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alextep 8 months

To think we’re all disposable – is beauty a sustainable currency in relationships?

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michenoble 8 months

A guy I work with called me “Queen Bitch” thinking it was an insult… little does he know

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milly 7 months

Lmaoo I was just about to comment the artist name on someone here that had posted a drawing with “credit unknown” and my phone refreshed the page somehow hahahahaha I’m never gonna find that shit again bro

marrtin 8 months

Is there a beatmaker or a producer to help me out with a musical project… cuz im struggling a bit rn🧍

hijodelapistola 7 months

I am truly trying to like this app but somehow it feels a lot more “curated” towards “perfection” it feels like pandering to the same toxic beauty standards it claims other apps have. It’s giving mean L.A. Gay.

thotanist 7 months

I just knewwww I hated Timmy chalamoo for a good reason 😤

milly 7 months

I need you to understand I’ve recently ended up on a side of TikTok that is ship edits of clavicular and cookieking tagged with #yaoi

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