zayn 7 months

back to the falaheen mode

mralastairjames 8 months

I wish I had the confidence/delusion of the man in the gym pretending he’s boxing and has a skipping rope. Surely it’d be easier to actually box and actually use a skipping rope… 🤷‍♂️

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halfpersianboy 8 months

🗣️ speaking on my first co-organised demonstration tomorrow 💚🤍❤️‍🩹 staying loud for my fellow humans in iran - in their fight for dignity, freedom and democracy

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maxixix 8 months

sarah jessica parker is my university graduation speaker so somebody pass me a GODDAMN cosmopolitan

uglyohlio 8 months

guys how do i go from a girl’s gay to a gay’s gay T-T send help.

mostlyval 7 months

u people i’m in DIRE need of a lobotomy. i don’t wish to perceive anymore. perceiven’t, if you will.

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leoiswho 8 months

Sometimes I get sad when men don’t like that I’m fem, but I always remind myself that the ones who like fem, REALLY like fem

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sierramichhh 8 months

What desserts yall like? Im bored of my usual sweet treats

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superdupersimon 7 months

no bc people can be really mean to the hot popular girl ( me) sometimes 😞

lax 7 months

604 I just came across some techno house music and remembered how much I enjoyed it… hmm thinking of going for one sometime

sampson 8 months

Witches - I’m moving into a space with a mirrored wardrobe in the bedroom 😒 does anyone have recs on how to cover it?

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amethystfire 7 months

Happy International Women’s Day! 💕

avatar.isaac 8 months

one of the gayest things i’ve done is give my thong to my ex so he can hold it in his purse for me

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sierramichhh 8 months

Pimple in my ear turning into a whole sore throat and jaw pain is insane

jebyrne 7 months

Rainy Thursday is definitely my comfort weather! Perfect day for Scream 7 Early Screening!

sierramichhh 7 months

I love being my own moodboard

dsardinha 7 months

lowk i wanna go out so bad

damianb 7 months

Remember, happiness is a choice and positivity is a mind set.

caahmills 8 months

Despite the horrors in life we still have tiramisu and Cicaplast

sailormars 7 months

Reminder for all the people out there… After 2 years tech holds no value in the market. Apple laptops hold some of their value, windows doesn’t.

sailormars 7 months

Serious question, do you feel comfortable being beautiful?

sierramichhh 8 months

I work from 10am-6pm (really 12pm to 6pm) and then get ready/commute/gym from 6pm-12am every weekday…….im losing my fucking mind

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sierramichhh 8 months

Admist the news that one of my personal faves pat mcgrath labs is indeed here to stay, I need the girlies to understand that not every brand is for the everyday. Artistry-first brands are still very much needed, respected, and beloved

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oregano 8 months

popp🤪rs don’t hit anymore. Are there any studies showing amyl, isobutyl, etc… nitrate(s) building tolerance?

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lax 8 months

608 Got a little too enthusiastic talking to a cute guy and now reeling myself in a bit to calm myself down

marygladyshevaa 7 months

when someone become your sunshine, all of a sudden your life becomes lighter

leo.nardo.r 7 months

Some people are WAY to performative for what I can handle

highinthepark 8 months

Love, Is a bright star, Glowing in far Southern skies. Look too hard, And its burning flame,Will always hurt your eyes. This one is for those of us who love love but are familiar with its thorns. Langston Hughes

jota 8 months

A never-eeeeeeeeeending midniiiiight suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

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hmln_leo 8 months

New obsession for practicing French is this québécois queer/lesbian podcast I can’t with their accents 😭

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locke-e 8 months

The best days aren’t always photographed They’re the ones we recall when times are tough They’re the ones that retell memory I am happy to share, The simplest of moments. Ones unbothered from the day to day The times we can rest and restore Make even the smallest thing enjoyable.

strawbrry 8 months

this season of Love is Blind should be called: “Love” is Diabolical

sirkooala 8 months

Hot take (but not really): Dating apps do not work for people who don’t look like the standard. Appearances headline, personality and worth don’t. Go to spaces that will actually hold you in your entirety. ❤️

momsluvjoe 8 months

hey everyone I’d like to formerly announce that I am going to become a DJ as a part of my 12-step performative male program. Keep your eyes pooped

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beniguess 8 months

Okie little gay people in my phone 🫵👁️👁️ Is it embarrassing to have a monogamous relationship? Or is it a badge of honour? I’m writing a cheeky opinion piece and I wanna know what we think ;)

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sierramichhh 8 months

Denma just turns more and more super villian everyday

luizmessora 7 months

If it's your calling, it will keep calling. 💫

derickseng 8 months

How do you tell someone they’re attractive/handsome and actually get a response? I feel like most men leave you on ‘read’ and don’t know how to say thank you. What are your thoughts?

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josepaw 7 months

“ What is this earth without art? Just a rock”

chandan 8 months

What y’all are doing to find some dates ? Hinge has become the new Grindr so that’s out And grindr is,well that, so im out

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rafaxnew 7 months

I think there is a lot of dissatisfaction in find out how big is the responsibility and how meaningless is the outcome.

sierramichhh 8 months

I love how everyone just brings extra fixins to kbbq😭😭

strawbrry 7 months

eye infection + 2 grant rejections in one day let’s go girls 💅

lumpia 7 months

Ai que delícia o verão

sailormars 8 months

We are creating this

byjoshjames 8 months

If you're participating in Valentine's Day, what does that look like?

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sierramichhh 8 months

They caught our good brother in christ on the outskirts of mar a lago😩😩

marlowe-f 7 months

Submit your poetry, art, photography, and essays. Do it.

catdad 8 months

Y’all are pretty. But what I really need is more cat pics plsthx

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zayn 7 months

are you satisfied with an average life? do i need to lie to make my way in life? i swear, marina gotta be on every overachiever’s playlist

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