onlyfans.scotty 4 months

Did you know that there is a tunnel under ocean blvd?! :O

deepdrew 4 months

If you could start this year over, what is one thing you would pay more attention to?

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allmyfriendsaresuperheroes 4 months

Loved the latest book I read with my collective bookclub - ‘Permafrost’ by Eva Baltasar 🫶🏻

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halfpersianboy 4 months

natural intelligence >>> artificial intelligence

azzula 4 months

Any DJs around?🕺😎 let’s connect?

udonomii 4 months

Four tet dropped an hour ago and 😮‍💨

tgcowles 4 months

finally got my mom to agree to give me her pearl jewelry!

efrainj 4 months

Just beginning another week

juancolco 4 months

Hola buenas noches soy venezolano viviendo en New York como están chicos ?Hello, good evening, I'm Venezuelan living in New York, how are you guys?

avatar.isaac 4 months

Can we bring back opossums I don’t want lymes disease

filo-mata 4 months

Geographies of Distance: Remembering Home not as a stable structure but as an idea continually remade in response to change.

kyemack 4 months

Rewatching The Nanny. Fran Fine has always been THAT girl. The body! The fashion! The humour! icon.

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udonomii 4 months

Coordinating my first food pop up at my friend’s wine bar. Super excited. Already have a supper club moment lined up for after too.

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milly 4 months

Once someone said “who’s your favourite Buffy character and why is Riley ?” and I dead set have never been so offended in my LIFE ! Obviously it’s Willow. Do I look fucking stupid and boring and also straight ? Rude as hell.

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izzzz 4 months

This freeze slide on gel saved my life right now in this heat🧊

erawn 4 months

Pinch meee I just met Troye Sivan at the gym

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petros_sp 4 months

Just finished Star Trek: The Next Generation after Voyager & DS9. Which series do you recommend to watch next?

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die 4 months

Who’s excited for House of the Dragon season 3 tonight? 🙋🏻‍♂️

milly 4 months

The other week I asked a customer how much they needed to buy of something and they genuinely whipped out their phone and went “hi chat, how much do I need?” Like fucking ChatGPT doesn’t know fuck. You’re genuinely cooked cunt.

dan96 4 months

Y’all have been sleeping on Haute & Freddy. SERIOUSLY.

egosumeric 4 months

Random thought: I would 100% just be friends with someone because of their dog.

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dylpics 4 months

My gym bud always pushes me to go on Fridays. Do people go to the gym on Fridays? 💪🏋️🧐

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mikevi 4 months

Hows this for weird info? Humans have been useing Kerosene since the 9th century. So they were useing liquid kerosene fuel during the dark ages, the 18th century. Aircraft grade fuel, is liturally just Super refined kerosene.

southerncowrie 4 months

So all the Greek/Roman gods were just cruising and petty. Like they would just become humans “to be amongst us” but end up sleeping with someone almost everytime or getting their lick back on someone

soupwaylee 4 months

there must be a reason why warrior and worrier sound so similarly

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joshuavilorio 4 months

Somebody’s making money off my problems

tweethi.fit 4 months

Sometimes I wonder if I should just move back home to Brazil. I miss home

critical.spike 4 months

Did you guys notice that I’m a really smiley person?

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badwolf_ 4 months

me 🤝🏽 easily befriending middle aged men at work

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tomasderico 4 months

It’s door dash…not “let me walk out my apartment, and meet you at the parking lot….” Don’t pmo…and yes I have directions on how to properly get to my apartment and have the “drop off at door” option…😒😒

goodtilltomorrow 4 months

Why is it so hard to make new friends in your 30s?

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ableuindy 4 months

Growth is realizing that someone who seemingly checked all the boxes for you, is sometimes not meant for you. Hard lesson, but one I’m realizing more everyday 😣

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lordmmo 4 months

this reminds me of reddit and therefore everything said and done is a joke 😱 or is it 😏

dan96 4 months

How many more lessons must I accept from the universe? Met another fascinating stranger and talked for an hour. Another straight man, again. Which in all fairness is totally fine! I’d be a hypocrite if I said it wasn’t okay. You love who you love. Heck, there’s nothing wrong with new friends. I love meeting new people. But just ONCE can the universe toss me a bone and let me meet that amazing, interesting person, and have them be gay (and single!)? Am I expecting too much?

milly 4 months

Genuinely not sure if I look younger than I am or it’s just most people younger than me have zero concept of age. Because so many fkn people have told me they assumed I was ~23

rwri 4 months

I have a spare ticket to Olivia Dean at the O2 this Thursday is anyone wants to join 🤪

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tofupuffpoof 4 months

surgery again tmrw i’m scaredddd

peperonny 4 months

Te juro que me voy a escapar y que si me atrapan que sea a tu lado.

dlara95 4 months

I hate dating sites these men don’t put any effort into their replies just one word while I’m asking them questions like damn why match with me 😞🫠

chrissjacqq 4 months

Been playing Tomodachi life everyday, and I’ve made at least 20 Mii’s designed, named and personalized to be like characters from my favorite shows! Even a few of my favorite drag queens! I’m having so much fun!!! 😍🥰🫶🏻

dlara95 4 months

Anyone else watch Half Man on HBO? I need happy recommendations after that 🫠

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guel 4 months

be honest, you are on collective for: a) friends b) the views c) dates d) validation e) Tumblr meets Grindr vibes f) no idea

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dillon 4 months

Baby, where the hell is my husband?

marco 4 months

I really thought “Backrooms” was meant to be queer cinema. Like, if you pointed a gun to my head and asked me the plot is.. I’d have said “idk something gay” 😖😖 lolllll

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eliolio 4 months

The pro of living in taiwan is that u can eat as many mangoes as u want 🤤🤤

p.ierre 4 months

OH MY GAY GOD! HAPPY PRIDE BABES 🏳️‍🌈

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adsonaquino 4 months

Genuine question.: Do you guys think that fit/“hot” guys feels superior than other people? I was thinking about that on Primavera S. Is this me being unconsciously jealous? 🤔

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aranha 4 months

Could someone explain to me the purpose of an elevator selfie? Am I missing out on something?

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milly 4 months

I grew up with Massive Attack, from the moment I was born. Probably before that too tbh. They’re my parent’s favourite band, as well as one of mine, and we’re going to see them together in a couple of months. I will probably cry. Which, while I’m here, there’s only a single song from them that I can not listen to. We had a family friend when I was young who was like an aunt to me, she also loved Massive Attack. When I was around 6 years old she was diagnosed with cancer and now heat miser always makes me think of seeing how sick she looked when I visited her in the hospital shortly before she died. I have to remove the song from every playlist and entirely refuse to ever play it. I’m not even really sure why the trauma is related to that track, from memory teardrop played at her funeral. I think it’s something to do with the heavy breathing on it.

donaldgmz 4 months

After seeing Ariana on Sunday, I can’t help but hope she’s doing good. I know we’re not supposed to judge, and I’m not, she’s just really thin. So i just hope she’s doing good.

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