theone 9 months

Stop watching stupid dance videos.

anselm 9 months

Gays/Bies: What is the worst quality in a man?

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charli_xcx 9 months

If we all get raptured tomorrow we should all meet up on the collective cloud xx

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choosinghappiness 9 months

⚠️ Beware of new people you meet/date/befriend who make you feel like what you have isn’t good enough and/or ‘could be better.’ 🙇🏼‍♂️ This is a subtle (yet potent) way to hijack your energy and even potentially destiny swap— that is if you believe in that typa stuff ofc. 👀 ⚠️

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anselm 9 months

Being apolitical in this day and age is certainly a (privileged) choice…

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jackrichy 9 months

Swiping right on tinder to guys with clothes I want to borrow 🤭

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rossichano 9 months

There is moustache you have my like🙂‍↕️✅

pdothall 9 months

“Grief reminds you of what mattered…” — Michell C. Clark

yourboyfred 9 months

poems i wrote as a teenager 1/? all the times i died inside with no place to run or hide all that time i was broken hearted cause my soul had long departed all the feelings not displayed and all the bad decisions made i kept on running never stopped always hoping i was the one you loved

kyemack 9 months

Would love recommendations on coffee makers! In the market for one, and overstimulated by options. 🙃

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theguysacha 9 months

How do you make friends in the gym? But not like in hook up way.

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calico 9 months

I appreciate those who are extra, and go the extra mile to to god knows where, because very few people hardly give an inch to us these days.

anselm 9 months

What’s your fav REAL HOUSEWIVES quote ?

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anselm 9 months

Queer men: What makes a guy really attractive?

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deniz 9 months

ready for a fairouz autumn

brad 9 months

I want nipple piercings cos they look hot under a shirt but my nipples are so sensitive that I’m scared to touch them.

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jaren 9 months

i really do think Selena Quintanilla would be up there with Beyoncé in another world

omar- 9 months

i need a gym advice, can you help me?

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kraynor98 9 months

Just signed up for an online queer speed dating halloween party! Can wait to go on a date in a onesie! 🎃🥳🍷👻❤️

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bernatt 9 months

for my fellow gays, which dating tips could you give me?? x

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uoneto 9 months

i’m growing attached to someone and i feel like i’m an animal being chased down for slaughter

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milly 9 months

Kinda fun the way it feels like I’m being stabbed with a dull blade and also bleeding out whenever I get my period. Something about being curled up on the floor for hours unable to move until you finally manage to gather the strength to get up long enough to wash blood out of your sheets.

tomasderico 9 months

Many have told me, ‘The way someone acts during and after a breakup shows who they truly are.’ You win some, you lose some. I’m just glad my body is finally regulating back to normal again.

alchemyg 9 months

If it’s make believe Why does it feel like a vow we’ll both uphold somehow?

alvarovgg 9 months

Need to trim my whole body but I’m super lazy about it

j_its_me 9 months

“The amazing Rudy” is hands down one of the best episodes of Bobs Burgers I’ve ever watched. It’s so cute, heartwarming and sad at the same time 🥲

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krislen 9 months

london collectors! do any of you have any recs for salons to bleach/dye hair? tysm

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cam-the-merch-man 9 months

Any tips for getting into photography?

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hmln_leo 9 months

I forgot that dutch ppl are kinda annoying 🥲🙂🤐

psychedelicprince 9 months

gaza has been without internet or any form of communication for two days now. an intentional blackout caused by israel to hide its final stages of the genocide.

melrose 9 months

What was the first Queer Spot you remember ever visiting?

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ableuindy 9 months

It’s nearing 11 pm. Anyone wanna chat?

clownpup 9 months

newly 21 and in the clurb tonight 🥳 life so good

eliaxelb 9 months

Please don’t identify with your body, you are not your body. See your body as a house you inhabit. If your body is a house you want to make sure that the house is in good nick. You're not going to throw parties all the time and not clean up after yourself. You're going to treat that house very well — but you can step outside of the house, because you are not that house that you're living in. You are not your body. You are not your senses and you are not your ego — if you step outside. You are consciousness — shift your perception.

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giotis-dort 9 months

What are your 🟢green and 🔴red flags?

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_mattepio_ 9 months

In need of a full body workout, Do you think that swimming would be helpful?

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anselm 9 months

Queers: What show are we watching rn?

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cam-the-merch-man 9 months

Today I’m carrying out my duty as the “token gay” at a hen party with 16 middle aged women. Wish me luck ✨

apollo_noir 9 months

I think I got love bombed and it low key fucked with my head.

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tony211 9 months

Hey I’d regret it if I didn’t tell you you have the kind of smile I’d chase after. Yours love 💘

jbroadwood 9 months

Hey guys, what supplements would people recommend for bottoming??

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juststeve 9 months

What do I gotta do to have the yaoi romance I’ve dreamt about in high school? lol

nm.alex_ 9 months

What are you guys doing for Halloween?

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li._.lura 9 months

People are just so mean sometimes n i’m like gurl how can you even, i like completely lose it on humanity n specifically on gay culture, like wtf bro how can u ppl be so heartless n stoned hearted i’m not your china doll n this is just lot for my innocent heart

dandan1 9 months

look at that horse, look at that horse, look at that horse 🐎 🎶🎶

axl 9 months

Weird how everything feels so exhausting at such a young age. There’s so many more years ahead of me but also feels so little. How silly it is to feel so left behind and also feel like I’m accomplishing things I didn’t even plan on doing years ago. Everyday I’m going through all the motions and counting my blessings so I don’t fall off the deep end. It all feels so strange.

aquaalaa 9 months

I need to go out and dance with some gay people

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luca995 9 months

Do you ever feel lonely? How do you cope with it?

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nekshad23 9 months

SF foodies, what’s your favorite pastry/dessert place right now?

lilian_vltgr 9 months

Who lost the Ariana Grande tickets war here !!? I need support

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