sierramichhh 6 months

The quinn app is holding me hostage 😩😩

lax 6 months

670 Going to another Christmas dinner, it is nice to know that I have people around that don’t want me to feel lonely this time of the year and I truly appreciate it… Still I am exhausted, I wanna lie down and play some games

ilanzo333 6 months

i wanna kiss a boy. 🫥

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milly 6 months

People finding out I’ve never been in any kind of relationship is genuinely so fucking humiliating. It’s something that is just such a non issue to me but they’ll IMMEDIATELY start treating me like a child.

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mikevi 6 months

One Verry suprising side benefit Ive been gettin from this app is, slightly more confidence with my body image! I see other guys posting pictures with similar body types to me, BUT with Much much more confidence. And its like, damn, why or what am I worried about?

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0beron_0restes 6 months

I don’t understand people who think eternal life would be a curse. I’d rather stay on this awful planet indefinitely than prepare for eternal nothingness or maybe something worse

marco 6 months

When does confidence become delusion?

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justjanth 6 months

merry christmas ya filthy animals

marcelek 6 months

Hello! What is your favorite present you ever received? Christmas topic again 🎄🥰 Mine was a hot wheels set with an accelerator- even though I’m was never a car boy 🤠

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chrisgardener 6 months

Does anyone else hate receiving Christmas cards? I get such joy putting them through a shredder on Christmas Day to finally be rid of them…

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korster 6 months

Happy New Year, everyone! I genuinely wish you all the best and most prosperous New Year. May you be blessed with peace, love, and happiness.

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godson 6 months

Any Apex Legends or Minecraft players here?

muffyn 6 months

Happy New Years to everyone, hopefully you achieve those goals, meet new people, and become successful in every aspect of your lives, give good the way you want it 🩷🫶🏼💅

tofubrat 6 months

Teenage drama shows that have queer representation rlly warm my heart in a healing kind of way. I wish they existed when I watched TV as a kid

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alvaroreinoso 6 months

I got obsessed with The Real Housewives of Potomac. I think it’s so underrated, but the drama is givinggggg!

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sunshinee 6 months

I am the luckiest.

omarisims 6 months

I’m running toward the life I asked for, but my feet feel heavy with doubt. Every dream I chase turns around and asks me why I don’t believe in myself yet. I sit alone with all this wanting— wanting to be seen, wanting to feel enough without proving it first. Some days I swear I’m close, other days I feel like the distance itself. Still, I wake up reaching, because even frustrated, even tired, this hope in me refuses to leave. And how I’d love it so— to arrive without apologizing for the time it took me to believe I was worthy of the dream the whole time.

zayuh 6 months

happy new years to all my hottie mutuals on here ily 🫶

zander 6 months

we must remain whimsical to survive the horrors of this world

boszaloha 6 months

📆This year is coming to an end, and somehow, we made it through. There were hard days, quiet loneliness, moments of sadness and self-doubt. But we’re still here. And for that alone, we deserve to be proud. Life wasn’t easy—but we survived it. And that makes us incredibly strong.✌🏻💪🏻

bryan-tino 6 months

I ended a 4 year relationship this year and ironically when I first met that person, I knew we wouldn’t last forever. In the back of my head i knew this day would come. Do i feel like i wasted 4 years? No. We had some incredible fun along the way but growing incompatibilities further made the break up easier in a way. No hurt, no remorse just letting go.

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paolosal97 6 months

Nicki minaj becoming MAGA is my last disappointment of 2025.

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zayn 6 months

looking back at my pics, am i a shape shifter for real

itsjacobedmonds 6 months

There are so many beautiful boys everywhere. ☺️

jjsjusthere 6 months

BingeWatched heated rivalry Worst idea ever CRIED

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jamie98 6 months

Do I get another tattoo? If so what?

helloitsgui 6 months

we should totally bring back the blogs

jkadz 6 months

auld lang syne to those who celebrate

marcelek 6 months

Hey everybody! 🎟️ What’s your best self-care Sunday morning routine? I’m curious if I could steal some of your ideas for myself 🐣

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avatar.isaac 6 months

the odd thing is that the Protestant church is a child of divorce

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harmsy2 6 months

Need a man to love me as much as Fruma Sarah loved her pearls

jbenjamin 6 months

Okay I need at least two episodes explaining why Kip the barista is just as jacked as the professional hockey players AND why everyone in Heated Rivalry exclusively wears black boxer briefs!! Am I thinking too hard about this?!

datboi_ash 6 months

I still haven’t been able to watch ep 5 of heated rivalry 😭😭😭

lax 6 months

662 Getting back to routine after all these break and holiday is gonna be tough That said, went for the usual rings classes and managed to pull some aerial aerobics off

amz 6 months

Happy New Year! Wishing you all the best for 2026. 🎉

tarbarsam 6 months

I bought sneakers. Burgundy ones. I told myself I should buy grey — sensible, neutral, “everyday.” But deep down, I wanted the burgundy. So I got them. For two days I wore them, and they hurt like hell. I thought, aha, that’s what I get for wanting something bold. Should’ve gone with grey. And then it hit me — the problem wasn’t the colour. The problem was the size. Life is like that, isn’t it? We think it’s about choosing grey or burgundy, when all along it’s about finding what truly fits

lax 6 months

661 Can’t believe today is the last day of 2025…

beck-oncall 6 months

officially signed with a fitness team that is specifically for Queer trans masc folks - I’m so locked in and ready to look how I always wanted to 🥳 My coach is my twin fr I enjoyed every second I talked to him

psaltair 6 months

i love when gym crush walks in when i’m getting tired bc it’s like i’m doing this for you now honey

alvaroreinoso 6 months

Anyone got an extra ticket for Ariana Grande in London? 😪

lax 6 months

671 Went to my sister in law’s for a Christmas dinner, it was nice but i ended up so exhausted from all the moving around through the day

lax 6 months

674 I think we’re all a little afraid to let anyone new come into our lives because it can change things in ways we can’t predict…yet we all crave new connections and get excited by them.. Stepping outside of comfort zone takes courage

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jkuptwo2 6 months

I don’t chase chemistry. I wait for mutual curiosity.

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azam 6 months

If you don’t choose me, I won’t choose you. It’s easy, don’t fall in love with people for whom you are not a priority. Period

xndrxs 6 months

sometimes I forget how fucking pretty I am

azam 6 months

oscarspixels 6 months

“I’m coming to the cottage”

chrisgardener 6 months

You never know the pain someone is hiding behind a smile, sometimes it’s easier to say I’m fine and carry on than to admit the truth.

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lax 6 months

672 Kinda knowingly did the mistake of going somewhere cheap to cut my back and sides, cause it was starting to bother me and I didn’t wanted to look messy for the holidays Oh well, at least my hair grows rather fast

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boszaloha 6 months

📆“Before December comes to an end” it reminds us that everything happens for a reason. Take the moments of happiness as positive energy. See the moments of discomfort as lessons to learn from. When the final month of the year passes, we realize that we’ve grown — one more year, one more step forward.✌🏻💕 Cr. The Black Book of MANIFEST

fridi105 6 months

To my bilingual friends: What have you found is the best way to learn a new language? I’ve been doing Duolingo daily just to do something with no financial investment. But, I’d like to invest in something that has better results. Is there a program that you found helpful, in person classes etc. Keep in mind, I only speak English. I’d love to move to another country for a few months and pick things up but that’s not an option yet. 😌

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unboxitabe 6 months

I love and hate winter Pros: 1. Cute Christmas decor 2. The Holidays 3. Snowmen 4. The aesthetic Cons: 1.Gloomy weather 2. Seasonal Depression 3.nasty funks 4. Being the only person single at the holiday party

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