gius3pp 5 months

How do you get over someone you have incredibly strong feelings for and can’t stop thinking about but they don’t feel the same? 😬

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southerncowrie 5 months

Just saw these parents taking turns answering their 3 year olds million questions, warmed my heart.

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sailormars 4 months

Powered by style and badassery

nikolai 5 months

Gays, I want your help. So you’re all here taking photos like you were born with the camera. But how do you actually learn how to take aesthetic and quality pictures? Like, mine all seem to be too normal. But how do you actually learn how to take good photographs? What camera settings do you use or what apps? I wanna push my blog further but I feel like it’s a bit too ordinary.

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shiro 4 months

he had me at “I have an RTX 5090”

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damon. 4 months

the heart is heavy but it's mine to carry

locke-e 4 months

Where do I Begin? If my words sheltered your heart, And my art blinded the world. Couldn’t we stay this way, Never giving more than we choose. Bringing back the tears in my eyes, And the smile I painfully denied. It isn’t each rose but the very last petal, It shouldn’t be the last straw just the first sip. I couldn’t bare the tall tales, But I knew it would be a quick end.

emm 4 months

hi guys it’s been awhile

domabouttown 5 months

What are you most proud of in your life?

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adriant 5 months

How do you handle constant rejection within the gay community, especially on dating apps? It feels impossible to even get past a ”hello” with most people nowadays. It’s kinda hard not taking it personally, at the same time I don’t bother chatting with people I’m not interested in so I kinda feel like a hypocrite, lol. Not really a question or a point, just a reflection.

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kingbabyp 4 months

i think i’m doing gay wrong?

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sierramichhh 4 months

Clocking now that the newest microtrend will be “hannah montana core”

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isaiahgonz 5 months

What dating apps is everyone using/Favorites these days? Thinking about getting back on them but……spooky 🫣

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nanna 4 months

which is the most extroverted fruit among them all and why is it the banana?

eliolio 4 months

I know it’s a bit exaggerating but i decided to call the posting shit post a hit post

nanna 4 months

in love with the tumblr vibe we have going on here

lone_wanderer 5 months

Thoughts on the “girl’s gay” vs “gay’s gay” discussion? Personally I’m a “gay’s gay” myself so I’d love to hear from the other side.

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lucienzera 5 months

I’m curious, what are your hobbies?

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aspn 4 months

This summer I’m making my best effort to take in every moment, revel in the memories that are being created. The world has felt so disconnected to me over the course of the last few years & I’m yearning for the joy that used to come so naturally. Does anyone else relate, especially since the pandemic?

domabouttown 5 months

How many inter generational friendships with non-family members do you have?

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goodbadboy 5 months

I just had a meaningful chat on Grindr with a guy. Not only were we flirty, open, and honest, but we also shared childhood stories, exchanged voice notes, and created a tragic storyline where we’ve secretly been in love with each other our whole lives but never told one another. Am I breaking the system???

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paul_apolinario 4 months

If I flirt with you, please cooperate

carlos222 4 months

en esta vida todo viene y va y luego nada es para tanto y cuando el mundo se vaya a acabar lo observaré tomando algo

domabouttown 5 months

What gives your life meaning?

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sierramichhh 4 months

No bc why does your vape need to tell you your horoscope…it gets to a point

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goodbadboy 5 months

When he’s putting too much effort into our first date, I can’t help but wonder if there’s something about him I don’t know yet—something he’s compensating for with all this extra effort. I’d be happy to be wrong.

mostlyval 4 months

there are few things i hate more than preparing a CV. EW

donovan.dona 4 months

you can't fuck the future if the future is fucking you

cocosha 5 months

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elierg 5 months

Flirting is so hard, a guy stopped replying to me just because I didn't like horror movies 🤷🏻‍♂️❓🤨

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vctor 4 months

You know it’s a good one when it makes you cry at the beginning. The book.

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fetofatigado 5 months

A guy told me I’m his type but my hair can be a turn off for him. Is long hair a turn off for you?

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callthemzaddy 4 months

any veteran bottoms that have become fully fledged tops or some other position out there?

maxrhys 5 months

Fresh out of a relationship, rather then staying depressed missing him I made this to make friends :)

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udonomii 5 months

We're all so fucking pretty. Carry on

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axl 5 months

I know I’m in trouble when the person I’ve been hanging out with who doesn’t wear cologne or any scents smell good to me. That’s when I know to block their number.

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ileo 4 months

Let's talk, DM me. 🔥

studiokervo 4 months

Holy shxt u guys, Kanye’s Bully album is good AF 🤯

bey.twink 5 months

What is the best relationship advice you have ever gotten? 🤔

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avatar.isaac 5 months

Ice in the airports = DEI hires

donovan.dona 4 months

si pagar no es poseer, piratear no es robar.

babyboy 5 months

applying for jobs is exhausting. is anyone looking for an organised, creative twink with an eye for detail and a bachelor’s in psychology and lots of experience working with people? 👼🏼👼🏼👼🏼

p.ierre 5 months

One thing I admire about the people on this app is how creative and expressive you all are. I mean including myself obviously, but without even searching for it, there are so many artists in our community and it makes me so happy

alvarovgg 4 months

I’ve not been here for 3 months so my feed is showing me almost every pic from yall!! In case you were wondering why so many likes haha

jamtun 5 months

I can’t stop fighting & running and it’s keeping me alive but killing me too

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domabouttown 5 months

Is physical attraction essential at the start, or can it grow later?

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eglanger18 4 months

Opinions on what ends up happening to people with xenophobic beliefs?

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milly 4 months

I love being small in an infinite and unrelenting universe. A meaningless speck in the grand scheme of time. Everything matters to me but I mean nothing to everything.

callthemzaddy 5 months

björk has the voice of a pussywillow opening

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