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I have the hottest take I wanna share . I believe certain personality traits are attached to different facial features. Like you ever seen two people that look alike, and act alike too ? But have no relation to one another ? I don’t think that’s a coincidence. I’m pretty unsure if astrology is tied to it somehow. I’m always hearing how “Gemini Venus’ always have this chin” or pisces moons all have “this” gaze..etc
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Free bleeding for vday<3 💋🌹💃🏾🔻❤️‍🔥
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You mean all this time we could have been friends?
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does everyone really have a morning and nighttime routine or am I just neurodivergent and my life is just that chaotic
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Would love to get advice from a good therapist but I don’t have that extra money so I guess calling my coked out friend will have to do
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I bought a new scented candle at the weekend and had it lit when I was watching Heated Rivalry. I just lit it again and my heart fluttered when I smelt it. That programme has changed my brain chemistry.
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bruh when will i get my PT Visa?? 👹
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I keep having panic attacks about my new job every few hours. I’m approaching my second psychologist appointment and I know he’s just going to give me strategies to make it more manageable but I just want to quit. I know what I want to do but everyone around me keeps telling me to stick it out because it’s only been 2 weeks.
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first date of the year tonight… kinda nervous 🌀
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For hours now this old song has held me captive, looping like a half-remembered dream I refuse to wake from. Each time his voice returns it carries the same quiet ache, soft, impossible, threading through the years that have passed without him knowing. God, how it still finds me in the same shadowed corners of the heart, enchanting, wounding, all at once, as though no time has passed at all, and yet everything has.
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went to a party got asked what I did for a living and said I was a mime and never felt more validated when everyone gasped in delight
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Just saw the trailer for real housewives of rhode island and im SCARED
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Which celebrity death really hit you hard?
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how does one ever find the time to digitally declutter? my storage is always maxed BOOTS
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How do you guys feel about men wearing dresses?
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Sucker for a cute smile
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Starting from scratch working out, any tips ? 😃
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I want to grow old with someone. I want us to look back and say “damn, we did that sh*t”
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I don’t think one can just “be” or “stay as” friends with someone who is still deeply inlove with you. Gotta let them go for both your own good.
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Hey queens just to let you know that being gay is inherently being political. The reason why society has accepted us for who we are is because of the people who fought to give us the right and freedom to live how we want. Hope this helps 😘
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If you are new to this app and don’t know how to use it: Treat it like tumblr. You have your sad girls, hotties, 9-5ers, mild spicy content and all the in-between. Just share what feels meaningful to you, commenting on other people’s posts helps you build community. 🎻🤍 Thank you @cal for creating the space.
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Anyone try this fitbod app? Im curious….
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Any vegans on here? 🐣🧡
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I’m your renaissance.
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I just wanna stay in bed and cuddle with my puppy 😩
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Sometimes I feel like I’m posting into the void here and I can’t decide if that’s a good or bad thing
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Why do I hit all the best sleeping positions when its time to get up
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Im so done with men
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Great ass, impressive abs, huge biceps but what’s your political affiliation? How do you feel about modern concentration camps in the US right now? What are your thoughts on trafficking of children? Murder of innocent people? Genocides? Destruction of the planet? What are your deep feelings about the injustices of this world? Are you still blinded by vanity? How are you not loosing your mind?
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Just saw another baddie in the wild with 22222 as her passcode…. Is that a young ho thing?🤣
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How are you using social media these days? Posting, scrolling, DMing, deleting?
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I don’t get it.
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I just met David Arquette, you’re right remember him as Dewey from the scream movie franchise. He was so nice! It’s so weird randomly meeting someone you had a crush on when you were little.
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I’ve been in the makeup/skincare space (as an artist, MUA, salesperson, brand educator) for 10+ years—what beauty questions do yall have?
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Hi guys! I’m looking for graduates from the MA fashion at Central Saint Martins and the MA Fashion Design Technology at London College of Fashion. Any info about how to contact alumni groups or similar would be useful too! Tysm 💖
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Who’s watching the Olympic opening ceremony??
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Open Collective just before going to the gym is the best tips I can give you (so amazing athletic guy’s here 🤯)
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Does anyone else have an obvious egg or closet case in thier family.. like the closet is glass but they’re just bigoted a project?
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This thinking must be undone. Julia Cameron
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Dangerous idea of the day: should I make an OF? 🌚 Haha
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waking up, startled from a nightmare at 5 am. Jolted into writing. It’s one of those mornings where questions do not have answers. silence echos in their wake.
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I do miss pouring my thoughts out on text based social media and just reposting stuff, this feels like a tumblr revival but who knows..
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Idk how to explain it, but to me, Lewis Capaldi and Alex Warren sound like straight music
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No shadeee but why are the wlw’s always under 5’5
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Anyone plays D&D here? If yes, can you teach me how to play? I wanna play it too
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Now would it be extra of me to get a second vanity table but smaller….🙂‍↕️
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I'm not always proud of my country, but Italy did a great job yesterday with the opening ceremony of the Olympics. When we want we know how to be good.
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This new wave of Republican gays has been incredibly heartbreaking to witness as a queer person who had to escape a genocide as a child, and come to this country for some peace. Only to reach age 30 and watch my comrades and coworkers and neighbors who are all minorities, slowly turn into bootlicking republicans who suck up to the rich white cis straight man. I don’t know who to feel safe around anymore. It’s not just straight white people who want to erase US, this incel shit has rotted the brains of even minorities.
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life’s better when you kiss boys
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anyone wanna help me out with „dating“? I’m TIRED.
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Apologies to everyone I have invited to this app for the unfortunate lack of depth. I am muscle blind, cannot see them.
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624 Spend the day by myself reading a book at the Heath… It was very tranquil and peaceful… much needed reading which I haven’t had that in a long time.
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In PR week after next week for vacation! Any tips, or Collectives up for meeting?!
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For those who’ve been in long-term relationships, what was it like to open yourself up to love again afterward?
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