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GET THEM BANNED … oh, now I’m PISSED…
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I just wanna stay in bed and cuddle with my puppy 😩
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Strawberry is the best flavor of ice cream… and no chocolate tastes terrible…
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My tattoo artist called me a ‘real tough cookie’ the other day 🥺
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Everytime I hear “Les Fleurs” by Minnie Riperton it feels like rebirth during the spring equinox. It’s the song that plays when the underdog is finally the champion. Like everything I want and need is finally reaching me. Feeling light, free and content. It feels like California sun on my skin.
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And just like that… Jill Zarin was FIRED😌🤭😝🥰
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Saw a group of teens hop on the last train carriage so they could hang off the back. Was never me, but weirdly nostalgic to see. Glad kids are still on their bullshit
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Year of the bush.
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Tyla is our next Gen Z pop star…✨
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You mean all this time we could have been friends?
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can't find a job, I wonder if the zoo is looking for a GOAT
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I want to get into voice acting. How do I do that? Should I do audio books, maybe radio? Everyone Ive met since I was 14 has said so… should I finally act on it. Let me know if you want to hear my voice.
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Starting from scratch working out, any tips ? 😃
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I just realized I am quite materialistic maybe bc my mom's apologies were clothes or art supplies
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Anyone try this fitbod app? Im curious….
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Free bleeding for vday<3 💋🌹💃🏾🔻❤️‍🔥
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I keep having panic attacks about my new job every few hours. I’m approaching my second psychologist appointment and I know he’s just going to give me strategies to make it more manageable but I just want to quit. I know what I want to do but everyone around me keeps telling me to stick it out because it’s only been 2 weeks.
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expanding my physical media collection, anyone have cassette player/walkman recs? (old tech preferred) ▶︎•၊၊||၊|။|||||။၊|။•
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Just saw the trailer for real housewives of rhode island and im SCARED
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I don’t think one can just “be” or “stay as” friends with someone who is still deeply inlove with you. Gotta let them go for both your own good.
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For hours now this old song has held me captive, looping like a half-remembered dream I refuse to wake from. Each time his voice returns it carries the same quiet ache, soft, impossible, threading through the years that have passed without him knowing. God, how it still finds me in the same shadowed corners of the heart, enchanting, wounding, all at once, as though no time has passed at all, and yet everything has.
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how does one ever find the time to digitally declutter? my storage is always maxed BOOTS
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Just saw another baddie in the wild with 22222 as her passcode…. Is that a young ho thing?🤣
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Hol on im tryna see sum rq
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Sucker for a cute smile
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Remember folks, eye cream works on your lips!! I like to layer it under lip balm for extra hydration in colder times
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I’m your renaissance.
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does everyone really have a morning and nighttime routine or am I just neurodivergent and my life is just that chaotic
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I have the hottest take I wanna share . I believe certain personality traits are attached to different facial features. Like you ever seen two people that look alike, and act alike too ? But have no relation to one another ? I don’t think that’s a coincidence. I’m pretty unsure if astrology is tied to it somehow. I’m always hearing how “Gemini Venus’ always have this chin” or pisces moons all have “this” gaze..etc
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This year’s LGBTQ+ History Month theme is science and innovation. Who are you celebrating, and how?
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I think a nice feature would be to add interest groups, where people can join and discuss certain topics 😋 ( Unless there is one please let me knowww)
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I’ve been in the makeup/skincare space (as an artist, MUA, salesperson, brand educator) for 10+ years—what beauty questions do yall have?
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Im so done with men
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How do you guys feel about men wearing dresses?
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I don’t get it.
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Obsessed with when straight people lean in and whisper “he’s gay” like they’re going to be shot on sight for saying it too loud
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After not feeling the most of confident about my ability to do my job well lately today has reaffirmed that I’ve still got it.
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I just met David Arquette, you’re right remember him as Dewey from the scream movie franchise. He was so nice! It’s so weird randomly meeting someone you had a crush on when you were little.
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Any vegans on here? 🐣🧡
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Anyone plays D&D here? If yes, can you teach me how to play? I wanna play it too
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How are you using social media these days? Posting, scrolling, DMing, deleting?
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627 Made a friend today at my calisthenic place. Progress. 🤍 also making friends in your 30s is challenging.
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life’s better when you kiss boys
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I started watching Looking almost by accident. I’d just finished another very hyped series that’s currently dominating pop culture spaces, and I found myself strangely conflicted. I understand the appeal. It’s emotionally immediate, addictive, and designed to be consumed quickly. But on a structural and narrative level, it feels thin. Superficial. Built around trope recognition rather than genuine exploration. After talking with some friends, I started Looking, and the contrast was immediate. Looking is invested in character interiority, contradiction, and observation. Its writing allows space for silence, hesitation, and unresolved tension. People exist outside of romance, with desires that evolve and identities that aren’t reduced to who they’re sleeping with. The show isn’t chasing payoff. What frustrates me isn’t that people enjoy the shallow thing. Enjoyment is valid. It’s that we collectively elevate work that offers so little psychological and thematic depth, while stories willing to engage with complexity remain secondary.
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Who’s watching the Olympic opening ceremony??
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Is it a red flag to live with a married couple and thier baby?
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Hii guys I think I have cought a very bad flu, i feel kind of dizzy🫨, my whole body hurts and my legs 😭 all the muscles + I feel I don't have energy🫩 +. I lost my appetite. Any home remedy? I would like to avoid as much as possible medicines💊⚕️
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Dangerous idea of the day: should I make an OF? 🌚 Haha
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Hi guys! I’m looking for graduates from the MA fashion at Central Saint Martins and the MA Fashion Design Technology at London College of Fashion. Any info about how to contact alumni groups or similar would be useful too! Tysm 💖
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first date of the year tonight… kinda nervous 🌀
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A man in a suit or a man wearing gym clothes?
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anyone wanna help me out with „dating“? I’m TIRED.
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