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how do y’all deal with the bloating from creatine? took a week off for vacation and felt ✨ SNATCHED ✨
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How it’s going on Friday? 🌞
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Any scalp psoriasis baddies out there bc my head is on FIRE
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A journey to self fulfillment. I’ve started this journey with the essential thing that’s been given… life. Each one of us has a life. Yet we live as if it wasn’t ours but someone else’s, we trade self love for external validation, acceptance for comparison, and as we move towards adulthood life looks gloomy. Shame has taken over you, your bills terrify you, you avoid intimacy and you dilute your worth for 10 minutes of physical connection with someone you barely know. We are taught that love somehow it’s found outside of us, when truly our capacity to love is found within. You expect people to love you, to admire you, to be there for you, and without realizing you have become a vampire of yourself and your life. You drain your life dwelling in the debt not financial, but emotional. You think people owe you connection, people owe you relationships, you think your parents owe you love. When in fact, no one owes anyone anything, we give what we have. You wake up one day, life has gone by, and instead of shaming yourself you realize that this is your life. You can change it, you don’t owe anyone anything and you can find fulfillment in yourself.
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Got pink eye, the doctor told me to take two days off from work. Normally I’d be annoyed because bills need to be paid and trying to save. But with the amount of stress I’ve been put under for the past several weeks from work, I’ll gladly take the extra two days off…
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tell me how what i can do to not be the eye of the storm
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I take days off at work for: My period Mental health My hair It ain’t always about a vacation but time for me in the week.
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my dreams are lucid, as were the memories and now i’m the age you were when you told me you loved me drunk on your bedroom floor, i drove an hour to exist with you in.
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(yet another) horrible day in the news 😭 trans friends in Kansas, the US, and everywhere — I stand with you!!!!!!!! evil, fuck ass lawmakers will never take away your humanity and your power, try as they might.
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Ok but what if I don’t want a job? Why can’t I just make art? Why can’t I just lounge around and think, and imagine and enjoy the rain outside my window? The system is broken and something has to change or I’m gonna lose my mind.
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I’m in the process of a new era of me. I feel like I’ve only been giving the world 50% of myself times to make it 100.
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uh oh i think i like someone! #help
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sick and bed-ridden so The Boyfriend season 2 is my full-time job 🫡
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THIS SHIT BEEN UPGRADED TO A BLIZZARD?????? 20INCHES??????
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You’ll be Proud of That skin Full of Scars
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Experience with being in a thrupple? Or a polyamorous relationship? I wanna hear from you!
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If you’re In your early 30s, what’s ur dating range? I feel like 27 and below is too young no?
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this gym life might kill me..but I love it
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What’s the thing you dream about spending your time doing?
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Good karma, my aesthetic (aesthetic) Keep my conscience clear that's why I'm so magnetic Manifest it (yeah), I finessed it (I finessed it) Take my pen and write some love letters to Heaven
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you got a big dump truck and a lovely heart you got ysl kicks and a red birthmark
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My food influencer friend is coming to town tomorrow I gotta get my nails ready for any features
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To think we’re all disposable – is beauty a sustainable currency in relationships?
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Heyy, I’m looking for dramatic yet deep and meaningful videoclips like lady gaga’s MARRY THE NIGHT masterpiece. Any recs?
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Is there a beatmaker or a producer to help me out with a musical project… cuz im struggling a bit rn🧍
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Lmaoo I was just about to comment the artist name on someone here that had posted a drawing with “credit unknown” and my phone refreshed the page somehow hahahahaha I’m never gonna find that shit again bro
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I am truly trying to like this app but somehow it feels a lot more “curated” towards “perfection” it feels like pandering to the same toxic beauty standards it claims other apps have. It’s giving mean L.A. Gay.
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A guy I work with called me “Queen Bitch” thinking it was an insult… little does he know
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I just knewwww I hated Timmy chalamoo for a good reason 😤
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I need you to understand I’ve recently ended up on a side of TikTok that is ship edits of clavicular and cookieking tagged with #yaoi
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back to the falaheen mode
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I wish I had the confidence/delusion of the man in the gym pretending he’s boxing and has a skipping rope. Surely it’d be easier to actually box and actually use a skipping rope… 🤷‍♂️
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sarah jessica parker is my university graduation speaker so somebody pass me a GODDAMN cosmopolitan
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🗣️ speaking on my first co-organised demonstration tomorrow 💚🤍❤️‍🩹 staying loud for my fellow humans in iran - in their fight for dignity, freedom and democracy
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guys how do i go from a girl’s gay to a gay’s gay T-T send help.
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u people i’m in DIRE need of a lobotomy. i don’t wish to perceive anymore. perceiven’t, if you will.
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Sometimes I get sad when men don’t like that I’m fem, but I always remind myself that the ones who like fem, REALLY like fem
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What desserts yall like? Im bored of my usual sweet treats
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no bc people can be really mean to the hot popular girl ( me) sometimes 😞
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604 I just came across some techno house music and remembered how much I enjoyed it… hmm thinking of going for one sometime
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Happy International Women’s Day! 💕
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Witches - I’m moving into a space with a mirrored wardrobe in the bedroom 😒 does anyone have recs on how to cover it?
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Rainy Thursday is definitely my comfort weather! Perfect day for Scream 7 Early Screening!
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one of the gayest things i’ve done is give my thong to my ex so he can hold it in his purse for me
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I love being my own moodboard
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Pimple in my ear turning into a whole sore throat and jaw pain is insane
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lowk i wanna go out so bad
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