damianb 5 months

Remember, happiness is a choice and positivity is a mind set.

caahmills 6 months

Despite the horrors in life we still have tiramisu and Cicaplast

sailormars 5 months

Reminder for all the people out there… After 2 years tech holds no value in the market. Apple laptops hold some of their value, windows doesn’t.

sailormars 5 months

Serious question, do you feel comfortable being beautiful?

sierramichhh 6 months

I work from 10am-6pm (really 12pm to 6pm) and then get ready/commute/gym from 6pm-12am every weekday…….im losing my fucking mind

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oregano 6 months

popp🤪rs don’t hit anymore. Are there any studies showing amyl, isobutyl, etc… nitrate(s) building tolerance?

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callthemzaddy 6 months

i am constantly excersing my metaphorical heart muscle to listen to others without taking on the weight of the situation, but there’s just absolutely no coexisting with it - especially because i struggle to function in the way the world around me conditioned me. i feel gutted.

sierramichhh 6 months

Admist the news that one of my personal faves pat mcgrath labs is indeed here to stay, I need the girlies to understand that not every brand is for the everyday. Artistry-first brands are still very much needed, respected, and beloved

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jesse-lee 6 months

Today I’m doing a TFP photoshoot with some of my new pieces with the purpose of magazine publications and content for all involved. Anyone in NY would like to assist? Shoot is from 1-4pm in Brooklyn.

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lax 5 months

608 Got a little too enthusiastic talking to a cute guy and now reeling myself in a bit to calm myself down

marygladyshevaa 5 months

when someone become your sunshine, all of a sudden your life becomes lighter

leo.nardo.r 5 months

Some people are WAY to performative for what I can handle

jota 6 months

A never-eeeeeeeeeending midniiiiight suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuun 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

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locke-e 6 months

The best days aren’t always photographed They’re the ones we recall when times are tough They’re the ones that retell memory I am happy to share, The simplest of moments. Ones unbothered from the day to day The times we can rest and restore Make even the smallest thing enjoyable.

highinthepark 6 months

Love, Is a bright star, Glowing in far Southern skies. Look too hard, And its burning flame,Will always hurt your eyes. This one is for those of us who love love but are familiar with its thorns. Langston Hughes

hmln_leo 6 months

New obsession for practicing French is this québécois queer/lesbian podcast I can’t with their accents 😭

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sirkooala 6 months

Hot take (but not really): Dating apps do not work for people who don’t look like the standard. Appearances headline, personality and worth don’t. Go to spaces that will actually hold you in your entirety. ❤️

strawbrry 6 months

this season of Love is Blind should be called: “Love” is Diabolical

momsluvjoe 6 months

hey everyone I’d like to formerly announce that I am going to become a DJ as a part of my 12-step performative male program. Keep your eyes pooped

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sierramichhh 5 months

Denma just turns more and more super villian everyday

beniguess 6 months

Okie little gay people in my phone 🫵👁️👁️ Is it embarrassing to have a monogamous relationship? Or is it a badge of honour? I’m writing a cheeky opinion piece and I wanna know what we think ;)

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derickseng 6 months

How do you tell someone they’re attractive/handsome and actually get a response? I feel like most men leave you on ‘read’ and don’t know how to say thank you. What are your thoughts?

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josepaw 5 months

“ What is this earth without art? Just a rock”

luizmessora 5 months

If it's your calling, it will keep calling. 💫

chandan 6 months

What y’all are doing to find some dates ? Hinge has become the new Grindr so that’s out And grindr is,well that, so im out

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rafaxnew 5 months

I think there is a lot of dissatisfaction in find out how big is the responsibility and how meaningless is the outcome.

sierramichhh 6 months

I love how everyone just brings extra fixins to kbbq😭😭

strawbrry 5 months

eye infection + 2 grant rejections in one day let’s go girls 💅

lumpia 5 months

Ai que delícia o verão

byjoshjames 6 months

If you're participating in Valentine's Day, what does that look like?

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sailormars 6 months

We are creating this

marlowe-f 5 months

Submit your poetry, art, photography, and essays. Do it.

sierramichhh 6 months

They caught our good brother in christ on the outskirts of mar a lago😩😩

tomasderico 6 months

When you start isotretinoin (Accutane), your dermatologist usually increases the dosage gradually. I just started my second round and asked not to begin low and work my way up — I wanted to start at the highest dose right away. My poor face and lips… they’re sensitive, super dry, and a little sore. 🤧🫣

catdad 5 months

Y’all are pretty. But what I really need is more cat pics plsthx

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zayn 5 months

are you satisfied with an average life? do i need to lie to make my way in life? i swear, marina gotta be on every overachiever’s playlist

mikevi 6 months

Everyone thinks of the same style of cowboy hat because of books!! cowboys wore any hat they could get. Thanks to some books and artists, one style of hat Became The cowboy hat.

marco 6 months

Of course I know you. I’ve seen you before, well… I dreamed of you. But no, not really a dream per se, more like a feeling. I felt you. Wasn’t it you? That warm sensation in my spine, the winged bugs in my chest, as you passed in front of me… I could have sworn it smelled like how you smell. No, I don’t know you. You just look like… like you could make me happy. Your hands, they seem crafty, quick-thinking fingers, able to weave my sorrow into something else… could you stay long enough to teach me? Do you know me? I hope not or at least not who I was ten years ago, or even last night. I’m not like that anymore, except for the parts I still keep. I tried, I really did, but I can’t unlearn it. We could learn each other…get to know each other. I can turn anything into a joke, really. I could make your lips ache from smiling… at least I’d try. Do you have stories? I’d love to listen to them; who wronged you, and how you made it right for you. Would you like a coffee? The kettle’s on. Sparkling water? No? I made hummus, and I still have some leftover cake. If this is nothing, let it be a good nothing.

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giving-mildly-impressive 6 months

Hey Horror Fans, What’s your fav horror movie?

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sierramichhh 6 months

Praying that I can afford the simone rocha x adidas collab bc I NEEEDDDD IT

giving-mildly-impressive 6 months

Biggest fear is that I am building you for another man, greatest blessing is that I am building you into the man you were always meant to be, even if I don’t get to keep you.

zayacab 6 months

What are yall reading right now? I’m adding books to read to my monthly list

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sierramichhh 6 months

I got a lil too excited abt the snow day like it applies to me😩

fedelluss 6 months

Looking for a studio/room in Paris, manifesting help from the communty

aphrodite.aphroditus 5 months

“And even after all my logic and theory, I add a motherfucker so you ignorant **** hear me” -Lauryn Hill

marcus_is_alive 6 months

Where are all the car gays at? Lmk what you’re driving these days.

tomasderico 6 months

I want an olive branch tattoo around my neck/shoulder, but some friends told me it’s “too basic.” 😩 Please — am I wrong for thinking I’d look hot with it? 🤧 I think I’d look cool🫣

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sam2bh 6 months

finally finished heated rivalry and let me tell you i cared so much more about scott and kip being together than i did the main characters

luisteran 6 months

saw a cute boy at the gym yesterday, how does one even approach in a non-awkward way??

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catdad 6 months

Hot take: Lady Gaga had no business being on that stage today.

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benno37 6 months

Does anyone play multiplayer video games? What are you playing?

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