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Casting call for any London based models! Hit me up and DM me if you’re interested - it’s a paid shoot, modelling jewellery (check out my profile to get an idea). Happy to chat more if you’ve got any questions at all!
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Millions of Americans can’t afford basic necessities, and yet the government continues to fund and involve itself with wars….MY GOD!!!
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Happy International Womens Day!!! 🥳🎀🌎
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just took a delicious afternoon couch nap
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Good karma, my aesthetic (aesthetic) Keep my conscience clear that's why I'm so magnetic Manifest it (yeah), I finessed it (I finessed it) Take my pen and write some love letters to Heaven
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All men do in the gym is stare…say something or get tf on no shade
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Tom Fords new collection is a sensual haven! 🤤 Haider is such a master tailor 👌
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Handed in my notice today after one month. Teaching is one of the most confronting and mentally challenging jobs I’ve ever experienced. It is definitely not for me.
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When he blocks me cause he realizes I’m not a slave to US propaganda and Imperialism, #goodriddance
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How it’s going on Friday? 🌞
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Learning that talking stage doesn’t mean they get a basket. It’s the freest I’ve felt in dating in a while.
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A psychic told me I feel like someone has wronged me and that I have an enemy near…..
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I’ve been just freely telling literally anyone when I’m on my period for years. Like yeah if I’d tell a cis male coworker that I had a headache they’re also hearing about my cramps, I don’t give a fuck.
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Samsung objectively is better than Apple… yet I will always choose an iPhone…
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You’ll be Proud of That skin Full of Scars
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you got a big dump truck and a lovely heart you got ysl kicks and a red birthmark
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back to the falaheen mode
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Just got the pictures from a photoshoot I did last month, shared them with friends and we all cried😭 the support from them has been so lovely. Modeling as a side quest was not on my 2026 bingo card but yay
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if the Epstein files are triggering your PTSD symptoms and churning up adolescent trauma you’re not alone ❤️‍🩹❤️ these heinous acts seek to isolate us but they can never take away our solidarity and compassion for each other’s suffering. I love you and I’m grateful to have you standing beside me in the fight for justice ❤️🫂 we have NOTHING to be ashamed of.
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Any scalp psoriasis baddies out there bc my head is on FIRE
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I experience deep physical and mental discomfort when I’m talking to someone and find out they believe in organized religion.
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so I have been dating this guy for quite a lot, I like him and I like spending my time with him but I think I’m not developing any romantic feelings for him and I don’t see them coming, so I’m gonna meet him now and tell him how I feel. i’m so scared of hurting him or breaking his heart, but I really don’t see how I can keep going and pushing something that I don’t see coming… I’m scared he’ll feel used by me. Argh
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Gays, be honest: what part of gay culture do you participate in purely out of peer pressure?
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looking through all the years of your queer upbringing, I wonder, what was the most important thing you had to lose in order to find yourself?
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What’s the thing you dream about spending your time doing?
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tell me how what i can do to not be the eye of the storm
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WHOS READY FOR SCARY MOVIE 6?!?! 🍿🍿
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gays being worried about wether or not utopia is gonna be cancelled bc of what’s happening in mexico….liike Kim there are people dying
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A journey to self fulfillment. I’ve started this journey with the essential thing that’s been given… life. Each one of us has a life. Yet we live as if it wasn’t ours but someone else’s, we trade self love for external validation, acceptance for comparison, and as we move towards adulthood life looks gloomy. Shame has taken over you, your bills terrify you, you avoid intimacy and you dilute your worth for 10 minutes of physical connection with someone you barely know. We are taught that love somehow it’s found outside of us, when truly our capacity to love is found within. You expect people to love you, to admire you, to be there for you, and without realizing you have become a vampire of yourself and your life. You drain your life dwelling in the debt not financial, but emotional. You think people owe you connection, people owe you relationships, you think your parents owe you love. When in fact, no one owes anyone anything, we give what we have. You wake up one day, life has gone by, and instead of shaming yourself you realize that this is your life. You can change it, you don’t owe anyone anything and you can find fulfillment in yourself.
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how do y’all deal with the bloating from creatine? took a week off for vacation and felt ✨ SNATCHED ✨
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this gym life might kill me..but I love it
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my dreams are lucid, as were the memories and now i’m the age you were when you told me you loved me drunk on your bedroom floor, i drove an hour to exist with you in.
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Friends have been asking me about my dating life a lot lately. And honestly haven’t been on a date in like 6 months. Is anyone else in dating-hibernation atm?
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Feeling extremely stagnant and lacking creative spark in life but on the bright side I made a perfect carbonara without scrambling the eggs so at least there’s that
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Got pink eye, the doctor told me to take two days off from work. Normally I’d be annoyed because bills need to be paid and trying to save. But with the amount of stress I’ve been put under for the past several weeks from work, I’ll gladly take the extra two days off…
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Big fan of how teenage girls engage with media
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Heyy, I’m looking for dramatic yet deep and meaningful videoclips like lady gaga’s MARRY THE NIGHT masterpiece. Any recs?
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sweet apricot, tastes just like the love i had spread it on like paint, under the sun with his hands in my back pockets isn’t this what it’s all about.
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I am truly trying to like this app but somehow it feels a lot more “curated” towards “perfection” it feels like pandering to the same toxic beauty standards it claims other apps have. It’s giving mean L.A. Gay.
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Got two more inches of snow this morning but shes melting already!
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So I have this handsome older Italian doctor, also a fellow gay man and whenever I see him we just both giggle at eachother while I have my eyes glued to his huge biceps 👀 I feel like I should compliment them…
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You’ll know I’m getting irritated when I start smiling at the most awkward times…
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I don’t think people understand… a lot of these new artists can’t sing… like AT ALL
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no bc people can be really mean to the hot popular girl ( me) sometimes 😞
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I promise you—it’s okay to have a personality. There’s no point in being pretty if you’re as boring as watching paint dry.
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u people i’m in DIRE need of a lobotomy. i don’t wish to perceive anymore. perceiven’t, if you will.
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lowk i wanna go out so bad
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